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writes:I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone belittling me becasue I hadnt slept with him I cannot understnad why he keeps getting in such tempers with me? I did like him though. We kept in touch by e mail and we met up although he told me he was a flirt I told him I liked him then he e mailed me quite angrily and said we would not meet up ever again - once again his anger showing through. (He has been widowed two years but does go out with feamles he told me)I saw him whilst I was on a bus and he was walking past (no one was stalking just a coincidence) he does know I own a flat there and have done for many years-so thats not out of order. It was not until the bus went past I realised it was him.A few days later he was driving up the hill whilst me and a friend was walking down in the opposite direction to my flat-once again coincidence as we were going in opposite directions-he looked out of the window and got angry with me and it looked very much as if he was shouting abuse at me-certainly did not look happy. he knows I wasnt stalking him-its too big a palce and also I was in the opposite directionin a completly different palce than before at a compeltely different time.WHY is thise guy so unhappy with me-as he was on holiday because of no sex ok I can understand that but he gets nasty then he gets nasty when he sees me walking down the hill. WHy does he hate me so much?I have e mailed him and asked him and said he has no worries I am not going over there for the forseeable future he DOES know I own a flat na d have done so for years so he is supiscious-but why all the hate? he hasnt answered my e maisl and he could so easily sayin an e mail look here.......... WHAT IS all this hate for. a friend of mine says perhaps he realises he likes you more than he thought-I dont know-if that was the case whats stopping him he might have a girl friend but he has always said he is a flirt and a free agent. Why bother to stare at me when he saw me on the bus and go out of his way to break away from the group he was standing with-he could so easily have hidden in the group and I wouldnt have seen him! But he made a point of standing out in front on his own looking at me!!Thanks-I wish he would top hating me.
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 My best advice is to start ignoring him. He seems like a real jerk. He already hates you so to dwell on that is just going to stress you out more, and that's probably what he wants. It's better to rid him of your life so you can enjoy it again. Be careful though, if he knows where you live it might lead to trouble if he decides to do something. Oh, and it's okay to not give him sex. I hate guys who get mad if they can't get it, such an animalistic response -.-
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 Sounds to me like he's a guy who REALLY doesn't like taking"no" for an answer. You hit him where he lives when you found him resistible, and he's not going to let you forget it.
At this point I don't think that a normal relationship would be possible even if it was something you wanted. And I think you would be foolish to WANT it with him anyway. He's an egotistical immature man who can't control his temper and can't fathom the concept of delayed gratification.
Forget him, and put as much distance between the two of you as you reasonably can. if he confronts you again, jsut tell him to get the HE** out of your life.
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