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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

Am I being too demanding? His excuse is, ''yes, but just not yet.''

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. We do not live together. He wants me to move in with him, but I won't, because his ex-wife still has a key, and he refuses to change the locks. I don't feel safe leaving my things in his house ...

We used to text a lot up until yesterday. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - I've been dating a girl for about a month or so no. We really get on and when we are together time flys, we text quite a lot too.. More or less every morning she sends a good morning message, if she falls asleep before receiving my good night t...

My partner versus my children. Am I over-reacting about it all ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I've had a big argument with my partner and I'm wondering if I'm in the wrong about it all. I have two children from a previous relationship who are 13 and 11 and I think they are well behaved. They do extremely well in school, at parents evening ...

Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...

Time to break up? Has the love faded? We talk less now and have less sex now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Don't know if I should break up with my gf of 8 months. As the relationships progressed we've moved apart, we speak less, have sex a lot less, and don't get on aswell. The thing is, I know this is expected to some degree as a relationship goes on. ...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates. Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it. There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

Am I cheating on my boyfriend? ? Hope not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Am I cheating on my boyfriend!! I downloaded tinder to relook at my old profile which he knew about and I used it for a couple of days and got chatting to one Man for a while. Little thing or anything but i dont any feeling toward him ! But ...

I want to communicate more openly with my mother, but how? And once a girl is not a virgin, does one tell a parent or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and will be going to university this year. I've always been really independent and mature (so I've been told many times) and apparently act beyond my years. I guess I've always felt the need to be independent, considering my father being ...

Why do many men prefer a tight vagina? Or do they? 2

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Why do many men find a tight vagina so appealing? I was a late bloomer and lost my virginity to my current husband when I was in my 40's. I was married previously to a man who suffered erectile difficulties and was never able to have intercourse...

He's still receiving messages from women on a dating site he joined earlier. How can I raise the subject with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I met my man through a dating site and all is fabulous 13 weeks on. He says I'm the one for him, and I love him dearly. Since we mutually agreed, that we are 'in a relationship' we both decided to cancel our match accounts. Mine is gone complete...

How do I deal with my rude and bossy co-workers? 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I am in a sticky situation. I've been at my job for a little over 6 months. I think I'm rather a good workers and me and the managers hit it off well. The problem I'm having is with some of my co workers. I know it sounds juvenile but there ar...

Where do I stand in this relationship? What can I say to him to get the answers I need? 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - So I've been talking/meeting this guy since last May, which is nearly a year ! He says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because his last girlfriend cheated on him. And he tells me to be patient for a relationship because he will have to...

His feelings for me changed so quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2290 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Can someone's feeling for you change in two months? My ex and I broke up in September 2015. We didn't speak for 4 months then out of the blue one day he texted me. We started talking, and hanging out as just friends. We talked about stuff like...

Dealing with my Boyfriend's Existential Crisis

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. It is a delicate relationship, as he has never been with any other woman sexually or as seriously as he has been with me. About a year and a half ago, he broke up with me. It was ...

Is my relationship healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We got into a relationship pretty fast. I expressed how not having sex until marriage was important to me but after a month he talked me into it. We have went out a lot and he says things like this relationship...

Despite my scepticism, will I ever, in the future, be likely to have a close connection and a loving mutually satisfying relationship with a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - Info- 23/F/from the UK Ok so I'm gonna try and be as basic as I can with my question, so you don't have to read pages of rubbish lol I'm basically extremely skeptical that I'll EVER meet anybody in the future who I'll feel a close connection...

My wife's co-worker gifted her diamond jewellery. Would "just friends" do this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - My wife recently received a "HW" diamond ankle bracelet and matching toe rings (2) from a fellow worker who she swears is just a good friend. They go out of town on business trips two or three times a month staying for at lest 2 nights each ...

We broke up and we're not a couple any more. Should I be concerned that he's recently had a tattoo of my name inked on his neck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I'm completely puzzled as to why but my ex boyfriend has just this week gone and got my name tattooed onto the back of his neck and I'm worried he now thinks we are back together after I have been talking to him about the reason I left him. We wer...

He seems irritated, miserable and annoyed. Could smoking weed be affecting his moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I've just been on holiday with my partner and children and we've come home and argued. I don't know what to say to him and I hope you could give me some advice. The first two days away he was smiling and laughing but then the third day he sai...

How can I successfully connect with, and keep, new friends with good souls and good conversation? I seem to be losing friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - Lately I've been losing lots of my friends. I've been feeling very distant and annoyed by the people around me and i get very negative vibes from them. My two best friends and i are already drifting apart,and their attitude towards me really c...

My parents don't believe in boy-girl friendships but I need my guy friends in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - hey guys, i'm 19 years old, college is not far away from my parents' house, so i still live with them. actually they are strict, and they don't believe in a girl-boy friendship.. for them, a girl should only have girl friends. However, I have thr...

Boyfriend has still kept nude pics of his ex despite being with me for 4 years and 2 kids together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - So I was trying to get photos off of my camera and save them to my external hard drive using my boyfriends computer. I Accidentally clicked on his porn folder (I don't care that he has porn saved to his computer) my eye was caught by a photo of...

I queried my husband about an App he has on his phone. Do I let it go or do I go deeper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - My husband was checking his phone in front of me and I saw that he has a chat lock app. I asked him why and he said that he hates when I see his texts. I was like WTF, I have NEVER checked his phone or his WhatsApp chats. If he hands me his pho...

Is it worth breaking up over this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - Alright so this is kind of a confusing situation for me and I'm really in need of opinions/advice. I've been with my fiance for a little over 3 years. A couple months ago, I found out that he was talking to another woman basically the same way...

Is it weird that I am 19 years old and I still hang out with my parents ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - Hello, Well, i am 19 years old, i am studying in college, but still living with my parents. The thing is i don't hang out with my friends: i still don't drive and we live far away from the city, and there's no public transport nearby. So whene...

Ho do I deal with her speaking FOR my Dad all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Dad's girlfriend is always speaking FOR my dad. She comes off very possessive but in an enthusiastic way. Constantly bragging about how she is with my dad. I didn't think much of it at first but overtime I have seen more signs of her narcissistic ...

Can a relationship survive if there is no intellectual compatibility at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, going on 8. It was really good in the beginning but now it feels like things changed, at least for me. He's one year younger than I am, and that didn't seem like a problem at first because I th...

Money is tight. Lots of financial pressure. How do I get him to see that he doesn't have enough money to attend the car race ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - Been with my fiance for 3 years. Currently We are BROKE. Had to cancel wedding (was meant to be next month) can't even elope cause we have no money for that. I had celebrant asking when we are putting deposit down and my fiance said "we need to ...

Can this very complex relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

15 April 2017 (M) - Ok so to start with I'm in a fairly new relationship with a girl who I do care quite a lot for and I feel this relationship is worth persevering with. When we are together things are really great. Since the beginning we seem to be very comforta...

I believe I am the one for him. Is his staring at me significant? He likes this other girl who doesn't like him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - In school I really like this boy who is my best friend's ex. He always stares at me and told my friend I was pretty but he likes this other girl who doesn't like him back. I really want to talk to him and make him realize that I am the one for him....

I have my ex husband's last name. My current boyfriend wants me to change back to my maiden name. Should I?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend does not like that I have kept the surname of my ex husband. It is just easier as my child's last name would be the same as mine. My boyfriend said it does not matter if my child's last name is different from his mother. I ...

Do you think that something else is going on here, what are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - So yesterday I was talking with “A” a good male friend of mine from university,and I was talking about myself and that I had a boyfriend(“S” ) for some time now, this and that…., and “A” happens to know my boyfriend from university because they ...

How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

14 April 2017 (M) - Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...

Should I message him just one more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - I went on a date with a guy who i really fancy ( i had already met him before so not a stranger ) He also said i was better than he thought . I left him a message on the dating site we are on saying if he wants to meet up again to contact me, ...

Was sending that message to my BF the best option? Or did I just stoke the fire more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have been friends for years before that. One thing I know about him is that when he gets upset he doesn't want to talk right away so when I know he's upset I'll just leave him alone until he's ...

Why is it a sought after fantasy, that satisfies so many men, to want to watch women hurt and degraded during a porn film?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - With the proliferation and popularity these days of extreme hardcore porn much of which depicts violence towards women , do men still see women as worthwhile individuals or are we just sexual objects for their gratification? Although I understand p...

Do you think this guy at school might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - I like this boy who dated my best friend. We don't talk at all, but my friends send him pictures of us and one day my friend sent a picture of us to him. She asks if he thinks I'm pretty and he responds yeah. He always looks at me at schoo...

Am I selfish and bad to be feeling so disappointed that he reneged on his original decision to aim to propose to me soon?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have talked about getting married for a while, and a few months back he told me when he'd hope to propose. I was getting very excited. That time-frame hasn't happened yet, however now he is saying he simply cannot afford the ring...

The father of my children is unwell. What strategies might help me cope with his behaviour, actions and his stalking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Relationship stArted 7-8 years ago sent peaches and cream but the first couple months were beautiful. I met him at a time of my life i was hurting and separated from my husband. Anyway I been recalling thinking heavy on our relationship. We...

Are my own strong feelings for guy number one affecting my feelings for guy number two? Is this why I can't commit ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Six years ago, I was going through a very weird stage in my life. Mentally. The following year, I ended up being diagnosed with anxiety and impulsive control disorder. During this time I met this guy, and my whole life changed. He is the male...

My housemate has invited her new Bf to stay in my home over Easter. I feel intimidated and think he's a criminal. What can I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - My housemate (lodger) has recently starting dating someone from a foreign organised crime background and they are staying over this weekend in my home. My housemate met this person on holiday 5 weeks ago and has been seeing this person every week...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

How can we solve our relationship and jealousy issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I've been dealing with jealousy as one of the problems in my relationship lately. I try to ignore and keep it together but nothing is working. A few weeks ago, a girl randomly chatted with my boyfriend through Facebook and I got jealous because ...

My unidentified online friend has reappeared on line. It is him. Should I reveal who I am to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

12 April 2017 (M) - Hi I have a difficult situation. A year ago I met a guy online. All was good but then he stopped texting. Last month we matched on a different website. Neither of us have a photo up. From what he has told me I know this guy is the one who I m...

Large wedding or an intimate wedding that we can afford? How can this be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - “Dan” and I are both 27, living together, and recently engaged and married. We plan to have our wedding in 10 months time however have different approaches on costs and guest list, so we are brainstorming having two celebrations. I prefer an in...

My husband and his co-worker have feelings for each other. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - Let me start from the beginning if I may. About 2 weeks ago my husband said one of his supervisors at the factory where he works 3rd shift came up to him while he was loading a truck and harassed him about being too close to a girl who has a bad re...

Am I being hurtful to my ex by choosing to move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - I feel like I'm being horrible making the decision to move away from my ex boyfriend and move nearly 70 miles away to live with my boyfriend of a year. Basically when we were 16, my ex and I had a son. We were only together 4 months when I found ou...

My Gf is 14 and I'm 17. Once I turn 18 and she turns 15 will it still be ok to date her? Can't find an answer anywhere

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2816 days ago

11 April 2017 (M) - Hello, I am currently in a relationship with an absolutely amazing girl for 4 months and we are going to the same school, and we live in Washington state but at the end of this school year she has to move to the other side of this same state but I ...

We've split up, yet he wants to stay friends? Should I wait for him? Help !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

11 April 2017 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 27 male, who was in a relationship with a 25 male. We have each had long term relationships in the past but this felt like something else! We had instant chemistry, a great connection. After a few months he started ...