A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am a college student and I happen to fall in love with a girl in my freshman year. It happened everything about us match like you know we have the sam eorigin and ulture and everything but few difference. We started messaging each other indirectly in a social networking site and that went for a year or so. After that we took the same classes and we did all our homeworks together.I was kind of very protective or sounded kinda desperate and towards the end of the semester I think she didnt feel as she used to. But I know that we were falling for each other despite of all the confusion. Summer started and we were still good friends then when I was indirectly relating her in a social networking site she didnt respond but I continued with it. She was just pissed about it and told one of her friend send me a message that I was stalking her and to leave her alone not to refer anything. After few days she actually blocked me from everything she messaged me to stay away. It was a horrible day I stayed drunk for 3 days and finally I started a new life. For a month I had nightmare felt very bad about myself but somehow I still managed to get over. After that the classes started we were in the same class so I thought I should talk to her to patch up because I still loved her and couldnt avoid her. She didnt wanted to talk to me when I approached her. I felt very bad again now I had to get over this thing out of my head. I tried to avoid her and she tried to avoid me. I think even right then she thought I was a stalker. Then after some weeks in the class we have eye contacts and I know that she wants to talk to me very bad. She turns around and looks at me everyday. We have eye contacts and I am just very confused what to do. I am still in love with her but I am just very scared that if I get depressed this time I will be craxy or I will lose my mind. She is still blocking me everywhere but I can see in her eyes that she misses me. She turns around looks at me and leaves. I dont know what to do I love her so much and I still couldnt talk to her. I feel what if she doesnt talk to me or what if she does the same thing again I am very scared that I will have a mental trauma which I already faced before. But again the thing is I couldnt get on with my life like this you know me looking at her she looking at me. The silence just kills me I used to walk her home everyday. I miss her so much I know she is the one but I dont know what to do now. Whenever I tried to reach her she avoided me and after all this when I start a new life and try to avoid her she wants to talk to me. SHould I wait untill she talks to me or is she thinking if she talks to me I will not talk to her(because she is a very shy girl and dont like getting rejected at any cost). help me I just cant get her out of my head I still love her and I can do anything for her.I feel like she is my soulmate but because of a small misunderstanding it just got worse to the worst. Help me please I would appreciate your advice.
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reader, *****  +, writes (15 September 2007):
maybe if you move on find someone eles and when she see's you have moved on shes the only one that will be doing the stalking (not for real) listin mate you have no time to hang about the perfect women might be in your face but your to busy with this girl that you cant see her, get over her move on its that easy its not like you and her did anything .
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Give it up pal. Your were tried out and reject. Move on are try a new girl. Maybe this one won't be so fickle.
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