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*rlando
writes:I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X Factor'. . he has no education, unemployed and he smokes weed on a daily basis. We've just been friends for the past 4mnths. On the other hand, I've been with my current boyfriend for a month now, and he's definately got 'The X Factor'. . money, clothes, physique. . but hes a jerk most times. Snide comments, no gentlemen gestures EVER. . doesn't even hug me when im cold :(. . .and i think I'm pregnant to him. . . HELP!
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reader, Orlando +, writes (2 February 2008):
Orlando is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey everyone, its ME again. . .well i found out I am pregnant. . and my boyfriend 'the jerk' is freaking out. . its been three days and although he's said he'll stay with me (after a bit of badgering) It's as clear as crystal that he doesn't want me to keep this child. . when i first told him, i said 'You're going on like it's the end of the world' and he said 'Because IT IS!'. . .then yesterday, he took back all the 'i love you's' saying he meant them as 'I have love FOR you'. . he said because of the tone he used when he said 'I LOVE YOU' i shouldn't of got confused. .even thou i told him when we got together i've been heartbroken ect, i haven't got time for games. Then when we finally started reminicsing on the good times. . after a 2second silence he goes 'yeah well i have no confidence in this situation'. . and i was like. . 'why would you say that, we was just joking and smiling, why couldn't you just let us end the conversation on a good vibe?' can't remember what he said after that but he said not to call him tomorrow, so i'm just gonna leave him. . wether it be a week or nine months. .basically i'm not for abortion. .i went through it last year with 'the pot head' and it was too emotionally stressfull
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reader, NycZem  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Im all for abortion, so i would suggest that, and u need to learn how to be a bitch. Dump the pothead. And start being aggressive to the jerk. show him who is boss, and if not leave his ass.
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reader, Orlando +, writes (30 January 2008):
Orlando is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for ur replies. . .i'll consider both :D xx
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reader, baked +, writes (30 January 2008):
 If I were you, I would get rid of them both! There isn't a good quality between the both of them, if you are pregnant. I wouldn't count on the 'weed smoker' or the one with money. You need to split up with both of them and bring up the baby decently.
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reader, Kiss Dont Miss +, writes (30 January 2008):
The situation sucks... as fas as I understand from your letter you don't love your current bf madly, though he has almost any girl would dream, except tenderness. Anyway if you are pregnant that baby must be his. So wait until you know for sure whether you're pregnant and then talk things over with him. This must make things clear. And your ex... It's he who has a problem and not you. If he had cared about you, he would have given up rolling a joint, got some job, etc. It's his choice and his life, and unfortunately there's no way you can make him do things you like. Wait a bit, and I'm sure heavy clouds will be blown away... Best of luck, dear!
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