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writes: she broke up with me i love her to death. she says she still wants to be part of my life. after the brake up we hung out and had sex more the once. i whant to get back with her. she just whants me as a friend. plus everytime we hangout it feels like we are still together for both of us. what do i do?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (27 February 2006):
 You really do need to stop hanging out with her, you are a habit and she is an itch that you keep scratching so will not heal.
You have to move on and forget her and in time you will I promise, time is a great healer.
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reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (27 February 2006):
 you do need to get over her. she wants you as a friend and you can't have a proper relationship when only one person wants it. you'll soon find someone else and forget about her. but keep her as a friend!
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reader, Myobi +, writes (27 February 2006):
 I am currently going through a similar situation and I understand how confusing things can be. I think you need to make sure she understands she can't get everything she wants, she can't carry on having sex with you and getting things she wants from you but also saying she doens't want you. All this is doing is upsetting you and damaging you emotionally. Talk to her and talk it through, don't give up and keep strong. Good Luck.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (27 February 2006):
 Tell her how you feel and do it A.S.A.P because the longer you drag you it out the harder it will get to admit your feelings. Relationships sometimes need a bit of effort put in to keep the magic there, so do something romantic and admit to her how you feel about the situation you are now in. Tell her you want to be together as a couple and that you care about her in that way. At least when you've done that, by her reply, you will know where you stand.
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reader, Clarey +, writes (27 February 2006):
 The more you show her that you want her the less interested she would be. I know that you love her and it is such a nice compliment to be loved, but she has made it clear how she feels. An interesting way to get the balance back is to start going out with other girls. You may find someone you like, as well as let her see that you are enjoying yourself. She may well become interested again, but be a bit careful because it may just be a bit of jealousy going on. Anyway, you deserve someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. Good luck.
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