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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I broke off with my boyfriend recently, now I'm wondering if we should get back together, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I broke it off with my b/f of 3 years a week ago. I just wasnt happy anymore and felt we had drifted apart. I thought it was the right thing. We are still very good friends bt i now feel really lonely. i miss him and wonder whether i shouldve...

Is she just too high maintenance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Nemo solus satis sapit...or two heads are better then one. That is one of favorite latin proverbs, and thats why today I am sending this letter/question out. First off, and I'll do my best to keep this short, altought certain insight is required...

Together 7 years, still only 22 , now a guy and my girl's work is making her think about things, should I cut her out to make her appreciate me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I am so incredibly confused. I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together since we we're 15. I always thought that we would be together forever, however about a month ago i noticed a slight change in her behaviour as she seemed to be ...

He found messages from another guy on my phone, but I'm innocent, how can I get things back to normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2008 (?) - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months (I’m 27, he’s 25). Everything has been going really, really well, until about 3 days ago. He went into my cell phone and found text messages from another guy. There were two series of ...

My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

My ex could never get over the fact I dated somebody else during a break: please help me put my family back together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - my ex and i have were together over 4 years. we have a beautiful little girl, an engagement, 2 dogs, a house, joint bank accounts, etc. things were rough about 2 1/2 years in, we fought constantly and i split up with her, then dated another wo...

My fiance doesn't want sex with me anymore...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I am 23yr old and i have been with my fiance for 4yrs. Over the last year or so he has become less and less interested in sex with me all he wants is handjobs. I understand that this might be something he is into but it just seems its all about him, ...

How can we get our sparkle back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I don’t know what to do. Me and my bf (were both 21) have been together for just over a year and we have been arguing for the last few months. Its always about the same thing. I say that he doesn’t show me enough affection and doesn’t kiss me enough ...

We are having problems but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - i have been dating my g/f for about 4 years and we were so comfortable with each other that we started picking out children's names and planned on moving in together and establishing our lives together. eventually though, within the past year, i got ...

What can I do about my boyfirends constant lying??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. I am 16 and he is 17. When we first started to go out he was constantly lying to me and said he only done it so people would like him. But it was affecting our relationship so he ...

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

I can't decide.....my wife?? Or my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I need help from someone who has been through this life crisis before, and has time to read my story! My wife and I married in our late 20s, thinking we both knew what we wanted, and although we didn’t have a whirlwind passionate romance, we thou...

Which one of us is being unreasonable - if either?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Since my childhood I've slept with a noisemaker to drown out all the other sounds of the night. I find it soothing and I daresay I'm somewhat dependent upon it for a good night's sleep. My girlfriend of two years absolutely hates the thing. It's ...

Him or me. Should I give her an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I started a relationship with a girl that I have known for a very long time (12 years). I had a crush on her since the first time I met her. We stopped talking for about five years and in that time she got married to a guy that does not treat her ...

How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I met a girl in 2001 while on holiday turned out we lived very close to each other back in london. When we got back I called her soon as i got home and we met up the next day and spent everyday and night together for a week.as much as i fancied her ...

How do I get some closure - and is it worth trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - About 5 days ago my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me, saying that he just wanted to be friends and wasn't 'feeling' our relationship. He said he was sorry, and that I didn't do anything wrong. This was a total shock to me, as we had been ...

Is it normal for people to go cold towards their partner at times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for over two months. It has been a wonderful relationship. Started out magically and everything. I see him every day. About two days ago, I noticed he was acting strangely and asked him what happened. He said ...

Little things he does seem to annoy me lately. I think this is a probelm with me. Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for around a year now with a boy I go to school with. We're past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage - I class him as my partner. We've been sleeping together for about seven months, first time for both of us. Lately though, ...

He dated me but always had a gf!! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Well where do i start.. im a 17 year old girl and i fell in love. first love and all that. Its been goiing on since my 2nd year in senior school and its always been on and off!.. it got to the year 2005 anddd we wasnt together but got chatting...

Would you allow your wife to have sex with another man?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - If you were unable to satisfy your wife sexually due to health problems, would it be ok to allow her to have sex with a person of your choice?...

He is avoiding me after I talked about getting married...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I just want some 3rd party opinions on this. I recently informed my boyfriend of 5 years that I need to know where this is actually going because discussing marriage but then counterbalancing it with what seems like sarcastic comments isn't cutting ...

Why won't he stop texting other women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Like other posts I have read on here, my fiance and father of my two year old has been texting other women for quite a while. There have been occasions where he has gone out at night and ignored my texts for hours, saying he didn't text me back cos ...

Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says ...

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says ...

I feel like I'm losing him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Hey, i really need advice, I met a guy online last february, met him and started dating, fell in love with him and all that, got engaged in july just gone, however he lost his job a couple of weeks ago and since then he's been stressed out abo...

He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I ...

He abuses me emotionally, But I can't leave him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Please help me. I'm desperate. I am so in love with my bf, I mean I have never been in love like I am now, but things have happened, I should leave him. Things have turned so nasty between us, but I am so in love, I can't actually tell the diff...

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

He invited me to functions and I had other plans. Now he won't call.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to ...

I broke up with her but I don't want it to end! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Hi all! I feel totally down right now. I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday over the telephone. It was like this. We had difficult times and were just starting to get to the right track again. Yesterday we talked about our problems and we ...

How can I test him to check how much he's in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - my bf of a year now is kind of treating me bad lately and gets upsets very very easy...he was not like that in the beginning.why is he acting like this..he gets upset when i'm giving hugs to other guys who's actually one of my best friends.when i ...

Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened....

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...

Is she stringing me along? Is her not contacting me even to ask how I am a bad sign?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, Back here once again, in pretty much the same situation. I was going through a horrible break up with the same girl about a year and a half ago. But she came back saying she made a mistake, and i let her back into my life, and we were h...

Its gone sour since she moved here to be with me but I'm worried about her wellbeing if we split, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked ...

My friend grassed me up to my boyfriend. Do I become mates with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - rite this is complicated ..... very complicated. where do i start - well ive lived next door to this lad 4 about 12 yrs and he was best mates with my brother, when my brother went to university me n him became very close n he was my bestest friend ...

I feel bullied in my relationship.I want to leave, but I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - For the past two years, I have fell head over heels for a man that just seems to not have the same emotional function as i do. Lately I have felt the pain and agony, of what it is really like, to have someone who you really care about just shove ...

How can we get his ex to leave us alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...

The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" ...

I am jealous because my boyfriend doesn't spend enough time with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm having trouble with my bf lately. I feel bored, and don't feel like want to see him anymore. We've been together for 3 years. He seldom spends time with me during the weekend,he spends all his weekend on trespassing to take photos. I know he is ...

I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he ...

I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...

My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relation...

Torn between my best friend and boyfriend...which one do I choose??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I ve bin dating the same guy since high skool....am working and done with college now..so we've bin dating for a long time(7yrs)although a long distance relationship.. I met some guy about a year ago and we have bin very very good friend.....

I confronted him about him giving his number out and now he is calling me possessive and sick.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi.. i've been having lot of problems lately with my boyfriend.. i've been with him for 8years now. He is a good guy but i got to know that he mailed a friend of his(female)gave her his no and never bothered to let me know... i happened to find out...

Best friend's boyfriend won't let her see me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - So I’ve known my “best friend” for six years now. From the moment we met each other we were inseparable. We hung out every day, lived together for two years, and were closer than sisters. Our boyfriends have always had this weird thing about us ...