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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Boyfriend's parents disapprove but mine don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I just moved to America a few months ago and soon after met a boy I really really like. We started dating and just recently hit the 6 month mark. The problem is his parents. His parents a originally from Korea and are very traditional. Since he...

My boyfriend's wife says he is lying about getting a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I am with a guy who is separated from his wife 5 years ago. He came to America as a refugee 3 years ago and she is overseas with their son. All his family and relatives knows about me and the fact that they are separated and he is waiting for ...

Girlfriend of 4 years cheated, I forgave and she's still cheating! I'm afraid to leave home anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

30 October 2016 (M) - Hey guys, Im new to this kind of thing however i don't know where else to turn to for this so figured it's time to ask here. so right to it... Me and my gf have been together for over 4 years now... we've had our ups and downs like anyone el...

Can't shake feeling that ex will come back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - My ex and I had a LDR for 1 month shy of 2 years. During the relationship there were many fights, and we'd often break up and reconcile constantly - sometimes multiple times a month. I'm very aware that a bulk of our problems came from me lying to ...

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

Why am I afraid of loving him? He's serious about me and the chemistry is intense

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Why am I afraid of loving him? I met him a year and 5 months ago at a salon were he did my hair I remember we had such a great conversion as he was busy with my hair, after that he asked to call me and he took my number from the register, ever since ...

Trust ring--what should I have engraved on it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend, and I made many mistakes. I'm getting him a promise ring and I want it to make up for all of that, to show him he can trust me and I won't ever make the same mistakes again. What should be engraved on the ring? ...

Does anyone have any experience of feeling "numb" after a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend dumped me. We had been together one year and friends for 3. Everything was great in our relationship, we had lots in common and planned to spend the rest of our lives with each other. 2 weeks before we broke up we st...

His family don't think my family are good enough. Should I hope that he will accept me? I fear this relationship could leave me brokem hearted

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - Hey everyone! I'm a total mess right now and in a desperate attempt to seek advise I'm here. I was in a very serious relationship with a man for a year and half.I met his family,we were thinking of marriage planning kids and then all of a sudden ...

My sister is aggressive and opinionated. Would it be OK if I skipped Christmas this year and stayed home to avoid my sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - I'm having a dilemma over Christmas Day and I could do with some advice. I have a small family consisting of my sister, mother and grandmother. i didn't get on particularly well with my sister- we only see each other three times a year at family o...

I don't think his behaviour is ok. He told me to 'get over it'. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago after a night out I ended up "making out" with a co worker that I'd liked for ages. He basically said that he'd had feelings for me for a while too and hadn't really felt that way before. We texted for a while afterwards until...

Should I now offer to pay more rent when my mother come to live with us, temporarily? My mother and I will share a room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - Hi! I'm currently living with two friends, but my mother is going to move in with us from another country, so we are all going to live together for a few months until my mother and I move to a place for just the two of us. Meanwhile me and my mo...

How should I deal with my wife's kinky up and down thoughts? ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

26 October 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this and offer advice if able. My question is how do I deal with my wife's constant changing thoughts on sex and her naughty behavior. For some backstory, we're both mid 30's, been mar...

BF got caught basically cheating, he hasn't reached out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We have had trust issues because he got a girls number on a trip, and texted her flirting throughout and I found out about it. He said he made a dumb mistake and blah blah blah if I found out about ...

Husband going to be alone for a week at training. He told me I couldn't go but I don't trust him. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

25 October 2016 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have wrote here before and expressed that I have trust issues with my husband. He has done things in the past to earn my distrust. Anyway he is going out of town for a week for training for work. He at first told me that I could ...

I think my mom's cheating on my step dad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I really need some advice right now. I think my mum is cheating, or about to cheat on my stepdad. It sickens me to even think about it. Long story short, last year there was an incident where my mum found out that my stepdad was messaging and ...

What are the signs that a partner has had or is having an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Has anyone had a partner whos had an online affair and or very inappropriate social media flirting that can give me advice on what the possible signs are please?... For a long time Ive been extremely worried about a lot of my boyfriends behaviou...

What Is wrong with my friend of 30 years? How can I tell him to lose my number and block him from my internet page?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have come in contact with an ex-flame who makes me smile from ear to ear we have been knowing one other for 30 years. He is 47 and I just turned 45 we both have children and they are grown and on their own.So now he and I are single w...

Can you help? Seeking tips on how to move on when you finally realize that the love of your life is no longer available to you or no longer loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 October 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, So I’m the same guy who wrote these two posts. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mixed-signals-from-my-crush.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fwb-has-f...

I was the first Gf he ever had. Is he now over me? Or is he protecting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - i was seeing this guy for a few months and it was going so well but we both knew that at the end of summer o had to go back to study abroad for 3 months. When I left I told him maybe we shouldn't try long distance because I really liked him and ...

Dating but can't hang out. We text and he gives me butterflies. Why is this happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals ...

Are there any strategies to deal with my reactions to the behaviour of his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Ive been with my partner 3 and a half years. Whilst i met his family quite early on, other than a handful of occasions i havent socialised with his friends. When i questioned him about this he is told me that the partners of his friends still se...

My beloved Bf is returning to the other side of the world. How do I cope with losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - I met this guy a year ago, we started dating and have been together for about a year now - I've never been so happy in my life, he completes me and is perfect. But, he's moving back home to the other side of the world - he came over here to travel ...

Why would a guy keep his GF around if he had lost all sexual desire for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Can anyone especially men please give me some advice..I'll try+keep it brief... Basically would a man keep their girlfriend around in a serious relationship if they had lost all sexual attraction for their partner?... The reason why i ask is I'v...

Crushing for my boss. How do I get over this? How do I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys! So let me just get straight to it... I can't stop thinking about my boss, despite all my attempts to avoid him. It all started about 6 months ago when I went on a job interview for a few car dealerships. At my last interview for th...

Nora B, Sharing thoughts on observations about life and struggle

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22 October 2016 (F) - In this day and age when trains stations are crammed with people,coming and going,roadways are congested with traffic. Meeting deadlines maybe at the cost of ones job. Emotions have taken a backseat,love and friendship are something to be ...

Should I tell my BF how I am feeling over talk of his ex? Or should I investigate if she is real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for one month now, but were friends for two years. I know all of his friends, but recently he's mentioned someone who he's never even spoken about before. Apparently, they used to be boyfriend and gi...

If he doesn't initiate contact as often does it mean he isn't as invested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

21 October 2016 (F) - I experienced my 1st real BU a year ago. I loved the guy and I put my all in the relationship, he ended up taking me for granted. I am starting to date another guy and I keep having doubts, just afraid that he isn't into me as much as I am into him. ...

My friend found my girlfriend on a dating site

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been in an 18 month relationship with an extremely insecure girl who has been controlling, needy, and jealous of my past. I have often been aggressively accused of things that just dont exist. In spite of this difficulty, I have rode the ...

How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...

These are the facts. Is it the end?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - HELP! My decision to end a relationship depends largely on your advice. What would you do if you found out your boyfriend went to a medical appointment in the city and then visited a hotel before going home? And he did not tell you he was a...

Am I right to have these trust issues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago, my boyfriend went to his local pub, and he saw a married woman that he knew that day. I wasn't there at the time. She asked him to help her pick songs on the jukebox and then he said he danced with her. He said it wasn't intimate ...

If I get back together with my ex, should I tell him about the people I have slept with while we were broken up?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

19 October 2016 (F) - Hi there! So I was in a 4 and a half year relationship with an amazing guy. We broke up due to living in different places, arguing when we saw each other, and as I was in my final year at University, had way too much going on for all the arguing....

Why would my wife threaten to leave me over my porn use?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

19 October 2016 (M) - My wife says she will leave me if I keep watching porn. What is wrong with her? I have no idea why she thinks watching porn is bad. This is something I like to do and do it privately. I never told her I was into porn and many of you can guess wh...

We haven't been properly intimate in four months. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

19 October 2016 (F) - Having a huge problem with my boyfriend of 2 years in that we havent been properly intimate for 4 months..It used to be a big part of our relationship and now its nothing and its left me feeling ugly and very insecure!his reasons for not been ...

Should I distance myself from my Bf AND my Mother? Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

19 October 2016 (F) - Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?. I have had an on/off relationship with my boyfriend for a year. Yesterday, I was out with him and I called my mum to pick me up. I got upset because my mum started shouting at me on the phone. ...

He's disinterested. Finding it hard to give up on my boyfriend and move on. What should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

19 October 2016 (F) - i dont know if i am in a relationship or what? Have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since March 2012 till now. Everything was well and nice suddenly he changed...he no longer calls,the comunication is down..down...its just bo...

My Gf is not talking. Should I consider the relationship is over??? Or could I revive our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - I want to keep the relationship but she won't reply to texts or take my calls. literally begged to her to talk, but she didn't respond. should I call this an end to this relationship? it's two days since we last talked. we recently fought ...

Where to now? Is my married loved a narcissist? I feel I can no longer trust him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - I had a year long affair with a married man. I am his tennant in the house that he rents out. He left his wife just before Christmas and came to live with me and my kids in the house. During our affair we had a secret bank accounts, and phone nu...

She'd rather masturbate than have sex with me. Is there a way to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - A few months ago I bought house and decided to take the leap and move in with my girlfriend. Other than a few kinks things have been good but recently I've found out that she's been masterbsting on a regular basis instead of having sex with me....

Can I ever regain my trust in men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - I had been in a relationship for 8 years with my now ex. We were supposed to be getting married and so I guess the guilt got to him. He admitted sleeping with 3 other woman. The last one was two years ago when he was 22 and the first was when h...

His fantasy girl looks nothing like me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. My boyfriend was talking to his friend about his friend's sex life. His friend was at a bar that time telling my boyfriend that there are lots of girls there, inviting my boyfriend to go ...

I don't want to be played. Is he playing me? ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - ok i have been dating this guy, we both r still speaking hw says he likes me and has told his parents about me the night after the date I found him on an online dating site at 2am I have been online before that and he hasn't been online as ...

Is there a way I can make him see me for my other qualities and not as a nagging crying type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - It will soon have been a year since I met my boyfriend and almost a year since we started dating. We have our differences of course, like any other people, and it can lead to arguments at times. But generally I'm very happy with him. We're having a...

STIs. what is the best way to raise a discussion with my BF about a recent result given to me by my Doctor ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for 3/4 months. We are currently long distance but it is working fine. A month before we started dating I got an STI test and it came back negative, I also didn't have sex in between that test and ...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

Swears she isn't cheating but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

16 October 2016 (M) - So I have been with this girl for a year and a half, and I actually moved into her house with her parents. We met through online gaming actually and lived close enough to where we decided to get together and inevitably move in. So the first few ...

Can this ever work after shock test result?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

15 October 2016 (M) - Advice on risk-taking and dishonesty.. ----- A couple (A and B) meet around a year ago through a dating app. They clicked instantly, went for dinner the following night and slept with each other. A had had a test a few weeks before they met...

I can't approach him andask if he wants me as bad as I want him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from this guy and i dont know what to think or do. I'll list the things he does just to make it clearer: -always really flirtatious, compliments me etc -genuinely laughs when we talk, like not o...

Should I go back to hanging out with my old friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2963 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - My old friends who brought the worst out in me want to hang out again - they are insecure high maintenance girls that tear each other down and celebrate at the club every weekend and drink champagne. Since turning 30 I stopped - I realized that I ...