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writes: Hi, I had been with my boyfriend 4 months and we were totally in love. He has 2 children with his ex and told me he would never go back to her.Two days ago he told me she had asked for another chance and he agreed, he told me they were just talking things through and he didn't love her; he just wanted to be sure. I agreed to give him time to clear his head and make a decision. He told that he had stayed on her settee the night and they didn.t have sex. Last night I rang him to see how he was. He said he was OK and was running a bath. In the early hours of this morning his ex rang and asked why I rang him. He had told her we were over and he loved her, not me. He told ME he loved ME, not her!It then came out that they had a relationship while he was still with me. It went on for a week, she thought he had finished with me! Everything he told us both was lies! He has made me feel stupid and lost us both. The thing is, he wants to meet me and make peace. What do I do if he says he made a mistake and it's me he wants? Do I give him a chance on my terms or walk away? I'm so in love with him and he said he's never cheated before but how can I trust him, especially since he has to pick his kids up every weekend? My head's in turmoil!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2005): Hello my dear, I was the ex also once upon a time and from my experience they always come running home. So do yourself a favour let him burn! If you do not, then trust me, you are the one who will be burning!!!!!
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reader, sammi +, writes (25 March 2005):
Sorry, but this guy sounds like a real jerk. If I was you, I would sit and think logically and decide whether this guy is worth all the pain and betrayal. Look sister, by the sound of things you are a great girl. I know from past experience that there are a lot of sexy and honest guys out there. My ex was my first sexual relationship and straight after he had finished having sex with me and I went home he phoned his ex at the time and asked her for more sex, and told her and that he wasn't seeing me in the first place. Even though I was a mess I finished with him and that's when I found Chris. I have never looked back since we have been together. That was 3 years ago so there are plenty more fish in the sea. GOOD LUCK honey. I hope you make the right choice!
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