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36-40,
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writes:I enjoy going over to my boyfriend's house to watch movies together. We have even had sex, but not intercourse. However, every time we get together we have almost had intercourse at the last minute. I don't want intercourse because I don't want pregnancy and because I don't feel ready for that, but I get the feeling that he was upset. How can I tell him that I think it is not wrong but risky for me to go to his house without hurting his feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, pwincess  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Well this is a tricky one what i would do is explain how you feel to him and if he gets in a mood then just explain that you dont want a kid at this age and maybe you two should slow down a bit
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reader, war37 +, writes (14 September 2007):
Hi. If he loves you and has respectful feelings for you he'll wait. If he won't, he's not worth having. I would avoid sexual things with him until he realises your not ready for full sex, as it may make him resent you. Be careful and stay away from his house. Meet where there are others. x
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (14 September 2007):
 well huni if you're happy with this guy and he's happy with you, the best thing to do is tell him exactly how you feel. maybe you need to get out of the bedrom setting because unfortunatly that does tend to give messages to a guy that your interested in having sex. talk to him and then you will both know where you stand, huni. xxx take care xxx
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