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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I showed her how to do the problem, but I didn't flirt with her or make any jokes. Now she seems very angry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - She rejected me about 1 week ago. She is my friend and I made sure that she only wanted to be friends, she said yes. I really liked her for several years (just about how long our friendship has been). Anyway, today a different girl asked me for h...

I am beginning to wonder if he sees me as a booty call but that could be my lack of self-esteem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. I really feel like I am falling in love with him. He is physically very affectionate which I love; always holding my hand, hugging me, etc. He is laid-back, very gentle and yet very passionate ...

Should I give him a few more days, or move on with my life. How long should I give him to sort things through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I met a great guy on the internet. We talked for about 6 weeks. We ended up sleeping together. He gave me a kiss and told me to call him. I did but he didn't answer, then he called me the next day and I didn't answer. We played phone tag a couple ...

Should I take advantage of my youth, taking the advice of my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Today I spoke to my friends about my break-up with my girlfriend earlier this summer. I hadn't seen a lot of them since it happened back in June. I was with her for 2 years, and she broke things off with me. Summer has been very hard to bear wit...

Do you think we could get back together and have a future? I just want it to be how it was before.

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13 September 2007 (F) - The problem is, me and my boyfriend haven't been getting on well lately. It's because he meets me at the weekends when he's in a bad mood or else he doesn't bother meeting me at all. He always prefers his friend's company to mine unless he decides ...

Our financial situation is getting in the way big time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend sooo much and he loves me a lot we have been together for 7 years and we just click so well but I sometimes think that we need to go our seperate ways. Our financial situation is getting in the way big time!!! please give me ...

I am feeling jealous because my recovering alcoholic husband has a female friend with the same problem.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - My husband is a recovering alcoholic. During the summer he went into hospital to help this problem when he met an inpatient (female) and got along really well with her. There relationship was making me feel uncomfortable towards the end of his stay ...

I'm missing him sooo much, so much so that when me and my partner do the deed it's as if I'm cheating on this other guy and I cry afterwards!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Hi 4 years ago my partner and I met another couple (I was 18 and my partner 24) and the other couple (male 37 and female 28). At first I did not have feelings for the male of the couple but he soon started to make it clear that he had feelin...

I'm a complete wreck here and don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Hello again Dear Cupid and all of the Agony Aunts (and uncles I guess) =D I'm sure that the last relationship problem I had was the last time I was on here. We broke up because I walked in on my own home and found her in bed with another 1 year a...

My boyfriend's breath stinks and it's really putting me off him. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Sorry for writing in again, I have a problem with my boyfriend again! Every time I see him he tries to kiss me but his breath really stinks (bad words) I try and brush him off but sometimes I can't no matter how much gum I give him the smell's ...

How can I tell him that I think it is not wrong but risky for me to go to his house without hurting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I enjoy going over to my boyfriend's house to watch movies together. We have even had sex, but not intercourse. However, every time we get together we have almost had intercourse at the last minute. I don't want intercourse because I don't want ...

It got worse after a while and he started cutting me and raping me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was really nice and treated me really well. A few weeks into our relationship he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, I wasn't ready at ...

My boyfriend is demanding about sex and caused me serious pain last time. I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - i have this problem, my bf treats me like a sex toy, every time we see each other he demands a god 3 hour sex sesson. though i allow him to have sex with me, i feel that it is just to satisfy him and not for our relationship. we have been together ...

Having a torrid affair with a woman who has a bf! And.I am jealous of her bf!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Hi all. Advice needed. In love /lust with a woman who has a boyfriend. Yes it has turned into a torrid affair. Thing is we became close and realized how similar we are. But with her cheating, me being single she gets incredibly jealous but still ...

How can I overcome this and know that there's nothing going on behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Hey, I have been dating my new girlfried for about a week or so now, things are going great but I feel a bit tense and worried. Heres why! There's this other lad who kinda likes her but knows we're a item, he said to her when I was not there th...

Most of my hubby's friends have stopped talking to him, I think it's because of his need to correct people all the time, which is now very frequent and upsetting.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I'm having a problem with my husband. He always feels the need to correct EVERYONE about almost EVERYTHING they say. For example, I'll say that the sky is blue and he'll "correct" me by saying that it's cyan. Or if a friend says that they're col...

My mum's doctor started groping her and pulling her upstairs!!! She won't let me report him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - A while ago I asked for advice about my mum's encounter with her randy, over familiar stand in toy boy doctor, who wanted to give my mother of 59 and suffering from depression, more than just a pill to take before bedtime, the sex beast doc, was ...

I'm turned off from my boryfriend because of his porn habits. How can I get it out of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend keeps downloading the filthiest porn behind my back and it makes me so sick I donn't even want him to touch me. I've just found one were a woman is practically being abused by 3 men. He says he's not into anal sex but it's in all of ...

How do I change the error of my ways? I desperately need to get good grades as I want to go to uni next year...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Hey, I feel really self concious around teachers now, I know it sounds a bit silly but I can't help obsessing how they percieve me, so I try to act all confident and loud.. but maybe a bit too much. My old college were threatening to chuck me out, ...

Should my bf be able to set the rules for my 14 year old daughter?

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13 September 2007 (F) - Im a widow, parent of a 14 yr old girl and my boyfriend and i just bought a house together. should he have say so in what my daughter's punishments should be or and should he be able to set rules for her?...

How do I make him leave me alone, he's very possessive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I met my bf through being mates with his 1st wife and Ive been with him for 4 years now, and when I met him he had split up with his 2nd wife.That was at xmas time, by the Feb we had decided to go on holiday, we had a great time but when we got back ...

We kiss sometimes, but it hurts to know I'm just a "friend" now. Should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - My bf( we are both 17!) of 9 months and I broke up just under 3 months ago. He said he didnt want a relationship anymore( things were gettin too serious) So, obviously broke up with him cause i knew he wasnt happy and we kept on arguing over...

She says she wants time alone and if we ever get back it wont be for ages. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - My partner and i have split up recently and i dont know how to win her back, in the end our relationship fell apart, felt like we couldn't trust each other even tho there has been no infidelity on either side, i know she cares and so do i, bu...

He always likes me to make the 1st move in intimacy so when I didn't the sex stopped. How can I show he's not playing fair?

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13 September 2007 (F) - I need some advice My guy and I have been together a few years,he always likes me to make the 1st move in sex.....Ive had enough of this ,this dawned on me that he liked this just a few months ago when I didnt make the 1st move and sex stopped?...

She took advantage of my fiance's good nature, and I even told him to watch out for her! Should I be upset w/ him?

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13 September 2007 (F) - There's this girl who I used to be friends with. I stopped talking to her really b/c she started being a big slut, and trying to get with every guy she saw, including her best friend's live in b.f. She's also an alcoholic and pathological liar. She ...

Should I apologize to my on/off again guy for flipping out that he has a girlfriend now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Ok so this is kinda a long story... but i'll try to make it as short as i can... i really need advice... me n this guy have been on again off again for the past year... and it hurts everytime he disappears... n he knows he disappears... well i ...

I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...

Is this his way of letting me know he wants to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - i had a arguement with my bf at the weekend, well if that is was u can call it. i seem to be quite off with him lately, mainly over textes, just coz i dont see him that much, and this is a new relationship. he saids its coz hes tired and i ...

I pulled away b/c I've never snogged anyone before! I was just nervous, but he dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Im 14 next week and i've had quite a few boyfriends. theres this one boy ive been out with 7 times, the last time we went out he dumped me. I think its because one time when we were camping with a group of friends we were left alone in the tent and ...

Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?

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13 September 2007 (F) - What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...

She broke up w/ me, but says she may change her mind! I'm so confused.

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13 September 2007 (M) - Hello me 24 and my ex 27 broke up with me 1 week and a half ago after almost 3 years together. It all started with her saying shes not in love with me anymore, but she still loves me. She said it was over, but tells me with all of her exes she knew ...

She has trust issues and constantly accuses me of cheating. Someone please help!!!

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13 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend that I have know for over twelve years andI have been with her for the past 2 years. she always wants to accuse me of cheating. Her ex Husband cheated on her and she walked in on the two of them well you know. and now she is very ...

Because of my abusive ex, my mum says I'm not allowed to date until I finish uni!

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13 September 2007 (F) - I need some help!!! There is this guy I have recently met who I really like and he likes me back too! He asked me out on a date for next week and I said yes. However heres my problem...I dont think my mum will be happy. See my last relationshi...

I'd love to get our family back together, but my ex is sending me mixed signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - me and my ex have 2 young boys we were childhood sweathearts now in our 30's. been split for nearlly 2 years. Just recently she's been sugesting things like i cant stop thinking about you and nothing will be like what me and you had, yet when i try ...

My family doesn't accept the man I love because of his lack of education. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I am so in luv with a guy that i know for over 4 years,he has a good job nd he is perfect,the prob is that he is not as educated as i am,nd because of that my parents are refusing to see nd meet him,they think he has no future at all!What should i ...

I want us both to give up weed... but he thinks I'm trying to change him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - What should I do? I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months. We have our ups and downs and he is my first serious boyfriend. He is the only person I have ever loved and I can't imagine being with anyone else. The main problem ...

I fancy someone else more than my fiancee!

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13 September 2007 (F) - Im a mum of 1, and were planning our wedding for next year, but i have more feelings for another male then i do my fiance. this other male feels the same bout me, and i keep sneaking round there to see him behind my partners back. I am so confused ...

I love this man! But, we have trust issues. Please give me some sensible advice.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - hi everyone,i hope someone can give me a sensible answer,without accusing me of anything as i seem to see a lot of aunts making assumptions,when its advice people are asking for.i been with my fella just under four years and the first 2 were kind of ...

He asked me to marry him, but I'm afraid he'll leave if I stay fat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - i am nearly 8 months pregnant and i love my partner he has asked me to marry him i said yes but im scared i wont lose the baby weight, i've always had an issue with my weight but now its even worse, im 21 but cant go to the gym as i had major ...

My bf gets snippy with me, and says that it's a perception problem on my part! But it's not.

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13 September 2007 (F) - I've been with my amazing and live-in boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and just the other day I confronted him about his lack of patience with me. At times, he tends to speak to me in a snippy tone of voice that makes me feel like he can't stand ...

My partner who has a terminal illness doesn't want to get it on!

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13 September 2007 (F) - My partner who is 34 suffers from a terminal illness he has also been diagnosed with depression he is always happy an jus gets on wit it!now he wont have sex he doesnt mind me givin him oral but wont do anything to me he says its not me and he has ...

We love each other but we have conflicts everyday. He mistakes the disagreements with fights.

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13 September 2007 (F) - I've in been a relationship for about 6 months, and we both feel we have something real special and we love eachother so much, 2 months ago we decided to leave this town, for the summer we went to alabama and new orleans, now we're back home and ...

I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell ...

He's in the army and only gets weekends off.. and then he spends them with his friends, not me!

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13 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is in the army and we only see each other on the weekends when he do get into town he goes straight to his friends and always want to hang out with them what to do ...

My ex-boss destroyed my marriage. I still can't move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I went through several back surgeries that did not work out well, the doctor kept me on pain pills for 2 years and this really put a burden on my marrage, financially, physically, and for me mentally. At that time my boss at work was in charge of ...

At first she avoids me, when I decide to do the same she gives signs she wants to talk again.

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13 September 2007 (M) - Hi I am a college student and I happen to fall in love with a girl in my freshman year. It happened everything about us match like you know we have the sam eorigin and ulture and everything but few difference. We started messaging each oth...