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writes:i had a arguement with my bf at the weekend, well if that is was u can call it. i seem to be quite off with him lately, mainly over textes, just coz i dont see him that much, and this is a new relationship. he saids its coz hes tired and i understand coz he does start work at 6 in the morning. i may see him twice a week. friday was when we had the thing, again over texting and he only replied the once. i explained the reason why i had been off with him past few days and he said it was what he had to put up with from his ex and he got really bad hurt in that relationship, so i knew he was upset. ive apologised and he said he wasnt sure about us at the moment. but he now has said that we are ok and stil together its just he has a lot on his mind. i see him at work and we chat but he doesnt seem to be texting me anymore. he saids its coz hes falling asleep really early. i know i should trust and believe him, but im not sure if this is him saying he doesnt actually want to be with me anymore. can someone please help, am i just being paranoid????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies ive got. Thought i would give an update.... Things seemed to be going ok, just trying to get back on track. But on sunday he said he stil doesnt know what to do because a lot of the things reminded him of his ex and he doesnt want to go through it all again. Because we dont seem to be talking, well not sorting things out, i wrote him a letter yesterday just explaining why ive been that way etc. He texted me today saying he has read the letter and to be honest he doesnt know. He knows im not his ex but the things i did are her and everytime he thinks about it he gets annoyed and starts thinking about what she did. Think it maybe time we have a talk and discuss where we go from here, coz i cant keep going through this. I will keep you all posted x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): He really doesn't seem interested in having a relationship right now, or he's just too busy? Why don't you call instead of texting? A lot of guys hate texting. I will text my fiancee 5 times to his 1 time, one word response. If he doesn't text other people, just assume he hates texting. Ask him where you stand in the relationship. But be prepared for the worst b/c he may tell you he needs space from the relationship. But you need to ask him.
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reader, war37 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Hi the only way to find out is too ask him directly?
Say I really need the truth do you still want to see me,if he says yes then you need to say I would like to see more of you,if he makes excuses then you know hes just keeping you dangling incase !!??
I will say though does he text other people alot?MY partner hates texting and after 4 years to make me relise this I now dont bother texting him,if he likes to text then I think you know your answer x
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