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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together for the 4th time but problem his family doesn't want us to date. they say i treat him like crap and im not mature. i really want to be with me him cause i know for a fact i love him but he texted me ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

My boyfriend told me to stop talking to this other guy but I don't know how to tell him that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i don't know what 2do.. i gt bk wiv my ex nearly 2years ago n we've been goin out eva since n its bin great..except b4 i gt wiv him there was this guy i gt wiv at my uni..we neva went out but things jus happend- we didnt get round 2 havin sex but ...

I pushed him too far and he's heartbroken. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. It was perfect, but not for long. We fought. It was generally his fault, him saying the wrong things, and I would get so hurt that I would break up with him, promising myself that I would lea...

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

HOw can I get over my abusive cheating boyfriend after half my life with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Please can someone tell me how long it takes to get over/fall out of love with someone? Does the pain ever heal? I met my partner when i was 14 (he was 20). By the time i was 15 we were living in a flat together and we were engaged. Slowly over the...

My husband watches porn, but won't have sex with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My husband is not interested in sex with me, no matter what I do, and, believe me, I have tried everything. He prefers unusual porn sites (women trampling men, women smothering men) and I have offered to do these things to him but he says he does ...

He's not the same now that I'm pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and feel like my relationship is falling down around my ears. My parents didn't react to well when then heard the news, but they are looking forward to meeting their new grandchild, even offering to buy the pram. When I told ...

Should we call it quits after 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hello all you experienced people, My relationship..., seven years engaged a couple ago. 5 kids between us although hers are gone, moved in for a bit but because of lawyers and child support laws she moved out. we still get along well and enjoy t...

My pregnant girlfriend keeps kicking me out! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is pregnant and she is always kicking me out. Last week we she said she had the ump and although she said it wasnt my fault she told me I had to stay at my mums that night. I didnt call her that evening because she said she didnt want ...

I'm very upset about my partner's online profile! Why would he do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hello, everyone. I need some advice. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship for the past 5 years. He has two kids from his first marriage and we're getting ready to have a second child. I am tired, frustrated, worn...

We only have sex when he wants to and in his manner, friends say he is using me, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Another weekend and I am feeling sick - my bf and I have been together for 3 yrs - since July things have been rocky when I confronted him about advertising himself on the sex friend sites. He has his girls who are 11 and 13 hating me and he ...

Do I continue this relationship because he's supporting me financially?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Do i have to continue my relationship with my bf who's supporting me financially, did lots of things for me but always cheating on me and he is not caring and sweet now like before. He changed a lot:(...

Whenever we fight, I'm always the one that apologizes even though I've done nothing wrong. Is this worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - What to do with my girlfriend? I am a 15 years old boy and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Still, I loved her longer than that. It's been four years that I've fallen in love with her and I've stayed devoted to her e...

Troubled marrige, he cheated, now not much sex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We have been together for 7 years and to the outside world, it would appear that we are a happy, in-love couple. I love my husband dearly but 2 years ago, just 6 months into our marriage, he cheated on me. He can't/refuses to tell me why he did it ...

I still can't forget what he did at the beginning of our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i have got this really weird problem... i have a boyfriend(my classmate in coll) and we've been together for last 18 months.i feel he really loves me but when we initially started out he had this habit of complimenting other girls and usually ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

I'm in a loveless marriage. I'm miserable but I can't leave the kids. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Don't know what to think or do anymore. April 7th, 2000 my wife left without a word. No note, no indications whatsoever. Took our kids and moved in with her boss where she stayed for a year and a half. Then she came back... my mistake but I still ...

His mother is not willing to give him up! Should I stay with him or let her have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hello, I had met my soul mate when I had been on holidays, although we were both expecting nothing of it at first but a summer fling, we both fell in love. He had proposed to me, and I came back home the happiest girl. Its been 4 months long dist...

He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...

My girlfriend is scaring me! She just blows up and takes it out on me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - So, I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. we're in our early 20s. She's my first and the relationship seemed really good at first. We would spend time together but over the past few months she's changed. She throws tantrums and takes ...

We broke up in February, when he gave me a letter, stating he wanted to start up again in a year with me, have not seen him since we broke up, now I get a voice mail, that he wants to drop over, what could he want?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hello Everyone, I need some advice regarding my ex... We broke up in Feb this year and haven't seen him since. I have recieved a voice mail message and messages stating that if I am home so he can pop over??? What does this mean? What could...

I moved to a new area, found a very nice guy to be with, things seemed to be going great, then he broke up with me, telling his friend, he thought I was weird, why would he act so differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I just recently moved to a new area and found someone who seemed perfect. He was a total Prince charming, had only kissed a girl on the cheek, and was so shy and sweet. We have some things in common like creativness and type of music ect. Well I ...

We have been dating for four years, she tells me now she doesn't want a relationship, I love her, but I don't know what to do now, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Me and this girl fell deeply in love with each other around 4 years ago when we first met, since then it has been awesome ride, but the other day she all of a sudden said she doesnt want a relationship, to me this was abit of a shock, i thought it ...

Since we have been married, my husband has completely changed, he is boring, unkept, gambles, and does not give me any money, this is troubling, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - well what can i say about me i am 22 hispanic and really outgoing i just recently got married. my question is what can i do when my husband is totally the opposite of me ever since we got married he has been boring and does not dress nice anymore ...

I said some mean things and my boyfriend and I broke up, I am getting confusing signals from him, does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and i broke up a month and a half ago and the reason why we broke up was because i said i was thinking maybe we're better off as friends and he took it wrong, i was jus tellin him i was startin to think that, but we stayed friends ...

How much longer do I stick with this? I've sacrificed so much already for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm 24, I've never been married, lived with a boyfriend, or had a child. My boyfriend is 42, has been married twice and has a 4 year old daughter. His last marriage ended 2.5 years ago and neither one of his marriages were long-lasting. We have been ...

She hasn't given me any reason not to trust her but why doesn't she want a serious relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I met my current g/f at my very first job about 4-5 years ago. At the time, she was dating one of my friends for a little while. They broke up after a year and a half roughly, and I didn't really talk to her much afterwards. About 2 1/2 months ago, ...

Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants ...

Why all this HATE towards me and show of temper?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone ...

Should I be more understanding and patient or should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I have a great guy of 2 years...great personality, intelligent, attractive, and attentive (affectionate)...he is everything that I have been searching for. But I have been very patient with him (cause we aren't having sex...trust me I want to but he ...

How can I make him understand that I'm not easy? He even used the 'S' word...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is very unfair, I believe... Well, I'll start with some background. My boyfriend of two years has problems with my past. Especially because when I was single, on two ocassions, I made out with strangers at the bar after half an hour of havin...

Right now I need to focus on me, and not the recent break up, and recover from being emotional needy and clingy. Any help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - How do i let go of hope, hope the phone will ring, hope ill get a text message etc.. hope hope hope.. its because the last thing he said was "Im sure well see each other again one day" and " I just dont want anyone right now but we can talk" I would ...

I have been seeing someone for a year now and I love him but he isn't nice to me anymore and I feel I have had enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore, ive just had enough. Ive been seeing someone for a year now and i love him with all my heart but i dont think he loves me anymore and he isnt very nice to me - not like it was. I just feel so down right down, i ga...

Did this boyfriend steal my 10yr old daughter's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Met a guy, few weeks later he took me and my kids out for the day in his sisters car (she was away on business) My 10 yr old daughter took her phone, decided before we got there she didn't want to carry it round so i put it in the glove box. Fo...

I cancelled the wedding because I don't think we know each other enough., but he ended up heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i was going to get marry in july and I cancelled everything becuase i wasnt sure about getting marry and my boyfriend is always blaming me, he said that I hurted him alot. what should i do? i met my boyfriend by myspace we got engangage by the...

He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my ...

One of my closest friends changed suddenly and I don't know if I'm to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Ok, sorry if this is really long..... its kinda hard to explain I have a friend named Nate, we have been friends for over 5 years, we have dated before for about a month but it was really ockward so we decided to remain friends. My boyfriend and...

I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but ...

My lover doesn't enjoy sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Yesterday I asked a question about whether it was healthy/normal to want sex all the time and the answers were basically yes and enjoy it... problem is I'm in a relationship with a great man who doesn't want to enjoy it. I just go longing. What ...

I over-reacted and now he has been ignoring me! What should I do? I don't want to lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i dated for two months, talked for three months before that, and have been close friends for three years, he sent me a text saying we need a break after i acted a little crazy (he went away to camp and i was having a hard time not ...

My boyfriend won't french kiss me! He says it leads to sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says the reason he won't french kiss me is because it always leads to sex and he has no desire for sex. He has ED. but I think french kissing is not just for sex. We've only been together 2 months and I 'm not ready for sex but I am ...

My fiance doesn't love me like she used to...she wants to see other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - My fiance told me she doesent love me like she did. She came over on sunday and texted me before she came over that we needed to talk. It bothered me so much, she was going to wait until after dinner, but i begged her and she said, I think we should ...

I'm a young, gay male who is heart broken over a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - i am a 28 year old gay male i have been in a relationship with the same guy for 10 years we live together things are ok our sex life kinda faded out and is rare if ever i think we are both in it for convienience... i met the man of my dreams my ...

This text would be a window of opportunity if he is still holding on to me, should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a r...

My depression broke her heart. Could get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - This story is somewhat complicated but I will do my best do explain it. Basically, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. She was really in love with me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was up at college, and was going through a ...

My girlfriend's past is causing me pain!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I'm currently involved in a serious relationship with someone.. I just can't seem to get over her past. It bothers me even more that i know every guy she's been with and see them around my town every once in a while.. It eats away at me and i'm not ...

My boyfriend acts different with everyone else except me, what can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so confused! I started dating my boyrfiend 6 months ago and im head over heels in love with him. Ive had so many bf's and never fell inlove before. A few months ago i truly felt that he was the one and i wanted everything with him...

I don't understand my boyfriend's behavior. Is he hiding something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I am finding it a real struggle. He said from the outset that he liked his own space and didn’t like talking much, but sometimes it gets too much for me. He had said some time ago that...

I'm always staying at his house, but he never stays at mine. What can I do to balance this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My fiance and I are in a wonderful relationship. We both live with our parents still as I am still in college, and he's waiting for me to graduate and become financially stable for when we do move in together. We see each other, usually around 4-5 ...