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writes: Hi,I'm having trouble with my boyfriend as he is in prison. Every time he rings me, he and I will argue and it's getting worse. It's like he don't trust me and he sometimes talks to me with no respect. Do you have any advice for me that you think might help save our relationship? Thank you
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Jamie, writes (16 March 2005): Giving you my honest opinion, I would have to say get out of this relationship. Just because he's having a bad time, doesn't meant that he can take it out on you. If you really love him though, tell him how you feel. It doesn't have to be face to face, or over the phone; why not write to him? If his reply is to get angry or to try and turn it around so that it falls on you, you really need to think about whether you really want to stay with him. Trust your head, try to ignore your heart for once! It will hurt, but it will be worth it in the end, I promise!
A reader, a Friend, writes (16 March 2005): mmmm, do you really need this man in your life? Ok I know you are going to say "But I love him" and thats great but if he feels the same way he shouldnt be calling and arguing with you on the phone.The fact that he is in prision is not really any excuse for taking it out on you, i'm sure you didnt put him in there. Men who are in Prison are ALWAYS going to get paranoid, they have countless hours a day to "think" about things. 9/10 they just torture themselves with thinking what you might be doing? who you MIGHT be with.. I think he may be feeling a little insecure, perhaps next time he rings you set him an ultimatim, tell him how you feel about him, reassure him that you are not doing anything behind his back, and if he cant accept that and treat you with a bit of respect then maybe its time to re-think going out with him. There are plenty of other guys out there, who will love and treat you with the resepct you deserve.Good luck.
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