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I have feelings for him not my boyfriend but he's with someone too...

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Question - (23 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2006)
A female , *ma writes:

dear cupid, i've been with my boyfriend adam for about 7 months now, and i have recently moved in with him, i now have a new close group of friends who are diane, amiee, adam, rhi, james, bex and chris. chris lives next door to me james and adam. Because chris doesn't work and i'm only a part time student we spend most of our time together. Well all of our time together really, one night when we'd had a party there was only me and chris left awake and we ended up snuggling up on the sofa all night, we fell asleep holding each other, when i saw him the next day my heart skipped a beat, and over the last few months i've fallen in love with him, but it gets worse, Chris is with diane, and she's my friend. but i don't realy feel anything for adam anymore. me and chris are still always together and he never see's dianne anymore. i always get mixed signals from him, i catch him staring at me all the time, he always looks straight into my eyes when he talks to me without blinking and that look melts me, but i cant tell if im just reading too much into it because im not thinking clearly. what do i do about adam? do i tell chris how i feel? how do i stop feeling like this? i need help. i dont want this published i just want an answer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006):

First of all, dump your boyfriend since you don't have feelings for him. Second, meditate on your emotions for Chris and well, what are you going to do break up their relationship? Nah, just be supportive of your friends and let them be. If you do anything dishonorable, then you should be totally ashamed of yourself of course.

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