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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I want my ex back but he's not interested. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I still like my ex but he does not want to get back with me. We are both in our thirties, and our relationship was very complicated. He had kids, I have a child, ex-partners etc etc ......it was very difficult at times for us to be happy. We live in ...

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

Lying LDR boyfriend is having dreams of me cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I recently found out that my LDR boyfriend have been pretending to be single. The girl he was talking to (I don't know her) messaged me out of the blue and sent me screenshots of texts where my boyfriend is claiming to be single and asking her out. ...

Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...

I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I ...

Partner hooked by a particular type of porn... and has acted on it. How secure is our future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend of a year has an addiction to SHEMALE porn. He has been watching now for about 10 years and he is about to be 30. Not only does he masturbate to it on a frequent basis, but he has actually acted on it a few years ...

I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice ...

What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...

Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what shou...

Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...

I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family a...

His home smells. Am I being petty. How can I solve this problem ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) - I am in an LDR and every other weekend I see my bf. I love him very much but I hate his house. I know it sounds very shallow but it is a very very old house. The bathroom has mould growing in it and green bathtub...toilet etc. The whole house ...

How can I break this way of thinking? I don't feel like I'll ever find the kind of relationship I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3924 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - The infatuation and excitement of a new relationship does not last for years and years, but a lot of people don't seem to understand that. I feel like I probably won't find someone who understands that long relationships are not rainbows and butt...

She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...

Tell me what I already know but don't wanna believe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Hello! Heres the situation; I've been dating a guy for about a month, 'talking' for about two. In those two months we have been Facebook friends on and off, I have deleted him 3 times now, the first time was because a lady was putting comment ...

Am I wrong to give him a second chance? And I'm wrong for not holding our past over his head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been a single mom since my daughter was 8 months old. My ex and I got along and then i found out that he cheated on ( he fooled around with a girl at a party) we decided that we would break up but We have been co parenting my daughter and ...

Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...

How can I trust him to be a nice guy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi everybody there, I have some trust and reliance problems with my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship about one year and now he's living at mine. I'm from East Europe and he's from West part and spends his holiday in my country....

My crush says she doesn't trust men, but I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - now being a freshan in high school, dating is fairly useless. I like this girl and we are great friends, so i decided i wanted to date her. i have given her gifts, hugged her, and put my arm around her all in order to get her to like me a little ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...

When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our r...

I am being shut out by his language!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi! I need advice on a relationship with language differences. When I met my boyfriend he didnt know any English, but he insisted on being with me. He worked hard to learn English and did well. Now his daughter came to live with us full time and he ...

How can I tell if he is addicted to porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Ok aunts ... Please help... Is there any way for a woman to know before she gets too deeply involved with a guy whether he has a porn addiction? It is clear that he uses porn regularly but I have come out of a marriage where my husband was very ver...

My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend o...

We have rekindled our childhood romance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...

Big Girl with Low Self Esteem. And I just lost my virginity to my married friend. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I’m sort of a big girl who has always had a very low self-esteem because of my size. As a matter of fact, up until a week ago I was still a virgin at 26 thanks to my insecurities. I’ve been best friends with a guy since high school that I’ve alw...

All are blaming me for reporting what I had to. What are your thoughts on people be allowed to bring their children or baby to their workplace?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - What is everyone's opinion on people bringing their babies/ children to the work place? The reason I ask is because last week 1 of my colleagues, who is on maternity leave came in with her baby who is 7 months old. We work in a call centre and...

My thirteen year old caught my husband and I having sex. How do I repair the relationship with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - so every friday, my susband has a day off. we thought to make it special on valentines day, and ended up having sex. we didn't hear the key turn in the door because the next thing i know, my thirteen yearold daughter's standing in the doorway ...

We were in a rut. But has our break of 5 months gone on too long for us to start again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hi all, Cut a long story short, me and my ex boyfriend were together for four years. We started arguing all of the time and the relationship became stuck in a rut! We were making each other miserable so we decided to take a break from the re...

Worried that I'm not meeting expectations and worried about having sex again. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I am so worried that I don't enjoy sex because I'm too worried thinking about whether I'm living up to expectations or being good in bed. I'm 21 and not a virgin but had very little sexual experience all with guys who used me and at the time me b...

Do I stay or let him go? Just found out that my Bf is expecting a child with his Ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

22 February 2014 (?) - I have just found out that my boyfriend (whom I have crazily fallen for, never had a man treat me so amazing) is expecting a baby with his ex. I am a jealous person (unfortunately) and I see myself becoming pushed down on his priority list when thi...

Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?

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21 February 2014 (?) - so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too. you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,...

We are both single. He visits me, offers cuddles only. Does he want a relationship or not? Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hi im in a very confusing situation. I have known this man since last September i really like him but i cant tell if he wants to be with me or not. Every time i see him which is maybe once a month he comes to my place we watch a dvd he kisses and c...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

She's confusing me... where do I stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - I am really feeling confused with this girl. I sometimes have the impression she likes me, but I also have the impression my mind is playing tricks on me. I will begin with a small summary about me: I am a 29 yo guy who has little experience in lo...

Have I said too much too soon? Or should I be more frank with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I am 24 years old and I struggle to act interested in guys. I have friends who are so full on with guys and scare them away that i try my best not to be like this and act uninterested usually. I work with a guy I really like who is professional but ...

I'm scared he will get drunk and cheat on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months. We moved in with each other after 2 months. I'm really worried about the relationship. He's a good lovely person but my gut feelings lead my to think otherwise and horrible things. ...

I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do ...

I found out my boyfriend has profiles on swingers' sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has a profile (or three!) up on swingers sex sites "looking for fun" and stating that he's single. Now he swears they are from years ago when he was single and in fairness to him, it was 2009 when the accounts were created. ...

If she isn't hiding anything, why the secrecy? Why the distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. Our relationship has been great and really seems to have a potential future, but my girlfriends behavior troubles me... Yesterday she mentioned that she was out with a friend. I'm not one to pry, ...

I do love her with my all heart, but what can I do about her cousin with his wandering hands? She will not give me a straight answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I'll try to keep it short, sacrificing a lot of the details so bear with me. My GF and her female cousins have had/have an intimate relationship with a male cousin. Proven thanks to people leaving their facebook messages open for all to see.... s...

Almost certain she does like me and I like her. But what can I do? She became distant after discovering her friend likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I need some help. I met a girl at college and we got on really well we'd talk outside college quite often and she'd even text me when I was at work asking how it was going. Then she found out that one of her friends who's in our fri...

I have 2 ongoing crushes, but I want none. How do I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Hey I'm 15 years old and still in high school and I have boy troubles. I have a crush on this boy (let's call him G) and I never felt this way about a guy before, because all the other guys in my school are jerks! The weird thing i...

Husband has many female friends. They don't want to be friends with me, just him. Am I overreacting in being upset?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My husband got a lot of female friends that called him at least 5 times a day for advice and to talk, he told me to talked to them cause they are nice and he wants us to be friends too but when I tried to reach out for them (add them on Facebook) ...

I'm worried about him being a dad to our daughter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - my daughters father is still going through a messy divorce. been seperated two years, divorce is over a year and three months now. our little girl is 3 months old. he has shown mixed signals of his interest in her. i feel like he uses me as a ...

How can he love me and want to share me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I have met a man who seems wonderful in every way. We have an incredible connection on so many levels yet I have a question. He has said to me that if I feel the desire to have sex with another man in his presence he is ok with that. Even turned on ...

I have the most amazing partner in life, can I stop having random dreams about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm 22. To cut a long story short(er), last year I broke up with my ex after having discovered he'd cheated on me numerous times during our 3 year relationship. To make it worse, I had no clue nor did he do anything that raised my suspicions, ...

My boyfriend is acting sneaky with his laptop and phone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and have always trusted him but have been noticing recently that he acts sneaky with his phone and laptop. If I come into the room he will swipe everything off his page so that I can't see he also always makes ...