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writes: Okay well my boyfriend and i have been together 3months and have been having problems, we nearly broke up but agreed to give it another couple of weeks. We both agree we have lost our spark so to speak, can anybody offer any suggestions to get it back or something along those lines. I'd be very grateful.
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reader, shania  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 3 months down the line and you nearly broke up...you are also arguing already and you say the spark is gone and you want to know,how to get it back.Im afraid your relationship is not looking good.The reason i say that is because at 3 months you two should be all lovey dovey....you should be feeling butterflies in your stomach when you meet up...instead ...all you are getting is grief from one another...and that doesnt sound right.I think you two are not suited to each other and would be better off with other partners.
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reader, MarthaZ +, writes (1 March 2006):
 I'm thinking you two may have to reflect your relationship carefully. If the relationship has only been going on for 3 months and having problems, what is it going to be like in 1 year time, or even longer? I'm not suggesting breaking up, but ask yourselves what do you want from this relationship.
If you're willing to put the extra work then why not do something together like a hobby? Go for long walks, camping weekend, go and see a band etc... Find out something new about your boyfriend, and if you're up for a laugh, pretend you don't know each, go to a bar or a cafe and start "chatting up". It might feel silly but it'll definately make both of you laugh, if not then try something else different.
The first 6 months or so of relationships should be the honeymoon period, find something to do together that you two enjoy and hopefully you two can find that spark again.
Good luck!
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