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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Just found out after 2 years of dating he's married and has 3 kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi Ive been dating a guy for 2years and this morning I found out he was married with 3kids i am in total shock as i loved this guy i thought we had a future together its like the last 2years together have been a lie, I need help what do i do to mo...

I don't think I can leave her until there is actual proof she has cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a confusing lady for 6 months now and I believe she is not only cheating on me but has the belief system in place to continually do so but I have no proof. She is part of a sect headed by a guy called isaac ...

Jealous of girlfriend dancing with other men - help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - So I got married to a woman I was deeply in love with about a year and half ago, we had been dating for over 6 years before we got married and everything seemed (at least to me) good. Then I found out that less than sixth months into the marriage ...

Can I trust my girlfriend again after she left me for another man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - do i trust my girlfriend again my girlfriend left me for another guy, she slept with him , then a week later told me she had made a big mistake...she was working away with him, so it took her 5 months to finish her contract and return to me..in t...

Did they do it or not? Who do you think is lying? Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi there! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years although the last 2 years were spent being away from each other since he's now residing in the UK. He came home for vacation last January and a month after he left, I found out I was ...

My boyfriend lied to me, do I tell him I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - On saturday i was hanging out with my boyfriend and he asked me what i was doing that night, i assumed that i would be with him that night because he had gone out with his friends the night before. But he said that he was going out for dinner with ...

My Husband's ex wont go away!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Ive been with my husband for about 3 years. Ever since we got together his ex girlfriend had been in the picture. he had told me he blocked her from everything from emails to AIM's. Lat friday we were looking for house (well he was) and he kept ...

How to trust others after being hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey there, I just want some advice on how people have been able to overcome trust issues that were brought on by the betrayal of an ex partner. Im happy being single now.. but for future relationships I dont want to take past trust issues into a new ...

Why am I so worried about getting in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I am 25, and have never really been in a relationship. I have hooked up but have never had a legit girlfriend. I always kind of longed for one but I always told myself I wanted to wait until I got a career, had my fun, travel and all that. Fast ...

I swear she has had anal sex before.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - This is gonna sound like I'm some jealous macho American asshole, so sorry in advance. I am wondering there is any way to think if my girl has had anal sex before. I realize that I should trust her when she says no, and that love is built on trus...

Lusting is wrong... or is it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Yeah, im a 16 year old kid and having some issues with myself, mostly to do with lust. I know that lust is wrong. When i used to lust it made me want to masturbate. When i did, it felt normal. When i fell in love for the first time i stopped because ...

I'm starting to feel he doesn't value me as much as I do with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - This is a long story so I'll try my best to shorten it. I have been in a relationship with a guy for nearly a year now. He won't call me his girlfriend ( I can't sleep over his house or go on trips with him and the fact he was in a 5 yr relationship ...

Does he love me and is this girl more than just a good listener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi,Im 17 this year and my bf is 19 this year. we had been together for 3 years plus going to 4 years. For the past 3 years,I think I've treated him badly, Im always nagging and angry him over a small thing. We breakup many times but ended up tog...

My violent drug-using ex is threatening me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On ...

My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...

My girlfriend is obsessed with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - My girlfriend is obsessed with me! We're both 18 and both in out first proper relationship. We've been going out for nearly 3 months now and she's turned into such a bunny boiler it's actually scaring me. Seriously, we're apart for 5 minutes and she ...

Cool music, great hair, hot style, OH MY!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Well, so I'm kind of having this problem here. I don't usually write on these kind of things, but I'm soooo confused... Ok, so, my friend set me up with this really hot guy. He's exactly what I look for in a guy... he loves the same kind of music I ...

Bad experiences with guys, I'm starting to think there's something seriously wrong with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - ok so i know to a lot of people this would sound like a ridiculous question and i would deny it was true if it was happening to someone else but it's not and i'm having a really hard time convincing myself that there's nothing wrong with me. So to ...

He says he'll come back if I kick my brother and his girlfriend out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my ex partner got back together five months ago, after seperating two years before when our son was born. the relationship endend badly last time as he cheated on me time and time again and as much as i wanted to be with him i couldnt take it ...

Are his actions justified by my cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi, so ive been seeing this guy for a few months now and about a month ago i cheated on him with my ex. i felt so bad afterwards and expected it to be over but he didnt leave me. hes 19 and im 16 btw. then.... last weekend i did it again. i ...

I feel second-best to his best friend and am worried she'll take him away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - For three years before he met me my boyfriend was in love with his best friend. She didn't feel the same way. He told me about her early on in the relationship, and said they had sorted things out between them and he didn't have feelings for her ...

Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be....

I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is ...

What do I do now that me and my ex are talking again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok i really need some help here, me and my ex have been broken up since Oct. 09 its a lot more complicated then just breaking up but i'll get to the main point. We just recently after 6 months of not talking or seeing eachother have started at...

I really like her, but I'd like to be her friend in the process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I like this beautiful girl! The thing is I feel she is out of my league. The thing is we used to talk a bit at school but that stoped. So last week she comes and sits next to me. So we start talking and I say I would help you if I ...

Are my dreams guiding me to be with her, or misleading me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I've been having dreams this past week about a girl I like; all which has been consecutive. She is one of my good friends who lives down the hall in the dorms. In the dreams, we are usually just hanging out doing whatever. Over each dream I have, we ...

Need some advice on making the first move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I recently went through a really rough breakup with a girl that I had been dating for a long time. The breakup took quite a toll on me and I am still healing from it, but I have gotten to the point now where I am thinking about starting to meet ...

Should I let him go that far before I go away, or wait until I return?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months plus but we are going to be separated for 3 months. Because I am going for a summer programme for 3 months in a few days time. And yesterday, I was in his room and we make out and things started t...

I want to get to know this guy, but I'm hesitant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Well, I have a crush on this guy. I always see him on the bus stop when I come from school early. He's beautiful! He has long red dreads and a pale face with the cutest freckles. He's older than me. I think by a lot of years and he might be on drugs ...

I have a bad feeling about my boyfriend moving out on his own

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - alrighty , my boyfriend moved away for work about 2 months ago , we've had our rough spots but so far everythings going good , the problem is when he got there and till right now hes been living with his uncle but now hes talking about moveing out ...

Feelings for my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - have you ever had a problem that you have drivin yourself crazy over but just couldnt figure it out? well thats pretty much what i have here. i have a best friend that ive had feelings for over the past two years. she is one of the greatest girls ...

What do I do if another guy is flirting with my girlfriend and wants to get with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I'm 14 almost 15. I'm a freshman and this guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend. We have been together for a while now and my girlfriend says she loves me. I truly love her too. My girlfriend is the shy type. She doesn't want to be mean or n e ...

Should I wait, or will he not go out with me? I don't want to be his rebound

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - All through high school I have known this guy now I"m 22 I have known him since I was about 16 or 17 through the ups and downs of life I have been friends with him in high school we made out a few times we didn't go out we always made out. I always ...

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for ...

He tells me the sweetest stuff, but I'm being told he's playing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - To start off, I really like this guy. We have been talking now for over a month, almost 2. He hasn't dated anyone in almost a year. Every day and night we text, constantly and he tells me the sweetest stuff. He says he likes me, but he is not sure ...

I am trying to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am trying to get my ex back. We were dating for few months when i kissed someone else. I came clean the next day and he broke up with me. I know what i did was wrong and i regret it more than anything. I really love this guy and i want nothing ...

My boyfriend went to a different state to visit another girl, is she just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - So i've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've had our share of the roller coaster. We broke up for 3 months because of him talking to other girls and hiding it from me. But we both realized that we still love each other and ...

He's a colleague to my ex but I do not want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - well i have dated a guy for about eight months and a half,then we broke up, the relationship was so amazing and fair to the both of us since there was nothing complicated until we broke up over a simple thing..let not take this part of my love life ...

How do you flirt when you're shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - my problem is flirting. i used to be pretty shy and even now i still struggle starting conversations with people im not close to. i never really found this a issue until recently though. if a guy (particularly ones i like)talks to me or approaches ...

Ladies, what could be causing this discharge? Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - iis white or yellow vaginal dicharge normal? does it happen often? what r its causes? i ask because my gf has cheated before and has been acting and doing "funny" things again lately....

Should I have him choose... pool playing or me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I'm hoping that someone can provide some words of wisdom... It's been one year since I got out of a terrible relationship where the person was a constant liar. I'm in a new relationship but it's long distance and so we only see each other on the ...

He kept on talking to his baby-mama, his other son by another woman is a brat, and I just don't trust him. It breaks my heart!I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - When I married my husband, it was after he cheated on me and I knew the girl was pregnant. But I listened to his apology and believed he was sincere and loved him regardless and was ready to take on the challenge. After we got married, I found out ...

This dating site sent him a text! What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Help please. My partner received a text message saying Enter your pin (----) at m.zoosk.com I know I shouldn’t look and I mostly don’t, but I do if he has been nasty to me for a while - because I start wondering what is really behind ...

Too scared to get infected!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i really love each other that we do everything together, but the problem is he doesnt like using a condom am not so sure whether he only does that with or maybe he even do it with one night stands that he told me use to have in ...

How do I suggest marriage to my b/f after pregnancy without making him feel "trapped"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (?) - I have a boyfriend of one year and am 3 weeks pregnant with his baby. I have informed him and he seems alittle confused, though he is by my side. We havent discussed the way forward with the pregnancy yet. We had plans of getting married next year. ...

Should I do as my separated husband wishes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I been separated for nearly an year.This guy that Ive been seeing decides to call my husband. His intention was to find out what was going on between my husband and I. Well my husband told him that we were gettting back together and that I was ...

Mate denies cheating but phone number of someone keeps popping up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - If you are in a relationship with someone who has cheated on you in the past and you come across a number in their phone, and when you talk to the person that the number belongs to and they tell you they have been having a sexual relationship with ...

Jealousy, Trust and Respect... am I crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Why do people assume that jealousy in a relationship means a lack of trust or some insane amount of insecurity? I'm not talking about jealousy gone out of hand like expecting the other to call every hour or report their schedule or some such non...

He's only nice to me when he's got his fix

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i had been with my boyfriend two and a half years and we split for three months and decided to give it another go. But about two to three weeks he got back together with his x who he has a child with he says he only did it for his child and didnt ...

Is he being honest with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - We have been together for a month and everything was going great, he kept saying how lucky he was to have me. Then out of nowhere, he said that we rushed it and he’s busy with his job and studies right now, seeing each other once a week simply isnt ...