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writes:i dont know if i am in a relationship or what?Have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since March 2012 till now. Everything was well and nice suddenly he changed...he no longer calls,the comunication is down..down...its just boring.A lot about him is driving me nuts.Few days ago i sent him messages asking him if he no longer interested in me....he never responded he just kept quiet......i know that feelings can end but i think it was worth it if he could have told me. For now i am stressed i deeply dont know what to do,i so much love him just that he is changed totally he aint the same anymore and all this leaves me in a bad state.Sometimes i am thinking of moving on but its hard....he is so much into me,my heart is filled with him i just dont know what do to really...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2016):
 He is not man enough to admit it is over, so he is ignoring you until you realize it is. Am sorry that it has ended this way but you need to realize that it is this way and move on.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (19 October 2016):
 He just doesn't have the manners and backbone to tell you your relationship is over. Instead he is taking the cowardly way out and just ignoring you. This is not a nice man.
Hold your head high and walk away with pride. You deserve better than to just be ignored.
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (19 October 2016):
Sorry to hear that. It's never easy when it goes like this.
I think the best thing to do for both of you, and your own psychological well being, is to cut him off fully. I'd cut off his telephone number and social media, and everything that reminds you of him. Keep active with friends and going out, do things socially that keep you happy, binge on your favorite TV series or start a new hobby, and try not to brood too much. You will feel sad, but that's normal. Understand it's for the best.
Don't be shocked if he tries to get you back into your life after he's figured it out that you've gone cold turkey on him. Be aware of this and be careful. He'd have to do a heck of a lot to let him back in. Maybe even more than a full courtship. Personally, I'd keep saying no to him as it's clear he doesn't know what he wants.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
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