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writes: This question is a bit like asking how long a piece of string is? How long is usual these days to make a man wait before kissing, cuddling, sex occurs? Been seeing a guy for 2 months. He is lovely but I get the feeling he is losing interest because I haven't done anything physical with him yet. Is it possible that he thinks I am not interested in him? It seems you can't just enjoy going out with a guy these days; it almost feels expected that you must be having sex with them almost immediately. I've seen him about 6 times and haven't kissed him yet. Does he just think I am not interested in him perhaps? I don't know. I'm confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): I was in school with this guy once and we had been dating for over one year. He had not kissed me yet and thenm one day in the movies he french kissed me. So my advice is that to just give it a little time and it just might just work out.
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reader, Uncle Steve +, writes (25 February 2006):
A lack of communication can confuse both parties. Time to sit down and talk to each other about what you are both looking for. It might be time to try the first kiss. It will either keen up his interest or chase him away, but at least it will stop the confusion. Be Happy.
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reader, Kitty_Kat_Angel +, writes (24 February 2006):
Hello, i have had the total opposite problem, i got physical with a guy to soon and now he doesnt seem interested in us dating all our relationship has become is based on sex. Its as if now he's got what he wants thats all he cares about. Its really important you make sure you and this guy have a good connection and relationship based on that first. Do not rush into sex because it can wreck that. You can be physical and satisfy each other without having full sex. Try other things first.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (24 February 2006):
 A piece of string is usually as long as you cut it and that is very much the case here. You do things and take the steps when you are ready and you take them together at a pace that suits you both. That is the answer here.
If you don't feel comfortable with doing these things then you don't have to do them and to be frank a worthy guy will wait for you to travel at your own pace and not pressure you to move too fast. Maybe you could talk to him and explain why you are feeling this way and that might help things but other than that it is very much a question of taking things at a pace that suits you.
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