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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I just an ego boost for him or does he have feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I have a crush on a guy at work. He's married but I don't know if he's happy. His wife is really beautiful and classy but he rarely ever talks about her. At work he always sits next to me when we're in meetings; he compliments me frequently on my ...

Why does my co-worker act this way towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Why does this girl behaves this way? am I overreacting? ? There's this work I met at a job interview, I got the job and so did she. We all work in the same department. The thing is she's so unfriendly, I never see her smile. The only time she...

My family calls me Dog

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts I started gaining weight past few weeks. I wanted to lose the weight as fast as possible because people were beggining to call me names. So i told my friend, and she told me that the fast way to lose the weight is to drink cola everyday...

Lack of contact from b/f is making me question everything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Here is a little bit of what has been going on I lost contact with my boyfriend for month in November and I was trying to get back into contact with him we never broke up but he lives 2 hours away and his phone was messed up then his boss ran it o...

I love my girlfriend but I'm disgusted, jealous and angry about her sexual past with her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is a nice and I really love her a ton and want to spend the rest of my life with her. She's everything I could have ever wanted. She's smart, beautiful, and very kind. But when we first hooked up a friend of mine told me she gave BJs ...

Was it wrong for him to change my password?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Heyy, well to start with my boyfriend knows my facebook password and i know his, today an old friend of mine was talking to me and he was saying some pretty inaproprate things to me, my boyfriend saw them and got mad i begged him not to say anyt...

A horrible work performance review ruined my holidays!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I'm 26, recently out of grad school and I've got my first job. I perform every work task I get quickly and efficiently and I though I was doing great. I actually thought I was exceeding my boss' expectations! So when he said he was very unhappy with ...

My boyfriend treats his dog better than he treats me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't treat me good. He treats his dog better than me. When we fight he calls me names, (ones i'd NEVER repeat). He doesn't sleep with me, he loses his temper and it's always my fault. He gets mad at some1 else he takes it out on ...

Has my girlfriend deceived me or does the sex with her ex-boyfriend not count?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - I am not sure where to start but I do want to document how I feel and explain what has been happening in my relationship. Without going in to too much background detail I want to start with the facts. At the end of March this year my partner walked ...

Unexpected gifts at Christmas have left us feeling badly. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello. I've got a bit of a post christmas problem. Basically I spent christmas at my partners brothers house. We had a lovely time but we feel a bit awkward because her brothers partner signed her name on the presents from him, aswell as his na...

I don't want anyone liking me in a romantic way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi, thanks for viewing this question:D. Anyways, on the problem. I think this year is an extremely strange year, maybe its because of the fact that everyone in my level will be graduating from our school. But this year, I received 17 confessi...

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

I have a problem of falling in love with the wrong women!

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30 December 2011 (M) - I have a problem of falling in love with wrong women (who don't really love me), I don't know why, if they don't put me in friend zone they get along with me for their own benefits. I don't know why I just can't attract women naturally in a way she ...

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with ...

How can I stop this suspicion???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hi all, I was lucky enough to gain some help from you a while back and it was so helpful - I am grateful for that. There’s no short version of this so for those who take the time to read I am really grateful! Having got out of the relationshi...

After 2 years I don't know if I can believe anything that my boyfriend says!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Whwn my boyfriend and I started dating 2 years ago it was wonderful and we got along so well, but as time has passed it seems that he has either deliberately misled me or he's doing it without realising how it could be interpreted as misleading. He ...

Why do I have such trouble getting boyfriend to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have ai have such trouble when it comes to boyfriends not talking to me (like not answering my texts and such) I tell myself they are busy or they aren't at their phone. Or something has come up. But then I check their online social network page ...

Is it normal to suddenly feel insecure in a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am a 29 year old woman with a not-so-great track record with relationships. I have not been in a normal relationship for several years. I have been dating a wonderful, kind man for almost six months now. I took things very slowly in the beginning, ...

My Gf still checks her ex's facebook account, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - What should I think about my girlfriend checking her xboyfriends facebook page even though she unfriended him and can't see anything but his profile pic which isn't even a picture of him? He was a bit of trouble in our relationship in the begi...

Am I his Booty Call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - So how do you know or ask a guy if this relationship is going somewhere and that I am not just a botty call? He says he worries about me and when we fight that he misses me a lot, and gets worried if anything happened to me. I want to know if this ...

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

My younger man wont pull his weight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - OMG!! I really do not know what to do? My situation is cunning, baffaling and powerful. I am a 37 young African American Female who is a college graduate, hard working, intelligent, parent. Who tries to do the best in all situations. My problem is ...

What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

Alcohol ruins relationships right??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (?) - My Mother had always had a drinking problem and it drove my parents to divorce. I made a promise to myself I would never drink or be with someone who drinks since I thought 'If alcohol ruined my parents relationship then it would to the same to ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - No present for Christmas and not being enthusiastic about New Year's Eve. Is this a reason to dump the guy I've been with for 3 months? We were casual for the first month and a half. Then we agreed to date exclusively. He swears he wants to be w...

Should I just take those months off and leave those crazy people in my family behind or should I listen to their opinion and give up on my fiancé?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey there! My mom passed away last spring and it's still pretty hard for me to bear. Plus, my fiancé had to move abroad (2hr plane ride) for work and although we get to see each other every other week, i miss him incredibly. I also miss my mom like...

Troubled relationship with mom...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (?) - My mother is constantly having a go at me and I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I can not cope any more. I am on the brink of breaking, I have my A levels coming up which are a constant battle to keep up with, i'm trying to fit in and ...

Does this married man think that I will be waiting for him forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. I was involved in an emotional affair with a married man who has two children. I am married with one child. The affair was about to turn physical but he is the one who decided to walk away. I was severely heartbroken and devastated w...

My boyfriend wants these poisonous "friends" back into his life, but I feel as if my life is being turned upside down again. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have had a great relationship - he's stuck by me through everything even when my mum and brother passed away 2 years ago and everything was hectic. We are now living together, we both work and are very ...

I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...

How do I get my family to show my boyfriend the same respect that the other men in the family get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When my boyfriend tried to help with some clearing up my mom was icredibly rude to him instead of just saying no thanks. My sister is also sort of rude and sarcastic when she speaks to him, and the attitude seems to have rubbed off on her husband ...

I don't know what to do I just can't seem to make the break.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have been having relationship problems for the past 15 months. It all started with me going away on a hen weekend. Upon my return i told my partner who i live with that i would like to take our relationship to the next level. His response was ...

He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...

The Other Woman .. are they JUST friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a chat forum online and hit it off. We now spend most of our day (even with the time zone problem) talking with each other in one for or another. but I have a problem. Jealous...

He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

I want to know how to get my wife to change her mind

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My wife used to hesitantly perform fellatio. A few years ago she quit. There is no discussion. Just to bring it up pisses her off. I feel like I am worthless because she will not do this for me. I am not a kid, I am over fifty. How do I cha...

He ends his messages with "love (his name)"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When a man you dont know that well writes "love" and then his name at the end of a message, does that mean he is interested ?.We met last week and he bought me drinks and danced with me and he also said in the message that he would like to go out ...

Do I let go of the one I want the most?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - 4 years ago I met someone special. We dated for about 3 months or so until just before Christmas when he basically grew apart from me and went quiet and wouldn't discuss what was going on with him. He broke up with me when I dug too deep. Later ...

Girl that keeps coming into our bar fancies my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Im married 6years. Me and my hubby have just opened up a bar which is going ok. I did hire this girl who i found out a few days later that she fancies him. I have fired her already. But she keeps coming to the bar. Ive said it to my husband and he ...

I need tips on how to give a sexy surprise!

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29 December 2011 (F) - Guys... Some advice pls.. I've been with my man 6 months and only in the last 2 months have we started sleeping together, until now I've been quite shy.. Well when I say shy I mean like its all kissing touching and then straight into it. I'm ...

I want to leave but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - How do i get my boyfriend (soon to be ex) to stop eating his boogers, every time i see him hes diggin in his nose and putting it in his nose.. i am so grossed out.. i dont even kiss him anymore, and he gets really really made and throws temper ...

My guy used to treat me like a princess but now I feel like he doesn't care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - My fiance had a troubling childhood. His dad didn't take good care of him, his mom was never around and he dealt with A LOT of bullying and being made fun of relentlessly. He married his ex-wife in 1997. Not because he loved her, but because he j...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I am worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side. We've been dating for 4 months now, and sometimes he really snaps at me, and is rude/intolerant about other people. I just worry that he may become violent at some point. For instance, h...

I'm so confused by my friends' actions

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28 December 2011 (F) - I have this problem and i don't know what to do... There is this guy and he usto be my friend when we were little and then he started being a jerk a couple years ago and then he slowely made his way into our friends group. Before he started ...

I'm feeling uncomfortable and doubtful after meeting my bf's daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Sorry this post is a little long, but I need help! :( I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating on and off for about a year and six months now. After the first six months of dating, he broke-down and admitted to me that he ha...

Four years of being with a guy who is going nowhere, what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - i have a question for women...but guys can comment to...if you a single mother of twin boys (7yrs old), go to college to get your associates degree, okay you still live at home but that's why you going to school, to get your life together and have a ...