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writes:Yesterday I asked a question about whether it was healthy/normal to want sex all the time and the answers were basically yes and enjoy it... problem is I'm in a relationship with a great man who doesn't want to enjoy it. I just go longing. What then? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you must be very carefull for long term commitment with this guy; sexual compatibility is very important;
However, you need to try and establish what is causing his low libido; is there any medical reason for it; is he on medication? If there is no medical reason it could be psycolgical, in which event counseling might be needed;
I suggest you pay attention to this problem; discuss it with him and ask him to seek professional help.
This can cause lots of frustrtions and ultimately serious problems in a relationship.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, twisted  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 Try asking him why? It's probably going to be a very sensitive and embarrassing subject for him because there could potentially be a "problem" there.I obviously don't know about his performance when you DO have sex, but if it's good and he's into it, then he just might not be a very sexual person. If he isn't really into it or can't perform even when you actually do have sex, then there really could be a problem. You need to put your cards on the table in a VERY sensitive way, express what you are feeling and ask him what is going through his head. Assure him that whatever it is, you'll be ok with it and make sure that you are! Be supportive if he needs you to be and try to work on it together. It actually could turn into something quite fun!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): he should go have a checkup. He either has low testosterone or erectile dysfunction.
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