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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am so in luv with a guy that i know for over 4 years,he has a good job nd he is perfect,the prob is that he is not as educated as i am,nd because of that my parents are refusing to see nd meet him,they think he has no future at all!What should i do?Help plz Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, samohir +, writes (13 September 2007):
If you are determined and know what you want, and if they see that u re happy, They will come to terms, and accept him!
They will object but if you show them a clear signals that It IS HE who you want to be with (now or after) dont know, they will appriciate it.they re ur parents and wants the best for you, but it might be that ur picture of what is best for u doesnt fit with theirs.
Take ur life in ur own hands, and Be with who you want to be, not with who somebody else want or think you should be.
Hope was helpful,
Good luck
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female
reader, sexi +, writes (13 September 2007):
Hi
You dont need to worry about them. If they loved you enough they would be happy as long as you are. Have you tried speaking to them. They need to realize that love doesnt have any strings attached to it. You dont have to be educate to love somebody. You should get someone,an adult to speak to them. They should atleast give him a chance and get to know him.If they dont come around, they would lose you and the loss will be theirs.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Ilovehersobut... +, writes (13 September 2007):
You should remind your parents that true love doesn't get measured in IQ and that if you truely Love someone, those things don't matter. Why do you think that wedding vows say "for better or for worse and for richer or poorer?" And if that doesn't work, tell them that even Bill Gates didn't finish college.
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