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writes: hi there there is this lad how asked me out but I said no and now I regret saying no to him wt should I doThis is wt he said to me he said he loved my new hair colour and then said are you going out with anyone and then said will you go out with me.I only said no cause I thought he was lying but when I walked past him and his friends someone shouted "alright sexy" and I just kept on walking and I no it was the lad how ask me out,s voice cause I know his voice if he asked me out again I would probly say "yes". Every time a guy asks me out I also say no and only this because I think they are joking plus I am self-conscious about my body and plus I would like to know as well what you think the average weight is for a 15 year p.s I need your help really quick Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 Does not matter what weight you are because this bloke fancies you and you need to ask him out, he has it bad for you girl and you should go seize the opportunity to be his woman.
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reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (28 February 2006):
 aww. he sounds really cute! go to him and tell him you thought he was joking and say you'd love to go out with him. that should solve that one. as for the weight, there really isn't one when you're 15 coz ur changin still so chill, and be proud of your looks! hope this helps!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (28 February 2006):
 There isn't exactly an average weight for a fifteen year old. It all depends on your height, bone structure, etc.
I'm assuming you are self conscious because you think you may be overweight? Fifteen year olds may carry extra puppy fat but as long as you eat sensibly and exercise by walking, running, etc, you will be healthy.
Anyway, we are only talking about how you look on the outside and we all know not to judge a book by its cover (at least we should). I think you more so need to work on your confidence.
Why not ask a friend to see if she thinks that this boy could be interested in you. Ask an adult, such as your mum, what they think of your weight and whether it really is an issue that needs looking at.
Spend plenty of time with your friends and go out and about. Pursue a new hobby, make some new friends. Build up your confidence because then you can be in a position to ask a boy out yourself.
Good luck.
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