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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After we kissed and admitted how we felt about each other, he stopped reponding to my texts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7178 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - My best friend was at school with me last year. He came back to visit me recently ... it ended up with us realising our feelings for each other and voicing them. We ended up kissing and he told me that he had fancied me for a long time. After t...

I never get out any more.... my boyfriend acts more like my dad and thinks he owns me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6959 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I moved from my home town to be with him in his home town, and ever since I moved down, he's changed he thinks he owns me. Never lets me go out with friends and acts like my dad. Should I leave him? I h...

I'm so insecure and afraid that I'm going to ruin this great relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I'm 19 years old and me and my partner have been together 18 months. At first we were all over each other and spent all our time together. On the occasions when we did go out separately we both received attention from the opposite sex but I didn't ...

We love each other, but I'm worried about the shock of an "instant family"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both currently in the Marine Corps stationed in South Carolina. We have been pretty serious for about six months and she will be getting out in a few weeks and I will be out in four months. I love her and her kids very muc...

Not sure now how I feel about my boyfriend and I miss that perfect feeling that we're right together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and I love him to pieces, but I went out for a night out with him and one of my best mates who is a lad, and now I am confused on how I am feeling towards my boyfriend...! When I am near my ...

Due to emigrate with my husband shortly. One problem: he just beat me up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7182 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - My husband an I have been together for 12 years married for 7. We have 2 children 11 and 9. We are due to emigrate on the 29th april 05 and have just had a wonderful last holiday on our own without the kids. The problem is that he got drunk and ...

My g/f knew for 4 years that I can't have kids, but we broke up over it just 2 weeks ago.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7111 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years. We have had our ups and downs. Two weeks ago she told me she still loved me but not the same way and wanted just friendship. I can't have kids as I've had the snip, but she is desperate for a child. ...

I'm waiting for my married guy, but I'm not sure we have a future...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7180 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a married man for 8 years on and off. He has a family, and loves them dearly, but doesn't love his wife, and he says he loves me to bits. I don't know if i can see a future between us, but also can't hang around f...

Our relationship changed. We don't kiss or cuddle any more and we barely talk...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Me and my daughter, aged 2 at the time, left my husband because of domestic violence. At the time I was friends with a guy I used to work with. We would telephone each other and spend time together when we could. The friendship grew stronger...

Although he says he loves me, he only has time for me as a last resort. Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7088 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - I am divorced and I have been dating this guy for the last four months. I have a son that is 20 months old. I thought everything was going great and he broke up with me, but still wanted to "see" me, and we are having the same relationship that we ...

Sex is always on my time and my terms... and not very often. Have I fallen out of love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7185 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. I have been with my partner for nearly 10 years and we don't have sex very often. The thought of him coming near me turns me off. If I do have sex it's on my time and my terms. Do you thin...

His mum treats him awful and he's started to take things out on me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7110 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Me and my fella have many ups and downs. The problem is he finds it hard to stand up to his mum. She throws him out and calls him worse than s**t. It really does get to him but lately he has been taking things out on me. What can I do? He is ...

He claims he only comes around because I "pester" him. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Please help. I've been seeing someone casually for a while now. He won't commit to me, that's why it's casual. He says he doesn't want to be with me. I'm overweight (size 16) and he said, given a choice between me and someone whom he cybered ...

She's madly in love with me and I don't know how to say I want to break it off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7185 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have a problem with my relationship of 14 months. All the way through I've found it difficult to tell her how I feel. I have told her I love her and she has said the same to me. She seems so happy and tells me all the time how much s...

Can I help my sister see that her b/f doesn't respect her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - Hi. My sister has been dating a guy who doesn't love, care or respect her in anyway. She has two kids for him. He is cheating on her, lives off her and very manipulating. The annoying part of it all is that my sister is 35 and does not want to ...

Since my b/f doesn't express his feelings, we're always breaking up then getting back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7185 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend seem to be stuck in a bit of a destructive pattern. We both love each other very much and get on great most of the time, but the problem is that he doesn't tend to tell me how he's feeling and lets it build up. We've b...

I can't fall in love with my girlfriend, and now there's a new temptation on the scene...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, For the last 6 months I have been seeing a girl who I like a lot but can't fall in love with. I do like her but no matter how hard I try I can't get any more feelings for her. To complicate matters further, I talk ...

My lying, grumpy g/f doesn't compare to the new girl, but I love her anyway. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - OK, I am going to be brief. What do I do? I have a girl I've been with for 5 years. We always fight. She has a very bad attitude and is always grumpy. She doesn't use much common sense and has lied to me in the past. I will not cheat on her and ...

My partner has moved in and out twice, now I'm an emotional wreck...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7187 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - Need advice on what to do about my partner. We were both with other people when we met 6 months ago, but we decided to rent a place together while we sorted everything out. I moved in with my 2 small children and he came for a week and then moved ...

I don't trust him and he grizzles if I flirt with other guys. Can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years on/off and we have had our fair share of ups and downs. I do love him and I know he loves me, but he is starting to change. He smokes cannabis (which I dont agree with) on a regular basis and I sometime...

I think I've put too much pressure on him for sex. Now he feels like he's performing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - I am in a loving relationship with a wonderful man! We used to have a fantastic sex life and all of a sudden it seems to have slowed way down! I'm not too sure of the reason, just normal for a relationship I guess... The question is how do I get ...

I love my partner but I'm having trouble dealing with our "part-time" relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7063 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - Hi, before I met my current partner I hadn't been in a relationship for a couple of years and never thought I'd meet someone so special. Things are not easy for us, as my partner has a young child. I was aware of this before we got together and ...

He told his ex he was through with me and loved her, but told me the exact opposite!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I had been with my boyfriend 4 months and we were totally in love. He has 2 children with his ex and told me he would never go back to her. Two days ago he told me she had asked for another chance and he agreed, he told me they were just tal...

Am I just over-reacting, or could my b/f be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7187 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I need some advice. I recently posted a letter asking about whether I was overreacting about my bf seeing/ meeting his ex gf without telling me. We had a discussion about it, he told me Ii had nothing to worry about, and he didn't tell me c...

I don't know how much longer I can stand my husband's lying, manipulative daughters!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7187 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - I think my step-daughters hate me. I feel like they conspire to get me and my husband into fights. They are continuously causing their own mother and her boyfriend relationship problems. They have no respect for other people's property. I personal...

His words say "I love you", but not his actions. I just want it to work out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7186 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Can someone please give me advice, I am with my boyfriend 3 years now and am finding myself getting really down and crying all the time. He is never home before 9 oclock in the evening, which is either working or in the pub, and when he does com...

I'm due to be married, but I feel like I'm missing the fun I should be having...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Hey. I am due to get married in 6 months to a wonderful man. When we met he was perfect, so much so that I gave up my life of having fun, drinking etc with my friends. I was only 18 when I done that. 22 now, and I feel like I'm freaking out about ...

Maybe I was too quick to ask her to leave. Now I regret it and want things the way they were!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7168 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Recently my girlfriend had a miscarriage, so she came and spent a week with me, to try and get over it. Over the week we had such a good time. Then on the day she was going home she must have got upset by something I did. So I told her to hu...

Feel trapped by the debts that my cheating, abusive boyfriend owes me but I want out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend owes me lots of money. How can I make him pay? He cheats, is mentally and physically abusive and I know I need to get out. I love him so much so it's so difficult to walk away. I feel trapped by the debts he owes me. Please help...

We were so good together for two years, but now I feel more like one of his mates than his girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7190 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. I am only 18 and my parents think this is just a crush. We have always been happy together my boyfriend and I, until lately he has become distant and treats me more like one of his guy mates. He ...

Since we broke up, it's like he's undergone a personality transplant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - A few months ago my boyfriend and I were in a fairly serious relationship and we mutually loved each other. Being only 20 yrs old, I foolishly kissed someone else whilst on holiday with my friends. I completely regret my actions but my boyfrien...

My boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him... but I still don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Will I ever trust my boyfriend? We have been together for nearly 2 years but I feel as if I don't trust him. My last serious boyfriend cheated on me loads of times but I never knew until after we had split up. He hasn't given me any reasons why ...

I'm so worried that my ex was cheating on me with both boys and girls. He says I'm stupid to worry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7040 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I'm gay,and afraid my ex-boyfriend was cheating on me with guys and girls! It's been nearly 5 months since my boyfriend dumped me and I'm finding it very difficult to overcome my despair and paranoia. There had been a couple of things that happened ...

He tells me what I want to hear when we're drunk, but I'm afraid he'll reject me when we're sober.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7111 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I have been interested in a guy on my course for over two years now. We have kissed a number of times and i really like him. When we are out drinking together with a big group he frequently tells me that he really fancies me and wants to take me out ...

We broke up and I'd like to get back together. Should I wait for him to make the move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7110 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend haven't seen each other in a few weeks. We had an argument but I want to make up. He told me to back off because he doesn't trust many people and finds it hard to get close because of his insecurity. Should I ring him or wait...

My boyfriend thinks our relationship is "a chore"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7192 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend says that our relationship is getting too much and is a chore. I don't want to leave him. What can I do?? Thanks...

He says he loves me, but he's just too tired for sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7183 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and we have an overall good relationship. Since the first few weeks of going out though, when there was plenty of passion in the relationship, our sex life has all but died on its feet. He says ...

Even though I knew he was a drinker and a cheater, it makes me so angry to know he cheated with her when he was with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7109 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - Had on/off partner for 18 years. Split 3 years ago, due to his drinking and cheating, although I was still heartbroken. Had separate houses, but still saw and slept together up til April 04. I thought he would come back to me but in Nov 04, we met ...

I'm "not the cause" of our separation, so what can I do to persuade him to come home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

19 March 2005 (?) - My husband has left me this morning for a trial separation as he says the he does not love me enough anymore. However he says that I have not been the cause. I am heart broken and want him home. What can I do?...

When my b/f cheated, he left another girl pregnant. He thinks I should be "over it" by now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7194 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for 5 years on and off. I'm at the point now though that I don't know if we can carry on. He has cheated on me twice. With the second girl, he left me and stayed with her for 8 months, but then got back with me. But when...

Things between my fiancee and I are strained and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7192 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - I have been seeing my fiancee for a year and a half. We got engaged 6 months ago. When we first met, life was great but I seem to be losing interest . Sex life is very low because she is either too tired or has a sore back . When I ask a question ...

My wife is getting romantic texts from a co-worker...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7103 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I`ve been with my partner for 15 years, married for 3years. We have 1 daughter. Like most relationships we've had our ups and downs. I recently found text messages and a letter from someone she works with expressing feelings ...

Hacked my boyfriend's email account, but I don't like what I've found!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

18 March 2005 (?) - I hacked in to my boyfriends email account (we've been going out for 6 months i hacked into his acount after about 3 months) I only did it to be nosy... but now i've found that he's on dating websites saying he is single and looking for someone. I...

She lies to me about the other guy and I lie to her about work and finances. Can we make this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7093 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am a male of 33 and just come out of a relationship of 4 years. It was going good until 18 months into it, when i cheated twice! I was also lying to her about financial and work issues! We tried to mend it but last August we split...

My b/f constantly tells me he loves me, but his actions say differently...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7098 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 7 months and I are going through a tough time. We are both final year students at university and recently i had a very surprising, nasty row with my housemate- due to the stress and personal nature of this i caled off the ...

How do I get back with the woman I'm willing to give up drugs and tobacco for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7192 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - To set the scene, I'm 24 this year, male and have now been through two emotionally-based relationships. For the past four years I've been taking various drugs to varying degrees - pot all day every day, but with a few forays into ecstasy, coke and ...

I'm so worried about my boyfriend's drinking and the way he acts when he's drunk...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend get on fantastic. We are really in love, but then he goes out with his mates a lot and gets very drunk. He turns into a nasty person towards me when I confront him about drinking and he shouts abuse at me and tells me to "fuck ...

I'm unhappy because I feel fat and blobby... and I'm afraid my fiance agrees.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - Over the past 6 months I have put on a lot of weight.(1 stone) I have always been Heavy but now I feel totally disgusting, and it is affecting my life, especially my love life. My Fiance of 5 years now prefers to look at internet porn instead of ...

When my girlfriend gets friendly, she gets VERY friendly... but then she goes cold again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7196 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - I'm a man in my late forties, been a widower for nearly ten years. My wife and I loved each other a lot. Two years ago I got my first girlfriend (a younger divorcee) since my wife; and we were properly together for about a year. A year ago she ...

He calls me from prison and we always row! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7196 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm having trouble with my boyfriend as he is in prison. Every time he rings me, he and I will argue and it's getting worse. It's like he don't trust me and he sometimes talks to me with no respect. Do you have any advice for me that you thin...