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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is it hopeless or could he ever truly love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I am absolutely heartbroken because I've found the person who I know is meant for me, and I know in my heart that I love him more than I'll ever love anyone. He's divorced (I know this for a fact) and has a little boy with his ex wife. I underst...

I think I made a mistake by judging his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I fell head over heels in love with a man.He was 10 years younger than me. He was a serial cheater. Cheated on his exwife cheated on his ex girlfirends and cheated on his last girlfriend to be with me. It was perfect for 8 months. I knew he was ...

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

My man's mega spend on liquor. How can I address this casually while still voicing my concerns?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My husband enjoys drinking beer and will have 3 cans most nights and more on the weekend. I have just discovered the supermarket has an offer on and he has went and bulk bought spending almost £350 on beer. I'm quite alarmed to the point of sic...

My deployed Bf does not trust me anymore. How can I make things better between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hey , I have been with my deployed boyfriend one year and half . We had a great time sure it were a lot up and downs like everyone else. I do love him so much and want to work out things . It just he seems still hurt from his past... And he d...

How can I get this boring clingy guy to leave me alone? I'm not interested in him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I need help. This friend of mine will not leave me alone. I think he's obsessed with me. He asked me out but I turned him down because he is just not my type and to be honest he's boring and clingy. Since then everything I have said that I'm doin...

I'm shy and have a big crush on a guy at the store. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy at the store I want to ask him to lunch but I'm so shy I told him he was really funny after never spoke to him again and ever since he stares at me when I walk by I turn so red and he talks t everyone but me I'm lost...

How can I get out of this rut? And How can you like someone when you don't really know him, and when you can't speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hiya Im not really sure what answers Im looking for but Ill try and make some sense! Im nearly 21 and Ive never had a boyfriend, kissed a boy etc. I'm also overweight but am in the progress of losing weight :) I feel constantly like I'm...

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sex...

We've shared kisses on a regular basis. What do the "looks" she gives him, when he flirts with me, mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - It started around 4 months ago. I went to my best friends house for a few drinks as it was Christmas Day and it's tradition, only this year her friend came and we started talking straight away. He is the same age as my best friend (20) two ...

Whenever he sighs 'I love you' I think of him saying that to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - dear cupids, whenever i'm with my 10 month boyfriend having sex and he sighs "i love you" i instantley remember a situation that happened between him and a girl he once slept with before me, in which he sighed to her "i love you" and she said tha...

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share th...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

He makes me feel uptight. Should I stay with him? I can't relax with him as he gives me "grades" on basic domestic skills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So this is probably going to seem like a really bizarre question but I want an outside opinion on whether this is weird or I'm just being uptight or something. So I find that my boyfriend makes quite a few corrections about my messy habits aro...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

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30 March 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really goo...

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he s...

Says he changed his mind and it's not such a big deal! Can I trust him? Was I wrong to get mad at him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend told me he couldn't come with me to see a friend's band play last night because he has decided not to drink/go out at the moment (he is training for a half marathon), but I have just found out he went out drinking with a friend instead! ...

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she aske...

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that fee...

Despite my boyfriend's assurances, I'm afraid he will leave me and the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice pls. I've been dating a wonderful guy for 15months whom im due to have a baby with. Hes 18 and me - 19. We began dating in our last year of secondary school.. had our ups and downs but I do feel like hes the ...

The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great fathe...

Could his attitudes potentially drive a wedge between him and me, and affect me because of my own pet loving family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Hi guys, I am so desperately looking for help So there's this guy I really like. And he expressed he likes me a lot. And everything is leading up to the possibility of us dating, except today he said one thing that makes me worried about ou...

If he refuses to give it up his drinking and his abuse, then would I be right to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend drinks of a weekend...not a problem but when he has a drink he either turns nasty and sometimes violent or the complete opposite...he stinks of beer and i hate it! we are arguing about this issue constantly, his reply to me 'nagging...

He asked me out. I don't know how to answer him, and what will he expect of me?

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30 March 2013 (F) - I'm 13 years old, and there is a boy in most of my classes who keeps on flirting with me. He asked me out once ages ago, but I said no because I was to shy. He asked me out yesterday, but the teacher called on him before I could awnser, then...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

He is a wonderful man. But I'm not sure if he's the one. Should I wait a couple more years to see if things changes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started dating our junior year of high school. We are both the same age now. I've been out of college for two years and he still has a year left. I guess now that I'm done with school and found a g...

He hasn't tried to hold my hand nor kiss me or anything. Should I believe him when he says he wants to be more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we have been hanging out 2-3 times a week since then. I'm very confused by him though. In the few short weeks we've known each other, I've met his family, we made plans months in advance, we are doing couple things b...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with...

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

Her crush claimed, to me, that he does not like her. Should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I wanted to know how to tell my friend her crush doesn't like her. My friend and I are very close and we trust each other. Her crush rides my bus so she is always wanting me to ask him questions so I do. Once I asked him if he likes her and...

Flirts. Likes me maybe? What signs confirm if a girl likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I have a friend at uni who flirts with me a lot, but does it in a jokey way. I always flirt back a little, but want to find out if she actually likes me. What's a good way to find out? Whenever I flirt back I just feel I'm continuing the banter ...

What can I do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I don't drink, smoke nor enjoy going out, this makes me boring to a lot of girls. I have no desire to do any of those activities. So what can a guy like me do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices? ...

I still think he is oh so attractive! Do I say anything to him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I recently found an old classmate on Facebook. I sent him a friend request which he accepted! Here's the thing...I had a huge crush on him in high school, however we didn't share the same friends and never hung out. I still think he is oh so attr...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

My guy won't commit, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I met a guy online and we've been dating for 3 months. I have even met his son and hung out with them both on several occassions. About a month ago he asked me if I was happy with the way things are going. I said yes and he told me the reason he ...

How can I make him realize the amount of distance his lying is putting between us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my husband for 19yrs. We have had our plights and problems. I left him about 5 yrs ago, for about 2 years, over a problem he covered up with a mountain of lies and betrayals. I continue to work with forgive and forget issues. He ...

I feel like I have no other choice. He's unwilling to change. What can I do to salvage this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I dont know what I can do to salvage our relationship. I have been in this relationship for 6 years now. At the beginning everything was great. Then we took the next step and I moved 5 hours away to live with him and his 5yr old daughter. Things...

Should I just stay out of it, and not offer my opinion? Is it his choice alone to plan ahead, or not plan ahead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I just had a fight with my bf and I don't understand what went wrong. He's been in school for the past year and a half getting an associate degree and planning on going to a different college next. He's also 32. The argument was about why he's g...

Is it the wrong time to be marrying with dating sites in the background?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - I am getting married in June. Two years ago I found her to be going on dating sites. First she lied about it, and then admitted she did it for a joke. I caught her doing it again and I left that time. We got back after she begged me and promised she ...

My BF was still hung up on his ex when we got together and I feel resentful. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Are breaks in a relationship ever a good idea? Just to give some background: my bf and I have been together ten months. We love each other, we've been honest with each other, we trust each other, and we want to make this relationship wor...

I love my friend but he's very flirty and it depresses me. Should I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

27 March 2013 (?) - Hey guys so I'm just confused here about a situation I'm in. I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, but we aren't together. There's a couple of problems I've been having and I am not sure if it's just me or if it's something normal to ...

I want my Ex back but scared there is no Trust

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - My lover of 2 years broke my trust by lying about a few things in the past for 3-4 times due to fear of losing me. Now she is genuinely trying to get back the same by sharing everything but its becoming very hard for me to trust her again. My ...

I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity togeth...

He had a private lap dance at his stag and now I'm having serious doubts about marrying him!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I am getting married next week and I am having serious doubts. We have been to together 8 years (since we were 18) engaged for 5 and we have 2 children. We had a pretty much perfect relationship until his stag. About a week after he returned...

My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did ...

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...

I want to give him chance but my mind keep worry about my future with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm confused now and no one can I ask for help. No one understand me. I'm sad and depressed that I'm going oto get through this problem alone. Me and my bf were in love for the past 2 years. But now things changed, and we also changed to ...