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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

Losing your V card: does is hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay, before the question, i would like to give you some background onto the situation. I am thinking of losing my virginity, im 18 and i have a boyfriend. We are not in a hurry to lose our virginity to each other, just thinking about it. We kn...

We're 20 year old virgins, who want to keep trying to have sex. Any tips on how we can relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years and we have talked about having sex for a while, last time we tried it hurt me a lot and we haven't tried since. We're both virgins BTW. we are planning to have a weekend alone no room mates, no ...

I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! Will I ever get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - We're both 18 and after nearly two years, we're over. I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! I have no idea what I'm going to do without him! I based my whole life plan on him! I was in love with him, ...

If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, will sex hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I've been told something, and I just want to know if it's true or not. If your hymen is broken before you have sex for the first time, sex won't hurt. Is this true?? If so, can you break your hymen yourself?? And will it hurt??...

Should I have sex with him? I told him I love him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl, I'm a virgin, and I have been in love with a guy for 6 years. I know he has never felt the same, but we are planning to have sex together. I trust him completely, and I feel so ready to be with him. He's nearly 19, and all ...

I respect my girlfriend's wishes of no sex before marriage but I need to find a way of relieving myself of sexual frustration. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 25, male, virgin, in a very serious relationship since the last 5 yrs. My girlfriend and I will definitely be getting married in about 2-3 years. We have been intimate with each other on many occasions but never had intercourse. Further we ...

I am smart and attractive but I freeze when I talk to girls, even my friend says I'm hopeless...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - i'm 23 and have never known any girls my age. i can't have a conversation with anyone of the opposite sex because i freeze up. i am smart and attractive but that doesn't seem to matter. even my friend said i'm hopeless and now i'm starting to think ...

What can be wrong with me. I'm so unlucky in love? Please, I feel depressed and need help!? All the guys I'm attracted to are unavailable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - First of all, I'm 31 years old and still a virgin and haven't had a BF. I was brought out in a religious family. Yet, I never found myself attracted to anyone and have a relationship with even inside the church. The same happened in school, I wasn't ...

I have clear discharge after having sex, is this normal? I'm sore too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - hi, yesterday i had sex for the first time in a year and now i notice a day after i feel quite sore and irritated down below. I also have a clear discharge with no scent. Is this normal after not having sex for so long? ...

How do you tell people "we met on the internet" or do you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys. I'm 22 and i'm a virgin - and had minimal experience with girls. I've decided I want to have sex whenever it feels right for me (i.e. not wait until I find 'the one', but a one night stand is a possibility if the opportunity pres...

I love him but does he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for several months. I lost my virginity to him hoping we will end up dating but he said he just got out of a 3 year relationship. I dont really know why, but I kept on sleeping with him for 2 months. I know it was stupid, ...

I wish I'd waited. Am I wrong for feeling guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for six months now and in the last month, we've had sex 4 times. he says he's perfectly content with what he have done and does not take it back, although i know that deep down he wishes he hadn't done ...

Always a Best Man, never a Groom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - This is my situation. I have been outta the dating game for a very long time. My last serious relationship was 10 years ago. I've dated maybe twice since then. I have a full-time job and am always busy with that and family. I'm considered middle ...

How should I go about getting close to this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I know this is the age old question and i feel quite childish asking it but i am 24 and am a virgin. I have met a girl that i have never felt this way about before and i think we are getting quite close. But i feel like i have all the anxieties and ...

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he ...

Lost my virginity while my bf was away! Will he know I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has gone away to study. When he left i was a virgin but now I'm not. Will he know that I'm not a virgin? I dont want to tell him the truth bcause i know what will happen. ...

I want to give him the best honeymoon ever! By the way?...We are both virgins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Well, I'm getting married very soon and as big of a shocker this is...I'm still a virgin. And when me and Troy get married, I want to give him the best honeymoon ever. He is still a virgin too, so I want to start things off slowly. I was thin...

I'm embarrassed about posting this, but I seriously need the help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Well its quite embarrassing, but Ive only just turned 14 and i have a spot on my testicles that always itches. Its always in the same spot though, its strange and i dont want any of my family to know. But the craziest part is I've never ever had ...

Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...

When guys notice me I get scared and push them away, may be because I am a virgin and experience pain while masturbating (fingering) - hence I am very worried about my first time! Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5896 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have never had a real relationship. I have only dated one guy and it was for a month. (This didnt really count though as he had just broken up with his gf of 3 years, and I was his rebound). I can like a guy for months, but as ...

Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - My boyfiend and I are both virgins. We have talked about sex and decided we are ready for it. Can sex be a way of saying "I love you"? How? What makes it such? ...

He cheated and doesn't want my autistic brother to be a big part of my life! Can this still work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been dating this wonderful guy for over 2 and a half years. He is my best friend, and he has always treated me amazingly. Recently we had sex for the first time and lost our virginities to one another, and we've talked about ...

Just lost my virginity..so what's this piece of skin hanging in my vagina area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - I just lost my virginity, and i was bleeding heavily as soon as we did it. We stopped but i was still bleeding. I noticed the next day that there was about an inch long piece of skin just hanging on my vagina. what is it? And how do i get rid of it ...

My boyfriend doesn't believe I lost my virginity to him and thinks I've deceived him all this time. How can I convince him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

20 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend doesn't believe that I lost my virginity to him. But I did. One, he knows that I gave oral sex to a friend (no longer a friend actually) years ago. Two, I lied to him about this. But of course I came clean, that's why he knows. But th...

In love and we gave our virginity to each other. So why does her past bother me? All she did was kiss a guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity...

Was she just testing me about saying she wasn't a virgin to see if I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - i belong to muslim family i was going to marry afther 3 month with my gf .i did not sex with my gf.i knew her 8 months ago she never told me about her past but before one month she told me she is not virgin becouse she raped.i was mad at her why ...

I'm 15, I feel like I'm mentally ready for sex, just not physically, is this normal and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - i am 15 years old, my boyfriend and i havent been together for a very long time but we'v been close for over a year. He is a year older then me and isnt a virgin. he knows i am and he respects it but i feel like im mentally ready, just not ...

I'm unsure about losing my virginity. I love my boyfriend, but I promised myself I would wait until marriage.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 month and 15 days (( Yes, I counted the days, shoot me )) and we've been talking about sex latley. We played the nervous game one time and he was suppose to go in my pants, but he went in my underwear by ...

Will he judge me for being a 28 yr old virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 28 year old virgin, I've just started seeing a new guy but I am worried that he will judge me and will find it weird. ...

How can we make our first time about showing our love and not just about sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later his parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. After ...

My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago. I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever...

I want to return the favor of having oral sex, with my boyfriend, what tips can you give me, and does pubic hair turn guys off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Alright. So I've been with my first boyfriend for more than a year and I truely believe we are in love. For remarkable respect for my personal values and both of our readiness, we didn't get physical until the past few months. Lately, I've been ...

The stretch marks and hair on my body, make me not want to have sex with my boyfriend, for fear he will be turned off, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - So There Is This Guy We Have Been Off And On Since The Fourth Grade I Love Him Very Much We Have Not Been Together For Like Two Months We Text A Lot And He Always Tells Me He Wants To Have Sex With Me And Im A Virgin But Its Like I Have Stretch ...

I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginit...

I want to stay virgin until marriage but the idea of marrying a girl who will dislike sex is haunting me as I have a high libido. Please advise.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hello People, This is my first time in here and in any website of the like. I came across your website when researching and I found it nice and friendly so here I am. I am a 28 year old virgin male. It is weird I know but well I like to have s...

I can't seem to penetrate her, we are both virgins, any recommended positions/tecnhiques?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are virgins and when we try to have sex, I cant seem to go inside her. She seems so tight. We had done loads of foreplay and she is very wet and moist but im not having much joy. Any positions/techniques to try or what to do?...

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

I can only get about a third of the way in. We've tried everything. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now, we are both virgins and have tried to have sex many times, but whenever we do try i can only get my penis in about a third of the way before it starts to hurt her, she says its like a sharp pain in ...

Why did she bleed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - i tried to hav sex wit my gf but could nt do it as it was our first time and it was hurting her.my penis didnt even go half way inside.we wer nt using a condom.the next day she had heavy bleeding also.wld she become pergnant???what could be the ...

Can I get a purity ring even if I'm not a Christian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - im not christian and i want to wear a purity ring. my parents dont know abou them so i dont want to explain how i wont have sex. so i was wondering can i get one even though im not christian? also can i buy it for myself and not get my parents t...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

Not bleeding after first time sex, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Having sex for the first time and not bleeding is that normal????...

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity an...

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

Should I worry that we have sex all the time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...

I can't move on even though we've broken up, and he can't forget me either. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - its been months already since i broke up with my exboyfriend. and i still have not moved on a bit. is it because i lost my virginity to him or what? im unsure because at times i will hate him to the core until i get too disgusted with my past with ...

If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...

Am I right for wanting to lose weight before I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - can someone please give me an opinion! i met this guy about 2 years ago through a friend, we only met like 3 or 4 times but i fancied the pants off him! then he randomly added me on msn about 2 months later and we got chatting! hes proper amazin a...