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writes: i've met a guy whom i have alot in common with. he wants us to be an item, which is fine with me but he likes to be very touchy feely ie holding hands and cuddling. i want to do this but feel very uneasy when he does it. any advice how i can loosen up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2006): Maybe you are not attracted to him sexually or physically. If this has happend with other men you have dated, then I suggest that you figure out why this is a problem, and yes seek some help/talk to someone.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 like Jadzia says go with your gut feelings, you want to cuddle and hold hands with him so what is stopping you ?
Holding hands, cuddling etc is normal when you first start going out with someone but is his cuddling is more like feeling you up, going inside your clothes, rubbing your breasts etc then it may be too full on and you are not ready for this, if this is the case tell him to slow down, just holding hands is enough and see if he backs off.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (28 February 2006):
 If this is a recent occurrence then listen to your gut feeling about this guy, and back away. If this is a problem you have had with all relationships then you need to get counseling and figure out what is making you hold back. If you're in school you can start with your school counselor.
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