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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Do abusers set out to deliberately hurt the self esteem of another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

31 December 2016 (F) - Are there seriously people who will try to bring down a partners self esteem by making them feel bad about them self is making them feel too old for anyone else to want and not as attractive as other women ( or men ) etc . I ask because I've rec...

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

31 December 2016 (F) - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

Am I over-reacting to the news that my Gf of 8 months failed to tell me (until very recently) that her friend was also her ex ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2893 days ago

31 December 2016 (M) - My gf of 8 months and i have been hitting it off great, discussing issues that come up. She recently informed me that she had dated one of her friends-- who we've both hung out with at parties on a lot of special events, ie birthdays etc. I was ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

I just broke up with my BF and I am upset. Any advice. please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - I told my boyfriend of almost 7 months that I loved him. He didn't say it back. I asked him why and he said he just doesn't feel that way. And that when he feels it he will let me know. He had a very nice ex girlfriend for two years and he sai...

Does a bruise on my boyfriend's stomach mean he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend came home with a noticeable bruise to the right of his belly button last night and this concerns me. We have had rough sex many times but not recently. I asked him where he got it and he said he has no idea and just noticed it himself ...

He is two different boyfriends in one. Mr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. He's making me feel scared. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - MODNOTE FREE UK resources added by the Moderator: http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk/if-you-are-a-woman-experiencing-domestic-violence.aspx Phone 0808 2000 247 in UK and http://www.refuge.org.uk/what-we-do/our-services/helpline/ ...

What do I do? Don't want to split up. Yet also don't want a Bf who behaves like a cheater 2.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - hiya everyone me and my fiance have been together for 3 years. A few month ago he started to add women on facebook the women he added were the type of women he said he would like as a girlfriend. I asked him why he was adding them (he hardly uses ...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

Why is this happening? He has no time for me. I am fed up and ready to just walk away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for four years now we have three girls together and now we are having problems because he doesn't involve me in any part of his life what so ever. He doesn't invite me out anywhere when he goes out with his...

I've given her support over the years. But now she seems to have dropped me. Should I just accept her rejection and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My friend is mad at me after constantly asking me for advice and not liking my advice. Okay I have this friend from college - we met in class 3 years ago and kept an in-class friendship, we messaged almost every day on Facebook but we live 3 ho...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

He lies about money, I am fed up with being his doormat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - I would love your opinions please on whether I am being unfair or judgmental. Me and my husband have been together for 15 years. Over the years I have caught him out in lies over money. About five years ago his aunt passed away, I knew she had left...

He is moving too fast, talking children, houses and marriage. He already has three kids.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I need some advice I met this guy years ago down the pub via mutual friends he admitted he liked me never felt that same way. He then stopped speaking to me due to new gd etc and now has 3 kids with her who is now an ex September those yr he sees ...

What hope is there for a boyfriendless virgin? I think about sex, a lot. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 17 and I'll be 18 this following year. Whilst I've had "situations" or issues with guys I've never had a boyfriend and never had sex. There was a time where I was close to sleeping with a guy I did not even want to be my boyfriend, bu...

I did the most stupid thing I've ever done. How to repair the damage? How can I make it up to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - Im an idiot for what i did . Theres 2 guys , one texts a lot and makes a lot of effort through texts the other could make me wait a few days for a reply . the one who texts me a lot i see a future with but he drags his feet wanting to spend ti...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Is it normal for a 69 year old man to have only one topic he wants to talk about, namely his 30 year old divorced daughter. Is it worth continuing this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I am 54 years old and met a really nice man who is 15 years my senior. He is divorced and has two daughters one aged 34 and the other in her twenties. On our first date he made a toast to his eldest daughters success in getting a promotion. (i...

Why has my Boyfriend changed his sexual style to a more conservative one, to the style he favoured previously? Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - Hello friends. I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. We have always had a good time experimenting with each other sexually. We have a good bond and have connected from the get go. And we have also had stellar chemistry and a gr...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

Shy. It's making it difficult for me to develop a relationship with any women I meet. Any tips to help me get over my shyness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - I'm a guy who's grown up very shy and has recently become single. My shyness is only when it comes to taking things further with a girl- I get on with women, I flirt and am even brave enough to ask for the first date, but when it comes to making the ...

Should I marry a man I don't love? Is it time to settle?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - Should I marry a man I don't love? I have a friend who really likes me I told him that I really like his company, I think he's a nice person but there is no spark. He told me that despite the fact I don't love him he would wait for me and marry...

Can our relationship work? we have a baby on the way but the father of the baby has an addiction. Should I break up with him and move back with family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - We have a baby on the way and he is addicted to marijuana. I had my own personal addiction to it myself but after realizing I was with child, I don't need it anymore. I want my child to have the extra money instead and to use it to benefit as a fam...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other? Why or why not?...

How can I make this work, with her? We both need to lose weight, but her motivation is waning.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - I want to be fit. I want that for my girlfriend too. So does she. She complains about how clothes look on her. She is very attractive but could be in better shape. Obviously, I’m on board. She is all talk but little action. I tried to make i...

If you are a parent or a carer of special needs child can you help advise me on any of my questions ? I am not asking for experts, just parents in a similar situation

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - My severly disabled son has to go into residential care soon . We don't want this but he is very aggressive and they need to take him in to stabilise him because he is on too many medications and they think he will be better going to school and ...

How do I break these patterns in my relationship? Where I find it easier to breakup than to actually work on resolving things in the

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and for that reason I feel It is not where it would be if I were with the person regularly. I don't feel I can ask him things or I can't tell if it's too soon or if I'm imposing too much on him etc...my default ...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

It's now 2/3 days, is he uninterested? Should I just leave it, or pursue him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - Hi, I work with a guy I really fancy but was unsure if he was interested in me so I backed off. Co-workers have been trying to set us up for the past 6 months but I know he's incredibly shy. He's always asking where I'm going out at at the week...

How can I try to improve the way my mother communicates with me? Her egotistical ways are not helping.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

25 December 2016 (F) - Hi all, My problem is about my mother, who has very poor communication skills, even in languages that she's really good at. It might be silly but creates big problems mainly because after not having communicated to us properly, she will turn ...

In a committed, passionate, loving relationship. Am I wrong for feeling 'put down' or like a 'one night stand'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

25 December 2016 (M) - Here are the basics in order to fully understand my feelings about this situation: I am a 35 yr old male and she is 34. We have been in a committed relationship for a year now. We have a what we call "remarkable" relationship that truthfully ...

I'm dating but I'm also developing stronger feeling for another guy. Not sure what to do. Help, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - I started university in September and have formed a good group of friends. I have started to date one of the guys in the group privately and I know he has fairly strong feelings for me. However, I have been talking a lot with one of the other guy...

Why do some men say things to their partner the man thinks may sound supportive, and yet concurrently they collect pictures of women and porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - I know this might seem a dumb question but it's bothered me in a lot of relationships I've been in as I've noticed most guys seem to do it and think it's no big deal to lie about it . Why do some men say things to their partner like 'you're the only...

How Long Do I Wait? Does he want a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - We have been talking for about 5 weeks now. We are about a 2 hours drive away from each other. We are not in a relationship, just been talking. He has already said he loves me we have sexted and we are planning on meeting up soon. I want to...

No present - what should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of four years did not give me a Christmas present this year. Should I be upset? Because I am. Should I say something to him?...

Are my reasons for not trusting her valid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

24 December 2016 (M) - I don't know if I should stay in my relationship. At times it is excellent she can be thoughtful, giving, and highly sexually charged and also will spend a great deal of time just making sure I'm okay, but I find it very hard to trust her she has a ...

Should I just move on? I don't want to be in the way of them remaking a family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - I'm wondering if I'm being over sensitive to my boyfriend's need to "play family" with his ex and his children. Every week it seems, on his week's with the kids, she's over for some reason or another. He kept the house, she cheated on him a...

Do girls start to like guys if they spend this much time together? Or will I remain as just a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. I have question about this girl I like. Main question is does she like me? Background info about the situation. I have moved to a new country 6 months ago. I met this girl 4 months ago at a meetup. Meetup is where you go meet rand...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

I've been feeling anxious and I don't know why. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - Recently this past few months I've been feeling really really sad and I don't know how to fix that?? I am an honours student in university, I have a great life at home, I am well off financially, and I kinda have everything...not to toot my own h...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

Is my fiance's contact with his ex's normal? He has been married 3 times.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - I'm a divorced woman who was married for 27 years. I got married at 17, so I've had little relationship experience. I've been divorced for just under 2 years now. I have a boyfriend who I just said yes to marrying. What bothers me about my fian...

I'm not going to stop seeing my LDR Bf because a friend doesn't like him. But how do I best handle the situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - I haven't been dating my boyfriend for very long. He treats me well, loves me and cares about me. We are long distance, so most of my friends have not met him. The thing is my best friend got offended by what he posted online because he has d...

Why does he ask? Why does he keep showing an interest in my dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - My friend's husband always asks me about my dating every time I see him and seems quite enthusiastic when he asks. Just before they got married a mutual friend said in front of my friend how her husband wanted to date me before they got together...

My boyfriend is depressed. Is he likely to come back when he's cooled down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of a year dumped me because he thinks "he's too depressing" for me and he's in a bad place right now. I told him I was okay with it and I'd do anything to make him feel better if he just opened up a little, but he insisted we broke it...

What does it mean to say a guy is "sharp"? is such a guy shy or just cunning?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts, So I heard that he is "Sharp" and is good with the ladies. But he has been staring at me for weeks now and not making a move. So is he shy or just cunning? what you think?...

Should I worry that his first love is making contact?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi my husbands first love is trying to get in contact with him. He's not sure yet if he will reply to email. I'm not sure how I feel about this,on the one hand I want him to do what he wants but on the other I'm a bit concerned about feelings being ...

Why would my guy friend think I should continue to listen to him talking about his past relationships with other women? What should I say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid,my guy friend and I have been friends for a while and we wanted to take it to a next level but today we had a little spat it's crazy to me but it's whatever. Long story short he has a thing for high yellow complexed women and that's f...