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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have tried to do it and i've not managed to get an erection! I do not normally have erection problems therefore I know it must be down to nerves, and if it was to happen again I think there could be serious problems for our relationship. Any advice?
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reader, ninja-style +, writes (8 October 2008):
i had your same problem. i had had sexual experiences before, but never actually had sex. i was very nervous about having sex and especially putting on the condom in case it went down for some reason haha.but i got over it, basically i just relaxed and while we were doing forplay just concentrated on how much i fancied her. i tried not to think about my worries because it would just make it worse.Just try not to think about it and concentrate on how sexy you find her and you should be able to do it.Believe me this was a major problem for me for about 8 months but you can get over it!
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reader, -S  +, writes (1 October 2008):
At your age, I've got one piece of advice - don't try any pills or anything.
-S
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Awwwww. Maybe you are afraid of hurting her. Are there any worries going on in your head before you try to do it with her?
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