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writes:My boyfriend of a year has been asking me over and over again about me kissing another guy before we were together while I was down in Florida. I kept telling him that I just hugged him because he gets upset easily and I think he's pretty sensitive. Well yesterday, he was reading my diary to me that he read awhile ago to get him started on this questioning of my friend that lives in Florida. I've known this guy for about 7 years. He's friends with my family down there also. I gave him a kiss goodbye when we left last year to come back home because I only see him about once every 3 or 4 years.Me and my boyfriend were not together at the time, let me remind you. Reading my diarty I thought was very wrong also. I know I lied, but I didn't want to let him know, it's actually none of his business what I did before me and him were officially together. What should I do? He's mad at me now and I don't think he's getting over it yet. I told him to grow up, I'm sorry I lied, but I can't take it back. I'm sooo confused.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (5 March 2006):
 firstly you never should of lied, it was completely wrong and disrespectful of him to read you diary as you have all your private thros. if the kiss was before you decided you wanted to begin a relationship with your boyfriend then the only thing you've done wrong is lie. seems like your boyfriend is a very insecure person and just needs help to believe you actually want to be with him.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (27 February 2006):
 When you told him to grow up you should have told him to move on out of your life as well.
He does`nt trust you and you should not care, if you have done nothing then you you have the moral highground, no way should he have read your diary either, so move on.
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