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writes:i have this problem, my bf treats me like a sex toy, every time we see each other he demands a god 3 hour sex sesson. though i allow him to have sex with me, i feel that it is just to satisfy him and not for our relationship. we have been together for 3 years now and i love him but i feel that we are drifting apart because of it. just last week he demanded we try anal sex, it hurt so much it made me cry, but he wasnt bothered. shud i stay with this guy or is it time to move on a nd find a guy that doesnt ignore my feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): i can understand your feeling ...i am quit a like situation you are in but my situation is different he love me alot and when i ask him not to do it he didnot do it.But still i am missing that love which was between us before being physical with him...I know its hard to live the person you love the most i am not suggesting any thing..but express your feeling with him and tell him what u want...if he really love u he will understand...but if he dnt trust me he is not the right guy for u..even i use to do the same just to please him wheater i want it or not i let him have sex with him...but when i told him he understand me that what love is all about go aheag and tell him............
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (14 September 2007):
 This really doesnt sound like much of a relationship it sounds like your really being used by a complete jerk it doesnt seem like he respects you, dump him and move onto someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated and who wont use your body as a toy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Oh My God! Run for your life girl! You are in a totally abusive relationship. I know you'll stay because that's the nature of abusive and addictive relationships. Go online and look for signs and clues about abusive/addictive relationships and you'll see yours reflected on it. Please leave him now. I WILL HURT YOU a lot and you WILL WANT TO GO BACK WITH HIM, I assure you that. But be strong and do the right thing for you. Leave this guy and go into therapy so you would learn how to have a halthy relationship with a healthy person in the future. I did it and I'm alive and well. It's not the end of the world. That's not love.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (13 September 2007):
Only you can judge the best course for you. Once you become fussy about his sexual wants you will change in his mind. My advice is to tell him what you like and don't like but continue to go along. If after some time he continues to cause you pain that you are unwilling to accept you will have to confront him. Good Luck.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (13 September 2007):
 GET RID OF HIM NOW, SWEETHEART! x
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (13 September 2007):
 From all this you've just said, i would feel really hurt if i were you, not only didnt her care that you were in pain but the essence of your relationship seems to be all about sex and him DEMANDING it from you! its not right, you should find another guy who will respect what you like and dont like in sex, a guy who will treat you better. keep in touch and let me know what happens and if you need any more help im here for you. just email. Faith.
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