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Archived questions from: February, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is affectionate but it makes me feel uncomfortable...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - i've met a guy whom i have alot in common with. he wants us to be an item, which is fine with me but he likes to be very touchy feely ie holding hands and cuddling. i want to do this but feel very uneasy when he does it. any advice how i can loosen ...

How do we get back the spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - Okay well my boyfriend and i have been together 3months and have been having problems, we nearly broke up but agreed to give it another couple of weeks. We both agree we have lost our spark so to speak, can anybody offer any suggestions to get it ...

I guess I need the drama in my life, but I really want my alcoholic, cheating boyfriend back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - After having read loads of advice on lots of different subject on this page I am still in the same space I was 5 yrs ago. I was with partner 18 yrs, found out he was cheating. He had drink problem. It killed me watching him. He wanted to drink hi...

I may want children in the future but I can't with my girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - my girlfriend is 47 and i'm 26. we love each other but i'm not sure if i want children. at the moment i don't but who knows in the future. to have children with her isn't an option. she wants me to move in with her and get engaged but this problem ...

Perhaos he only has sex with me for my sake...what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 6yrs im only gone 22 ive been with him since i was 16 he is a lovely bloke and i do love him, recently we bought a house together but i wasnt a hundred % certain at the time that it was a good idea because we ...

We have broken up but he doesn't turn up to agreed meetings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - I am having some problems with my ex, 21, since our split after five months. I am 33, we are both gay, and we had a wonderful, honest relationship. However, after New Year he suddenly chose to end things saying things were not working for him....

She expects me to wait for her...how can I get her to see how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - hi, my girlfriend recently returned from a year away visisting her dad in australia we were together for around 9 months and at the time both agreed that we would end the relationship when she left.we kept in touch and now she has returned were an ...

I said no but wished I said yes when he asked me out...I thought he was joking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - hi there there is this lad how asked me out but I said no and now I regret saying no to him wt should I do This is wt he said to me he said he loved my new hair colour and then said are you going out with anyone and then said will you go out with...

We never established a date and I don't know how she really feels about me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - Hey all, Just to let you know where i'm coming from, i just broke up with my girlfriend of nearly two years, we've decided its for the best and we've moved on to other people. I'm pursuing a crush on a girl i just met about a month ago, and I...

The relationship's gone sour and I want to walk away, but then I'm afraid that he'll harm himself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - Hi, i dont know whether to break it of with my boyfriend permenantly or not? PLEASE help me. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, im 18. The thing is, i have had feelings for someone in the past 6 months. i have been very tempted and i ha...

Do I ask her out yet or would that be insensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - There’s this friend of a friend of mine who I don’t really know very well but really like and have asked out previously in the past when I’ve seen her but to no avail – her having a boyfriend. Being the old romantic that I am, I sent her a cheeky ...

He read my diary and found out about me kissing another guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has been asking me over and over again about me kissing another guy before we were together while I was down in Florida. I kept telling him that I just hugged him because he gets upset easily and I think he's pretty sensitive. ...

Di I want to marry her because I feel guilty for what I dod with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - i've been with my gf just over a year and have just got back from holiday with her. i had a messy break up with my x gf and still speak 2 her sumtimes but i met up with her on my lunch break from work and he had a play with eachother. we didnt have ...

It feels like we are still together but we've broken up...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - she broke up with me i love her to death. she says she still wants to be part of my life. after the brake up we hung out and had sex more the once. i whant to get back with her. she just whants me as a friend. plus everytime we hangout it feels like ...

Have I bitten off more than I can chew with my older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6855 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - I am 17, and my boyfriend is 23, almost 24. We are in a hushed hushed relationship because of the age difference and I know my parents would disapprove. He also has a 2 year old girl. (I'm slightly jelous of that, but nothing to be done...) I feel ...

We have been friends for so long, now I feel more for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6879 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - Hey I have a male friend that I have known for over 10 years. We have been good friends which have crossed the line a couple of times. Now though we are living in the same area and are seeing a lot more of each other. I seem to be developing feeli...

Is there something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

26 February 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i live about 5 hours apart and see each other usually every other weekend. I'm starting to get concerned that something is going on that i'm unsure about. I'll tell you some of the things i know and some of the things that i'm ...

Things with my boyfriend have suddenly gone pear-shaped...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - I really care about my boyfriend, but lately he lies about stupid things. Sometimes he will pretend he's on the phone when I know he's not. He really cares about me and is constantly trying to prove he does, but I am worried. He is a senior and he ...

My relationship has gotten terrible. My BF shouts at me and we get into awful arguments...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - hey! OK, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and I love him very much! But the past few months have been terrible. He shouts at me if I do something wrong or something he doesn't like! I find this very upseting and often cry over...

We fight over little things and we feel distant. How can I improve things??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - Ive been in love with a guy for 4 years. We are constantly fighting about little things. We feel so distant. I dont want to loose him. I want to improve things for us. he gets angry with me when i tell him my feelings... help...

I wasn't the one she saw herself in the future, so she broke up with me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

25 February 2006 (M) - Mt girlfriend recently left me, because ( Well what she thinks ) she didn't see me being the guy she saw herself with in 10 years. You're not the person what I see myself in 10 years. and I quote "I'm deepy sorry to have to tell you that. But it's ...

I lied about my age but now we are really close. Should i tell him or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I know that it is wrong! but i lied about my age (only by one year) to a boy that i never thought id get close to. However, we are really close now and he still thinks i am older than i am. I dont want him to see me as a lier because usualy i...

My ex has swept me off my feet and everything is wonderful but I am scared he will find something missing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my first love again after many years. He is sweeping me off my feet but I can not believe it is true. His first wife was beautiful and I am attractive. I know I am funny and he thinks interestingly wacky, so I can get away with ...

We are both haunted by each others past. What can we do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - We dicussed our past sexual relationships because my wife needed to know because she didnt want to be the one to find out something about me from another person. She hates to think I am keeping something from her even though she hates to hear it. I ...

Scared that my gf's thoughts of her past, will destroy her. How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - I love my girlfriend however she recently had an abortion as a result of a one off fling she had with a guy she used to work with before she knew me. She can't seem to let the past go and it seems to be making her more and more depressed. I have ...

To me it's more than just sex but is that all I am to him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hello, i met this guy in a club and as soon as he came over to speak to me i found him so funny. From that point we just clicked and spent the rest of the night chatting. By the end of the night i knew i liked him so much and so i went back to his ...

How long before we should get physical?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - This question is a bit like asking how long a piece of string is? How long is usual these days to make a man wait before kissing, cuddling, sex occurs? Been seeing a guy for 2 months. He is lovely but I get the feeling he is losing interest...

Things were great until we made love and now he hasnt been in touch!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - About 5 or 6 weeks ago I posted a question relating to a guy I had feelings for snorting coke. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and we started to go out regularly. We had a wonderful time every time we saw each other and it was obvious ...

He is unpredicatble...what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - Does anyone know what could be wrong here in this situation? My partner gets very stressed (he thinks he copes well with it but he can completely lose it, have a real angry outburst over something quite trivial) He is very unpredicatable.....

I don't enjoy or feel anything during sex...how do I feel good again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - IM 29 AND MY PARTNER HIS 23,WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS,HAVE A BABY TOGETHER 15 MONTHS,MY MAN WAS ON DRUGS FOR A SHORT TIME,BUT DURING MY PREGNANCY HE GOT HELP AND HAS BEEN ON MEDICATION FOR A YEAR,SEX BECAME ZERO TO HIM BUT NOW HIS BACK TO ...

I have feelings for him not my boyfriend but he's with someone too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - dear cupid, i've been with my boyfriend adam for about 7 months now, and i have recently moved in with him, i now have a new close group of friends who are diane, amiee, adam, rhi, james, bex and chris. chris lives next door to me james and adam. ...

Am I staying with him for the wrong reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - I feel like I'm staying with my boyfriend for the wrong reasons. We get on well and do love each other but I found out before Christmas that he slept with someone when we had just started out seeing each other and weren't yet official and I think ...

I want my ex boyfriend back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 5yrs and i finished it in november, we gave it another go and i felt that it wasnt working. i was cing this guy from college but me and my ex was sex buddies and he was the only one whom i was doing it with. i then ...

It is so hard to move on when he won't talk about the split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6872 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I need a little help on how to tackle my gay ex. I am 33 and he is 21 and we have recently split after six months. He ended it by simply not turning up at arranged times - preferring to go out with his friends. He has had a lot of problems at work,...

I like him but so does my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - hi well theres this boy and i really like him he told me he likes me. But the problem is my friend(A) likes him and she likes some1 else. I told my other friend (b) that the boy likes me and my friend (a) isnt happy about it i really like the ...

My fiance or my boyfriend...I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6880 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my fiance three and a half years now, when i met him he was in the forces, id only met him 3weeks before he went away, and in the time he went away i met someone else. I carried on seeing this person all the way through my fianc...

She is with someone else but I get jealous of not him but the thought of others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6880 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I work at a hotel and a new receptionist started. She had been going out with this guy for three years, and had been best friends with him for two years prior to that. Anyway she starts working with me, and there's obvious chemistry between us. I am ...

I lost my virginity to my gf but she doesnt know and I am haunted by her more experienced past!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and everything is going great for us. I think she is the one and she thinks the same of me she says, its not in the cards yet, but marriage could be in the future. The only problem is, I've lie...

My bf is leaving to go on a working holiday but I love him so much and dont want him to go!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of just over a year (he's 24, im 20) told me the other night that in a few months he will be going on a working holiday overseas and won't return for 2-4 years. I vaguely knew he had this plan at the start of our relationship, but I ...

I am sick of being lied to about porn! Where are the men who 'forsake all others'??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I was just wondering as i am considering leaving my man over his constant looking at pornographic images and other women lustfully if there are in fact any men out there that dont do this? Men who love thier woman and worship thier woman in a way th...

I wanted her to think there was competition for my affections, so I lied about another woman...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I told my wife things that werent true about a friend before we married that made it look to her as competition. I really didnt look at this woman that way; I did it to make me look better, but it backfired. Now she believes it to be true. I also h...

We argue and spat over the way we got together. Should we ignore that, if all the rest is good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Me and my gf have been together for about 9 months and are having some problems. I would say our relationship is about 90% good, but there are a few things that keep coming up in arguments and are starting to sour the whole deal. The biggest of...

How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - My g/f and I split up 9 moths ago but have been seeing each other as friends every few weeks. However, just as i thought she was showing signs of considering getting back with me I blew it by getting heavy, serious,clingy, heart on sleeve etc. Now ...

Should I stay in this sour marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Myself and my wife have been together for ten years and married for two years. I feel that the spark has gone, we dont seem to click anymore. I have a jelouse streak in me and constantly think she is falling for other guys, because she seems to get ...

I keep thinking about my old flame...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi to all supporters out there. I have the problem that I have struggled with letting go of an old flame. We we're together through school years for 4 years. We have both since left school and moved on with life. I am now 28 but still often th...

I want to be with him but should I continue to see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am 21 years old, and I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now who is 38. The thing is that he has 4 kids between 8-15. He is my stepdad's ex-brother in law. His kids know my parents as aunt and uncle. I absolutely ADORE...

My mum doesn't think about how I feel...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My mum has, for the past few months been having her boyfriend come and stay over at our house, sometimes for a week at a time. We live in a small house, and sometimes at night I can hear them having sex in their room, and it makes me feel really ...

How do we get the trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since last March. In October he cheated on me with a girl he knew from university who is in love with him. I found out but I believe he never liked her and he has proved this and he has not contacted her since. ...

Should I be concerned about his 'new' friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it possible for men to be just friends with females? My boyfriend has recently become friends with a girl at work and I've found out that he has texted her 15 times over the past few days even though he works with her all day. He has always had ...

Is it unreasonable for me not to want him to look at porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - i recently found out that my boyfriend likes to look at pornography, and i told him i was deeply hurt by it. i felt that if he is with me then he doesn't need it, it almost feels like he is cheating on me! he said he won't look at it again and doe...