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writes: i've been with my gf just over a year and have just got back from holiday with her. i had a messy break up with my x gf and still speak 2 her sumtimes but i met up with her on my lunch break from work and he had a play with eachother. we didnt have sex but satisfied eachother with our hands if u know wot i mean. i feel so horrible even tho we did the minimal with eachother. i love my gf and am gonna ask her to marry me but is this just out of guilt??? help please!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (27 February 2006):
 Take a long look at yourself in the mirror and have a word wiht yourself, what you did was bad and reflaect how the relationship is with your current partner.
You cheated, face it and it felt good at the time or you would not have done it.
Do you intend doing it again ?
Do you think you should ask your girlfriend to marry you as I think it is just a guilt reaction, if I was you I would work through why you felt the need to have a play with your ex and then think about what if anything is wrong with your current relationship.
Put your house in order !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006): Dont marry her unless your completely sure thats what you want to do. She will respect you more for being honest than later down the line realising her marriage is based on your guilt and not love (if that makes sense). I would be honest rather than hurt her more futher on.
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