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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have come in contact with an ex-flame who makes me smile from ear to ear we have been knowing one other for 30 years.He is 47 and I just turned 45 we both have children and they are grown and on their own.So now he and I are single we want to have a friendship thing going but I don't think he is dating material he had the nerves to tell me he likes to be with women with very low self esteem my mouth dropped.I could not believe what came from his mouth.My first thought was he has to have some issues within and I don't want no part of this.How can I tell him to lose my number and block him from my internet page.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016): Try to just tell him you and him should just be friends and you are not interested in more. It should be enough.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (23 October 2016):
 Ghost him. Say nothing and just block and delete him. That's one option.
The other is to tell him what you've just told us, but as a statement not a question. You definitely don't need his opinion or approval to make choices for yourself.
Keeping in touch with him, even as 'friends', tells him YOU are one of his ideal women and you'll have a hell of a time trying to convince him otherwise with mere words.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 October 2016):
 No need to ASK him to lose your number, YOU lose his and block his number and unfriend/block remove him from your social websites.
YOU DO NOT need his permission to do all that.
If he doesn't understand why you did it, who cares? He sounds like an arse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016): You don't have to tell him. You can show him that you are not interested. So many ways to do it... do not answer his calls.. do not reply texts... do not give any explanations just " I am busy".. he will get it.. don't bother yourself in this.. he is a loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2016): Unfortunately, you can't make a person delete your number or stop them looking at your internet page. So, you need to do this yourself. Block his number on your phone, and if possible block him from your internet page.
If you don't want any contact with him, then just ignore him. As he realises that your self esteem is so high that you have chosen to ignore him, he will realise that you are not one of the women he finds attractive and he will start looking elsewhere.
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