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writes:hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for six months now and in the last month, we've had sex 4 times. he says he's perfectly content with what he have done and does not take it back, although i know that deep down he wishes he hadn't done anything and and that he'd waited. i feel content as well, but to that same point: i wish i'd waited. i feel guilty. am i wrong for feeling guilty? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha, thanks whoever was that last anonymous write. we've thought about it and it is what we are going to do. but in a couple of years...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): No, you are not wrong for feeling guilty. I felt guilty too. Maybe you should get married. That's what I did! lol Then the temptation is no longer that tempting because it's not "forbidden." lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): hey, virginity is way overrated these days anyway just think of it like you've had the experience and it was new and you feel content make the most of it and dont worry this is just the start there will be wayyy more times in your life youre gonna have sex many way better many not so good etc. even if you feel you did make a mistake it's not that bad honestly, you didnt give it up at 14 or 15 did you dont feel guilty did you enjoy it though?? dont beat yourself up it's your own experience!! xxx
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Not at all, your feelings can't ever be wrong. How do you 'know' that he wishes he'd've waited? You can't 'know' if he hasn't told you.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Your not wrong but at the time you must have both felt you wanted to as you have done it 4 times.
Dont feel wrong for not waiting as it's done now and cant be changed.
Good luck x
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