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writes: I really care about my boyfriend, but lately he lies about stupid things. Sometimes he will pretend he's on the phone when I know he's not. He really cares about me and is constantly trying to prove he does, but I am worried. He is a senior and he is graduating this year. His mom doesn't like me and if he dosen't move out I don't know if we will be able to see each other. I am afraid that if that happens I will be devastated. Especially since before him I was in a very serious relationship. I love him. What should I do?Desperate Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 Talk to him, tell him what is bothering you, if he is as worried as you about the relationship then talking may resolve some of the issues, at worst it will make both of you be open with each other about were you see the relationship now and in the future, I think if you are open with him and him with you it will all resolve itself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Your boyfriend is worrying about the exact same thing, which probably explains his strange behaviour. It's always weird to be caught in a relationship which has a (potential) expiry date, especially as that time draws near. Perhaps you should just be frank with him and ask what's going to happen between you two when that day arrives and what his plans for after university are.
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