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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Unhappily married for several years, and every time I see this other man by accident, I fall in love with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been unhappily married for several years and find I am unable to break free from the relationship due to kids and finance. However, not long after I got married, I met a man I fell for but didn't act on it because I was already married. O...

I accused my current girlfriend of cheating because she looks like an ex, and I'm on the whole very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - Ive been going out with my new GF about 4months now, i split from my babys mum about 4 months now....The other night my babys mum told me she still cares for me and I told her i still care for her. I spoke to my babys mum today, and i told her that ...

He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

3 September 2007 (?) - I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to ...

I went away for one night and he went to her house, they claim nothing happened, but they've kissed in other occasions. Suspicious...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 and a half yrs two years ago he kissed my cousin which i forgave him for now 2 wks ago i went away for one night and ive just found out he went up to her house looking for sex. I have been told by both ...

I feel like he chose the job over me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Me and my b/f have been together about 8 months and are engaged. i feel like he has drifted apart from me recently. what hurt us the most was when he took this job that i begged him not to. i told him it would hurt us (its a job at the lake where ...

Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits ...

I am so tierd of saying sorry...how can I make everybody understand??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - hey all. I'm so tierd of saying sorry. I always do what i have to and everybody is always mad at me. My parents and my bf. I can't ignore them because i cant be without them. They never understand. How can i make them understand? Talking doesnt h...

I think ive fallen in love with my friend but I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend and baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Ok, where do I start. I have this friend and we are very close to each other and I recently realised that i may be in love with him. The problem is that he has a girlfriend and a baby and I have a boyfriend but my relationship with my boyfriend is a ...

I hate my husband's best female friend!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Let me just start by saying this. I HATE HATE HATE hubby's best female friend! Yes, she is younger, thinner and female, but that is NOT the reason I hate her so much. She has been friends with my hubby for over 20 years and she is NEEDY! It ...

Should I just let things progress naturally??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I am hopelessly crushing on this girl V who I "met" on the internet through an online writing/art community. We bonded through our common interests and really hit it off, and she's the only person I've wanted for the past year now. I know she ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend? He's going to uni soon and the distance might be a problem..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - hey my boyfriend is going to university soon and i love him so much :( but i dont know if to break it off as its most likely he will find somebody else or the travelin will get in the way what should i do ? please help. ...

Should I tell my bf i cheated on him??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is the most loving caring man i have ever ever met. He would never do anything to hurt me and i would never do anything to hurt him but the other night i went to my friends party and an old friend and i got chatting - one thing led to ...

His ex is saying he cheated on me with her but he swears hes not. I dont know what I should believe anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A month before we started dating he had broken up with a girl he dated for 8 months. He had constantly told me what a horrible relationship they had and how she was mean to his daughter. At the ...

How can I talk to my guy about him not giving me so much attention anymore without sounding too needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Hey, i need more answers please! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The first 5 months were great, he was doing a lot of chasing and making me feel special aaaaallll the time, just like i wanted. He was much much sweeter to me t...

How can I stop getting jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - How can i stop getting jealous so easily? i've only been seeing this guy for a month but i get jealous so easily (although i make sure i dont show it in front of him). im really insecure so simple things make me jealous. like yesterday i went to a ...

We argued and we haven't spoken for a week. Ive txt him today but got no reply. Does that mean he will end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have recently argued over something so silly, he told me to leave him alone so i did exactly dat..it's been a week and i couldn't stop thinking about him..i love him loads but don't know where i stand anymore..i text him this ...

I love my boyfriend but he has been having affairs. Supposedly with my sister too. I keep running back to him. I dont know what to believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - How do i act to this, i love my boy friend so much, but he has been having affairs with my friend, he sometimes tells me that i should give him time to think of what he wants in life. he has even been accused of having had sex wit my sister which i ...

This woman is claiming my husband has been cheating and fathered a child. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - ME AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 3YEARS. LAST YEAR WE HAD A BIG ARGUEMENT BECAUSE HE WAS ACUSSING ME OF BEING AT A BAR TELLING PEOPLE THAT I WASNT MARRIED AND THAT WAS NOT TRUE. SO WE ENDED UP SEPERATING FOR 4 MONTHS. WE FINALLY GOT BACK ...

Shes sleeping with me behind his back and we didnt use protection. Do you think she will ever leave him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - This one is a bit crazy but need help. I have fallen in love with a girl whos in a relationship, which is not fulfilling her needs properly. We became good friends with me not hiding the fact that i liked her and vice versa but nothing happended as ...

My mum has MS and my dad is having an affair with my mums best mate! Do I tell???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - My mum has MS (Multiple Sclerosis) and uses a walking stick most of the time. But even when she does not use a walking stick, she totters around and can barely walk. She cries most of the time and is very depressed. Dad has told her he is leaving ...

Why is my guy putting his friend before me and our baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I need some help, my fiance and i have been together for just over 2 years now and we have a baby but he is not the bioloical father and has adopted my child, the problems started about 6 months ago he and his friend from work are just complete ...

My girl wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex! What kind of person am I dealing with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend stated that she wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex. she owned boa constrictors in the past when she used to strip for a living. what kind of person am i dealing with? ...

I was abused in the past and I found out my guy watches porn. What should I do or say about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my man for 7 years gonna get married well about 9 years ago i was abused for a sexually abused for a year he has always surported, me but now i have found that he watches porn when i go bed. it makes my skin crawl and he doesnt ...

How do I ask him if we are just casual or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - heya people. ive been seeing a guy i met through friends for a few weeks and its been really great but i want to ask him whether we are a couple or if its just a casual thing. i know its only been a few weeks but i want to know because i dont k...

I've told her we are too young to have a baby but she got mad and said I am breaking her heart!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are 19 and she wants to have a baby with me. I'm not ready and she knows it. We both still live with our parents and can hardly even afford to go to school. I tried talking to her and explaining why it's too soon and she got mad ...

Can cheaters really change??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - hi, I have a boyfriend that i really love, can't imegine a life without him. He loves me too but he has been cheating on me but like in our country its normal for boys/girls to cheat on each other. All i want to know is we talked about it and he ...

He's backed off big time. Whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I was dating this guy for about 2 months; at first I was not at all sure whether I wanted it to advance to the next level (we never got physical). We got along great! We could talk for hours. He was probably more interested than I was, began ca...

My guy is going through a tough divorce and is saying we're now taking a break. Was I just a passing fancy or should I just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I'm 28 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. When we first started going out he told me that he was int he middle of a divorce. The soon to be ex and him seemed to have an okay relationship for the sake of the kids. When we ...

My husband had an affair. We are sorting it out but the other woman is fighting for him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - By accident I found out my husband was having an affair. We are trying to work out our marriage because I won't let him go. I'm making it hard for him to go. We have 4 little children under 9. He's been honest with me about his feelings for her. At ...

I'm in love with someone I cant have and its starting to affect me. I'm drinking more alcohol now and crying. Help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Hi, Q.I have found my soul mate but i can't have him!what do i do? I have never written on one of these sites, but I am completely lost as I met my soul mate 4 years ago, but he is together with a good friend. The connection we have is incredi...

Why isnt my girlfriend keen on moving in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - ok i've been dateing my girlfriend 6 months were engaged, where trying for a baby, we spend as much time as possible with each over but i wanna move in with her and i asked her the other day if she wouldn't mind looking for somewhere sh...

Do you think my girlfriend fancies her cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - do u think its wrong? i love my girlfriend but theres something about her and her brother. ok the clues he ask's me questions about my sex life with is sister i think thats strange my girl got mad at me the other day because i give h...

My blind date invited me to his house for coffee, then became aggressive and said he wanted to have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6296 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Ok, a little back story to start everything off...I went out on this blind date last saturday. Ok, I agreed solely because im fairly open to try anything once. I sincerely believe that you should never knock something til you try it. Anyway, we met ...

I was drunk and cheated on my boyfriend; now he won't talk to me!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend on a saturday night and I told him what i had done the next day. i was drunk and i didn't realise of what i was doing.i didn't even like the guy. now my boyfriend doesn't wanna talk to me and i don't know what to do in ...

I've been in a 4 yr abusive relationship but like someone else..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - OK I am in a 4 year relationship, we have been abusive to eachother verbally and physically. It has stopped but he is verbally abusive calling me so many names. well we fight all the time but when we dont fight its like were so in love. well ...

He swears he wishes he could spend more time with me, but is he just saying that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend two years and for the first year and a half we would go out at least once a week. For the past several months, we have hardly gone out at all on dates. He owns a business and is very busy building it. The only times I ...

He is giving this girl way more attention than he ever gave me, and I think it's to make me jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I can't believe it! My ex fiancé is on a rebound with a stupid girl from another far away country. Now I can see he's sending her romantic comments on his Myspace page. Things he never did with me. He is being very caring with her sending her ...

He never acknowledged my birthday, and now I have no feelings for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6296 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - hello, I feel slighted by my ex boyfriend. My birthday has passed, and he has not even texted me a birthday wish, or even msg me on facebook. I kind of anticipitated it, but it would of been nice for him to acknowledge my birthday, consid...

Do I move away and get away from her, or stay and help her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - Iv been with my girlfriend for 2 years nearly, her mums an alcoholic and its interfeared with our relationship a lot, but iv stood by my girlfriend to help her. But when we first got together my gf was also alcoholic at 16, but I helped sort her ...