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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I accept the Proposal? But I don't trust him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some advice on whether I should listen to my head or my heart regarding my bf's marriage proposal. We've been together 17 months, and he's asked me to marry him. My initial reaction was to be very very happy... but I'm starting to give ...

Why has he changed again? His excuse is he's afraid of me getting pregnant but I'm not so sure....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Why has he changed again? I dated this guy 2 years ago now for a year, it eventually ended because i wanted more and told him i loved him and he stated he was 'fond' of me! I missed him terribly and we eventually got back together 5 months ago after ...

We've been together 5 years but I can't commit!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I really need some advice - I spent over 10 years married to a guy who put himself first, was never really proactive in thinking of doing stuff together and was selfish regarding his hobbies, career etc. He also put me down and showed no ...

What do I do if my ex decides to come back again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (?) - My ex boyfriend is a creep. He manipulated me throughout high school and abused me psychologically. I'm in college now and have a boyfriend I really care about, but every once in a while my ex will get into contact with me (via different numbers) ...

After a year of dating my b/f still hasn't told his family about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for over a year now, i can honestly say that he is the love of my life and I'm his.we get on really well and share the same sense of humour and values there is just one small problem that I can't seem to let go and it is now ...

Living with my ex after his marriage failed and hoping to get back together but he is still talking to his ex wife....how long is this going to go on for? I feel like piggy in the middle!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - My ex split from his wife a few months ago and has been renting a room from me since. The reason why he chose my place is because I have a son for him and thought that we'd get it back on as he made a mistake marrying her. (He's been out of my life ...

He has been divorced 5 years but his ex still calls him to fix things for her! Is this appropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - How appropriate is it for a man who is divorced for 5 years to go round to his ex's house to fix the cooker/replace a fuse/figure out why her car won't start when he is in a new relationship? She isn't seeing anyone and they have 1 child so ...

My boyfriend arrived for a 2 week stay with me without any money! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just arrived for a 2 week stay (we're long distance) without any money! He says he's taking a month long break unpaid and has just enough to meet child maintenance payments during this time so I'm going to have to cover for him. He ...

My son and I don't have a good relationship because of my ex (his father)....I feel like I am losing him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I raised my son on my own in UK, without any help from my ex-husband who left me for a younger woman. He did not pay any child support. He did not see our son. He saw him every now and again in total of 10 times up to the age of 7. We split up ...

Why do all the men I meet mess me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hi eveyone this is my problem I can never meet a man who won't mess me about! eveyone I have dated have cheated on me or used me for money even though I'm skint. my last relationship was we met he wanted sex nothing more that was it, kept making ...

How can I find out if he is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have known eachother for 10 years. we have been dateing for three.. and i think he is cheating on me. he hides his cell phone -i'm not alowed to touch it. he hides it at night so i cant find it and look at it. and i'm not alowed ...

Was I too harsh on him? Should I move on or reach out to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate advice on my situation. It's difficult to be objective at the moment. I went for a first date with a guy I met online (dating site), we'd only exchanged few emails, it wasn't anything special but I still decided to meet ...

He is a loner - should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hi guys, the guy im currently seeing confessed that he is a loner and the best times are when he is alone, should i be worried?...

How do I tell her I am not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (M) - This may seem really easy to do but i cant. I was drunk and i was talking to this girl whos my friend. I guess i said i wanted to have sex with her and she wanted to have it with me. I dont remember this conversation ever taking place. I am friends ...

Is it possible for my boyfriend to ever accept me now he knows about my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I have lasted a year and 4 months with my bf, I have a promiscous past I blame that I was raised with no respect and lost respect for myself. I thought it was important for my bf to know everything about me. These past couple of moths things haven't ...

Boyfriend is into the "it's not you, I just have no interest in sex right now" phase. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. Im 28, hes 34. When we met all was well and we were intimate but shortly after we met, he lost his full time job (he had 2 jobs a FT and PT)now he just has the pt which is barely anything, and his car died/ ...

He wants me back but I don't know if I should say yes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - ok.. here it is. there is this guy in my class and he's like me since the begining of the year. he asked me out once but i said no cause i didn't know him that well at first. then as the year moved on we became friends and he started to mess with me ...

Why is she angry at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (M) - We have met 3 times. And the 4th time i asked her out through facebook..She told she will get back to me..After 6 days she didnt respond..i send her a random message asking her favourite movie and then two days a later a funny video on ...

He couldnt cum for our anniversary sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I don't know why me and my boyfriend are having such a problem but we just had a nice weekend planned for our anniversary, it was everything I could have asked for except we had sex 3 times over the weekend and kept having the same issue he could ...

Is he really that messed up that he doesn't want to talk anymore because I didn't give him sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I became friends with this cute guy on Facebook back in July. The only reason I found him was because of mutual and similar friends on Facebook. If you all know how Facebook works you may have heard of the whole poking each other deal. In S...

Why is my ex playing games with me? Is he trying to spite me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - I guess my ex and I just ended our super dragged out relationship of 11 months when he randomly started ignoring me. He and I don't go to the same school but we go to the same train station. Since like two weeks ago he has been arriving at different ...

I want to help him, yet I feel so left out of his thoughts sometimes..what do I do?

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13 December 2011 (F) - last year before we started dating my boyfriend went on a trip that really changed him for the better. And he made a lot of friends he will never want to lose. along with memories he won't forget. Now he always thinks about it. sometimes to the ...

It's not like I'm asking for sex constantly, just a show of affection, and my Gf doesn't even do that!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

13 December 2011 (M) - PleAse help. Hi there I'm having a huge problem in my relationship. My girlfriend of 8 mionths just doesnt seem to want to show me affection. She begrudgingly let's me hug her have sex with her and will let me kiss her if she's feeling generous but ...

He said he loved me but had to let me go so he didn't cause me any more pain!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Tonight after a week of agony, me and my partner of 7months split up. I really didn't see this coming and really thought we would get back together. His work commitments and lack of time we spent together was why we split up. I have 2 children ...