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writes:i am 15 years old, my boyfriend and i havent been together for a very long time but we'v been close for over a year. He is a year older then me and isnt a virgin. he knows i am and he respects it but i feel like im mentally ready, just not physically. I dont enjoy "down there" been touched because it can be painfull. Is this normal? What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): I know where u are coming from but I am a guy wanting to lose my v-card too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): well, if you think that your ready and hes not pressuring you at all then i mean its your chice. but remember, god only gave you one chance to loose it. virginity isnt something that should be thrown away, you only get it once. so think....would you regret it?
and maybe the guys arnt doing it right haha or maybe you wernt attracted to them as much as you are with this guy. just make sure he treats you right,if anything does tend to happen.
sorry if i affended you about the god thing haha
take care! be safe!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 September 2008):
You just haven't learned how to be mentally turned on yet. You need to figure out how you enjoy being touched elsewhere and that will make being touched "down there" much better.
You should be doing foreplay with your boyfriend for a long time before you have sex... I mean that you should be getting and enjoying the fingering and oral stuff.
Relax and experiment with yourself as well as him. You'll get there when you figure out the right mood.
Good Luck!! xx
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