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*emily06x
writes:My bf( we are both 17!) of 9 months and I broke up just under 3 months ago. He said he didnt want a relationship anymore( things were gettin too serious) So, obviously broke up with him cause i knew he wasnt happy and we kept on arguing over little things. But it broke my heart. It all happened so quicky, it came as such a shock cause i thought we were closer than ever before! I told him i loved him and really wanted us to get back together, and even though he would say he loved me too, he just 'didnt want a relationship in his life right now'.We still hang out alot, and speak almost everyday. He always hugs me, and we do flirt alot, sometimes kiss. At the time, its wicked coz its just like everythings right again.But after all this, i know im just a friend, and it hurts me so much!! How can he just suddenly forget about me? Ive tried to not chat to him, and try to move on..but its so hard! I cant imagine my life without him, and i know that sounds so stupid cause we've been broken up for months. i just cant wipe away all my feelings for him. I wanna be friends with him, cause hes a wicked person. I just dont know whats going on in his head, does he still care? I cant move on with him in my life, but the problem is - i dont want to move on!but should i just walk away?any adivce would grealty recieved xxxxx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (13 September 2007):
I think he has you where he wants you. In a year you'll be back with him. I see a rocky road.
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reader, youcant loose what you never had! +, writes (13 September 2007):
of course you still have feelings for him after all you have had a relationship with him and cared about him,however he said it was getting too serious and didn't want any more out of the relationship.you have to understand that some men are scared of commitment maybe he just wanted a laugh and felt that things had gone a little ferther than he planed.you say you still hang out alot and sometimes flirt maybe that is a sign that he still likes you.the best advice i can give you is ask him!find the curage to ask him if he does still like you or ask him if he would ever think about re starting your relationship.you have nothing to loose; ok it may be heartbreaking if he just wants to stay friends but then atleast you can finaly move on with your life and find someone new and if he says maybe someday then still go and enjoy your self and meet new people but stay close to him just incase.but you must talk to him and ask him how he feels otherwise you will never be able to move on eatherway and nither will he.
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