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writes: Hello, i met this guy in a club and as soon as he came over to speak to me i found him so funny. From that point we just clicked and spent the rest of the night chatting. By the end of the night i knew i liked him so much and so i went back to his house. I never usually do this on the first night but it was such a gut feeling. We spent the next two days together and i thought he really liked me as a person becuase a few days later he invited me back to his house. Since our first meeting we've seen each other a number of times but im starting to get worried that he just wants a casual relationship and is just using me for sex.When we're together we talk about everything and i feel we get on so well. To me its not just sex at all, i just love spending time with him and chatting. But thats why it hurts me to think all he wants me for is sex. All i ever do is go to his flat, he doesnt suggest we go on a date outside his flat.My friends have said i should just not see him any more. But i can't imagine not having him in my life because i have such strong feelings for him. i want so much more than a casual relationship with him, but i havent spoken to him about any of this because im scared of sounding to needy or making him feel trapped cos i dont want to lose him.What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): send him atext asking him if he wants to do something like go out for a curry or chinese, if he says no then get out, but if he says yes then it is prob more than just sex. if he says yes but u still aint sure dont go back to his place, dont have sex and see how he reacts. hope this helps xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2006): i was in the same position as you, and i absolutely adored the guy i was with, but like you say i started to think he was using me for sex so i asked him where he thought this was going? as in how he wanted the relationship to progress and he said he didnt want anything exclusive so eventually (a month later) i managed to end it but it was hard. i would suggest you ask him what he wants out of this, if its just sex then you can choose whether to carry on like this or leave before you get hurt even more. good luck x
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