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He is unpredicatble...what does this mean?

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Question - (23 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Does anyone know what could be wrong here in this situation?

My partner gets very stressed (he thinks he copes well with it but he can completely lose it, have a real angry outburst over something quite trivial)

He is very unpredicatable...one minute he will be okay, the next he will lose it.

All it takes is the wrong words (what he considers to be the wrong words) and he will become nasty, threatening, angry. Other times he can be happy, quite relaxed and thoughtful. On occasions, it feels as if just me breathing pisses him off, other times, he wants me around.

He won't seek help, won't recognise he has a problem, is the biggest hypocrite going, will tell others what to do, he can be a very difficult man to live with.

Is there something really wrong with him...or not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006):

What this means is he needs to get help or you need to get out of this relationship. One never knows what will set him off and if you think your breathing pisses him off. Then there is a definite PROBLEM.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006):

He has a serious problem. He has unpredictable, angry, quick-shifting behavior which is abusive and is intended, among other functions, to foster your dependence on his whims and moods. Do a google search on 'warning signs of abuse', hun. Do it asap..I wish you the best of luck and I hope he does seek help. Take care xxoo

Hugs Irish

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