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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We have been together for a month and everything was going great, he kept saying how lucky he was to have me. Then out of nowhere, he said that we rushed it and he’s busy with his job and studies right now, seeing each other once a week simply isnt enough. He's failed courses before because he was preoccupied with girls and doesn’t want that to happen again. I know he’s busy but I’m not too clingy and it was always him calling me and making plans. So we decided to take a break, he told me we can get through it but I’m getting mixed signals. He's always been very honest with me so he may be telling the truth but I feel like he doesnt want me anymore. He suggested we go back to dating rather than an actual realationship but again, I dont know if that really means he wants an occasional hook up. He's very confusing, a real gentleman but at times a jerk too. We ran into each other with a group of friends and I tried to get close to him and hold his hand, he didnt respond at first but then he put his arm around me. We kissed for a little bit but it felt different. Is he being genuine? I've always heard the "im too busy for you" line as a way of getting out guilt free
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Sounds like you need to have a face-to-face chat with him. Ask a few simple questions. Like, do you love me? Or, where is this relationship headed?
Not much else you can do here. Good luck though.
A lot of guys worry about their studies when they're very young. He might apologize down the track when he realises he's done the wrong thing.
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