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writes: Dear CupidI am a male of 33 and just come out of a relationship of 4 years.It was going good until 18 months into it, when i cheated twice! I was also lying to her about financial and work issues! We tried to mend it but last August we split for 6 weeks and I moved out.I went to my parents and thought about what I really wanted, and it was X who I wanted to be with. So I harrassed her into taking me back but X kept saying she needed space, but I wouldn't give her that space and she agreed to try again and I moved back with her!She wanted me to get my own life and not always be in hers. Then about a month ago I caught her kissing another man outside her place of work and she told me it was nothing but a drunken kiss and was very sorry.I let it go and find her doing it again with the same man! She says that it was again a drunken kiss and he always comes to her!I check her mobile fone and find out that she has been meeting him on the odd occasion in a pub. He is married with 1 child.Now she told me that it can't work and she wants to finish with me. She kicked me out of the house 3 days ago and I was absolutely gutted!She is being quite nasty with me at the mo because she found out I was lying again.If I can't be with her, then I would like to at least make it up with her.Please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2005): You lie to someone on almost every major important issue in any relationship & you say you want help? What you need is a reality check. Get real & stop the lying - to yourself & to everyone who means anything to you.
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