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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I have stayed with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - Me and a guy were seeing each other for a few months and we proposed going slow. I found out just recently that he has 2 children. I found this out from a close friend of his, he didn't tell me. He is a heavy drinker, drinks every nigh...

Is he insensitive or am I too sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My fiance says I'm sensitive, but I think he's just mean. I won't get into a whole lot of background. We've been together for 7.5 years now and I just get upset with him too much I feel. He just does things that get under my skin and it really sucks ...

Should I proceed with the wedding after having been lied to and cheated on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - In 10months time i will be getting married to my 3years boyfriend. Our first year of relationship didnt started out well (it'll be too long for me to tell the reason as theres loads of it) and maybe probably because of his work as well as it ...

I ran away, now I'm pregnant and don't know how to tell my Mom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - i need help please! my mom and i got in a huge fight about a year and a half ago about her and her boyfriend getting married i couldn't and i still can't stand him..time being she hated my boyfriend to, he probably wasn't and probably still isn't ...

How to show her I'm not cheating? She won't listen to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I need help with my girlfriend I am in a desperate situation and I know many of you will just say to break up with her but I'm not looking for that I am looking for advice on how to fix our relationship Recently while I was on the phone with h...

I am due to fly out to see my bf but he has just dumped me! I am distraught!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - Ok so its less than a week before Xmas. I am due to fly out to be with my boyfriend tomorrow (6 year relationship) and he has just told me, out the blue, that he doesn't feel the same way about me any more... and he told me by email. I am totally ...

I feel distant towards my boyfriend! Its getting worse, Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 years. Lately, as in the last year I have felt distant from him, and it gets worse everyday. When I try to sit down and talk to him he either gets mad and says he hears it all the time or he'll laugh and say he's tired ...

My Gf has asked me for £50, I said No, was I wrong?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - Hi all, been with my gf for 3 years she has never worked (she is 19) and neither has her mum I have worked since I left school. I spend quite alot on her having to buy food lending her bus money etc etc sometimes it annoys me sometimes it doesn't. ...

Confused about what happened with my ex and wondering what it means about us....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated for nearly 18 months. After this time however, we found that we were fighting a lot (probably too much) and she had trouble opening up to me (telling me anything important actually). We ended up breaking up. She said ...

My ex has a new guy....is he just a rebound? Should I wait for her, or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - So its been about 6 months that me and my ex broke up from our 3 and half year relationship. We started talking and hanging out about 2 months ago.. I found out she started going out with this guy about a month or 2 after our break, what hurts is I ...

If things don't work out with his girlfriend would I have a chance? Is it wrong to remain friends with him when I like him so much?

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20 December 2011 (F) - hi everybody, im a 16 years old girl..and ive developed feelings for this guy who is 21 years old, with me in volunteer working..ive always had something for him but always neglected it, because this would be just stupid..but my feeling are getting ...

My birthday call from my ex. What's his reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - Right, well... yeah it's my birthday today. Hmmm won't mention my age coz I feel so old... :/ Anyway, about quarter to midnight my ex just called me. Just so everyone knows, me and my ex are good friends and we try to stay in contact even aft...

What were his intentions? And why did my friend betray me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm 18. My best friends boyfriend is mutual friends with a 26 year old. Apparently he saw a picture of me from my friend and he thought I was attractive so wanted to get to know me. He began by adding me on Facebook and we arrang...

I don't know how much longer I can continue before I give up on this relationship....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years. Our first year was great but since then things have seemed to turn bad. He has problems with his finances and ex and maintenance, he had to move away to another job to be able toe earn enough, ...

I read my wife's journal and now I am tormented by it

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 6. I was a virgin when we met. She told me she had been with three men. Considering her great beauty and how many men were after her I didn't think that was so bad, especially because she is three...

How do I put this behind me? Is there a reason why this still bothers me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - ive been with my husband 21 yrs... He has said some inproper things too other woman.(example) a ex friend(female) ask my husband too loan her 20 bucks,my husband says "dont tell dawn(me) i dont want her to accuse me of flirting with you" etc. My ...

He is off work for the holidays and starts drinking at 11am! Should I accept this or confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My partner and I have been living together for 6 months. He is on holiday at the moment but I am still working. He starts drinking at 11 am since on holiday, keeps going till 9 pm. When he's working he will only have a glass or 2 of wine in the e...

Am I in the wrong for being mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - To start off, one night my two good friends and I were hanging out. I have a really good friend who i haven't seen in a while that came over and she brought her friend, we'll call him Wes. We all started hanging out every weekend for a long time ...