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writes:ok i have been dating this guy, we both r still speaking hw says he likes me and has told his parents about me the night after the date I found him on an online dating site at 2am I have been online before that and he hasn't been online as soon as i come off and go on his online i said i thought you was speaking to someone and he said why would i do that, your all i want.Then said night, i dont know what to do I dont want to be played Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2016):
 You where online as well so not sure what the problem is. Have you only been on one date? If so take it slower.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 October 2016):
 "Findiing" a guy on the web is like finding a prince in Yemena that wants to send you a million dollars if yo send him all your personal information. Get a grip and let a guy find you in person.
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reader, N91 +, writes (17 October 2016):
 So why were you on a dating site also? You can't really be mad at him if you're doing the same thing.
You need to both just be sensible and discuss what you want.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 October 2016):
 Well, but if you found him on an online dating site at 2am, that means that YOU were on that online dating site ar 2am, right ?
So, would you say you are playing him too ?
Are you talking to other people, and if you are, how come he is not allowed to do the same ?
Have you talked about been exclusive yet ?....Probably not, after just one date ( I guess it was one date ? since you call it " the " date ).
I think it's very possible he is still sort of keeping an eye on what's out there, because this is how the game works when you meet people on dating sites. Unless you have agreed to just " try on " one person at the time, it is sort of implied that you 'll have competition.
Then again, it sounds like you too are still shopping around, - at least window shopping :) - so I guess you are even.
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