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writes:I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was really nice and treated me really well. A few weeks into our relationship he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, I wasn't ready at the time he asked me so I said no. He was fine with it at first then he started yelling at me and hitting me. I loved him too much to break up with him and I didn't think it was that bigger deal until, it got worse after a while and he started cutting me and raping me.After this I realised I was more scared then in love. His mates know what he does to me and they don't care at all. A while ago he got really jealous cause I was talking to one of his best mates, he started thinking I liked him, so he took me into another room and put a scalpel inside me. he cut me up really bad then he said he loved me that much that he wanted to have a baby with me, I knew that there was nothing I could do so I just let him have what he wanted. He raped me once again and I was so cut up there was blood every where. His mates had an idea of what was going on and didn't try and stop it. I'm pregnant and I'm so scared of him I just don't know what to do and I don't know who to tell or talk to because I'm scared that if the cops find out and he is sent to juvi he is going to get his mates onto me and I dont wanna raise a baby on my own and if he doesn't go to juvi will he have custody of the baby?. PLEASE HELP! I dont know what to do or who to talk to.
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reader, Complicated*One  +, writes (16 September 2007):
this is wrong in all ways!
u do not deserve this.
get help from the people who r there to help u, the cops!
u cannot bring a baby into the world with a father like this, if he is doin this to you, then god nos what he will do to the baby!
please dont be scared get help..speak up!!
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Hey your boyfriend sounds really awful and if he really did love you he wouldn't be doing this to you. I think you should call the police because what he's been doing is wrong. If his friends come after you call the police again cos you shouldn't have to be scared of him. Good luck xo[duplicate]
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Hey your boyfriend sounds really awful and if he really did love you he wouldn't be doing this to you. I think you should call the police because what he's been doing is wrong. If his friends come after you call the police again cos you shouldn't have to be scared of him. Good luck xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): This is appalling! You MUST tell the police, and as the other aunt said, if he gets his friends to come after you, call the police again!
Where are your parents and other family? Why haven't you told them long ago about what this man is doing to you? He doesn't love you.
You don't want to have a baby in this condition: abortion is never good, but you should not have to bear this monster's child; let alone raise it on your own!!!!
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Oh my God. Get out of there. It's going to go downhill from here. Tell your friends, tell your family, get therapy, cut off all contact with him. Tell the police, and tell him that you told them. If he contacts you after that, call the police - second reports are more important.
You say you don't want to raise a baby on your own, but come on, no father is better than a guy like this. Imagine what he might do to your child? You have options here. There are people out there who can help you. Call a victim support centre. But most of all, get away from this man, get away from him as fast as you can.
Please, please, be careful. Good luck. Keep us posted.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (13 September 2007):
 Oh god, i am absolutley mortified at what you've been going through, ive experienced something extremely similar and if you email me i shall tell you if that brings you some kind of comfort. First up, i am so scared for you cos i know what that feelings like so we must look at the facts clearly.*your pregnant *he abuses you*rapes you*no ones tried to stop it*your left defencelessI know you must feel protective of your child and if its born - im sorry to say this but if he does one serious blow to the abdomen you can loose your baby - who knows how many times he'll abuse your child if he/she wont stop crying? so heres what i suggest, GET HELP!!!!!!!!!I never usually get tears in my eyes from other peoples problems because of my own expeiriances but i feel so upset by the life your child will be born into if you dont tell the police - who will protect you - and get away from him and his mates. Get into counselling so you can deal with the excess stress and stuff thats not good for your baby.please keep in touch and let me know whats going on. faith.
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