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writes: My best friend was at school with me last year.He came back to visit me recently ... it ended up with us realising our feelings for each other and voicing them.We ended up kissing and he told me that he had fancied me for a long time.After this day out i have tried to get in contact with him several times. Eventually i got really annoyed and txted him expressing my frustration. He text me back claiming that we were still friends and that he would call me 'soon'. it has been seven weeks now and i am more frustrated than ever ... i miss our friendship and i cannot deal with him ignoring me. i txt him the other day in the normal way to see how he was and he hasnt replied.My friends claim that he is scared of commitment and that i should move on. I can do that but i am so upset at losing a best friend that i cannot just leave it.How can i approach him? Can we still be friends?
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reader, amite21 +, writes (4 April 2005):
I'm going to be brutally honest with you. When you cross the line of being friends into the dimension of something greater, you have to be 100% positive that the feelings are mutual. You screwed a friendship over chasing something that obviously was not there. You can't be friends, you know why, because you can't look at each other the same way any more. When you see him, you are going to think about that moment you had with him and that can mess with your head, BIG TIME! Heed my words and try to avoid this person unless you want to get yourself hurt. Best Wishes, P.S. If you see him every day, be a bitch and act like you don't care, play hard to get. That will get his attention.
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