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*arkkaye34
writes:My partner and i have split up recently and i dont know how to win her back, in the end our relationship fell apart, felt like we couldn't trust each other even tho there has been no infidelity on either side, i know she cares and so do i, but she says she wants time alone to do her thing and if we ever get back together then it wont be for ages... can you advise me what to do as i cant get her out of my mind, i drive up to the house and make sure she's alone, i call her and tell her i love her but nothing seems to make any difference at the moment....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Honestly, I've been there more than once, and I'm in the process of going through it again. Just do what she wants, is the best advice. She needs space, well damnit all, give her space. I HATE when women do this, because they always seem to manipulate the right strings and work on every little nuance until you're nothing. Don't let them break you down. Stand tall, be a man. LET HER COME TO YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): If it's space she needs, by you stopping by and calling telling her you love her, you may think you're helping your situation but take it from a woman..you're digging your own grave!! Are you always that smothering?? I can safely try to guess and say that is why she wants space b/c she feels smothered by you. I've been in the same situation & my ex wouldn't leave me alone which made me just hate him. When you want time alone & someone is practically stalking you, you feel violated & that the person could care less about your wishes & that they are just out to please themselves. Trust me, if you carry on this behavior you'll lose her forever. If you respect her desires & let her be, you have a chance..
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reader, kindone  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 if she want space give her some try taking her out to a nice suite like a hot tub fantisy, and dinner, movies do things she likes send her flowers.
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