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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. Sh...

It seems like my girlfriend is getting too close to her male friend, they act like we did when we first started dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, ...

My child's father treated me badly but wants another chance, but I'm with someone new! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - i got involved with a guy in the university and in our final year i got pregnant and asked me to abort and i refused by then i was 29years of age so i told my mum about it an she called him to asked if he knew i was pregnant for him,accepted and ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

What can I do? I'm in love with a man and I'm in love with my professor who is a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is...

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...

I can’t choose between two guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I am 14, and can’t chose between two guys, they are both my age. i have been going to the same school as one of the guys for about 13 years, and we know each other pretty well. We had a ‘thing’ in 5th grade, then he left for a year. He came back ...

Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I am concerned my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have had suspicions before as in our first year of University I heard him talking, drunkenly, to one of his other flat mates about how he would love to sleep with this other girl he lived with and ...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

Am I insecure about her sexual connections with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi guys, hope someone can help me on this one? So I've been with my GF for 11 months now and living together for 6 months. We dated on and off for 7 months owing to her going through a divorce at the time and me not wanting to commit to someon...

How do I deal or forget her past sexual experience? Because I really love this girl and don't want to lose her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - Okay well I have been dating this girl for 2 months and i have really started to love her she is the first girl i have ever wanted to say i love you to but when i start to think about her past with all of the men she has slept with it really ...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

I am in love but he doesn't want to commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I'm in love with someone who at the moment doesn't to commit to a relationship. Right now, we both are good friends, we help each other, hang out, text and call each other regularly. We have grown to trust each other and have each others'backs. When ...

Did I miss my chance with her by waiting too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - "Dear Cupid" or whatever, I really like this girl, and we're in a complicated situation. Well, I am in band and I play trumpet, and she was on dance team, and I have liked her since the first week of school. Well, after our first home football...

He cried, real tears, but guess what!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of ...

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basicall...

How can I deal with this? He's blocked me off all his social networking sites because apparently I "moan" too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - I am 19 years old and have been in love with the same guy since I was 13. I've never been with another man and we have never been friends always more but on/off as he often goes with other women. I'm so close to him and his family and for a strang...

Two guys and me. I love them both. But how can I handle this situation when school resumes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - ok....so i am i guess your could say in love(just for the sake of simple words) with two guys. one guy i have dated about three or four times but i have broken up with him after a week or so because my best friend likes him. so i dated one guy ...

He's still with the other girl. I told him I can't be with him if he's still with her. Should I stick to my words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - hey everyone.. i recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again.he has been dating another girl since the breakup he said that things have not been good with them for a long time and that he want's to breakup with her but he doesn't know how to gent...

I do think he's cheating on me again. Should I believe him and trust him still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - I have no clue what to do. In August my now boyfriend went of to college - the same one that I used to go to. Before he left we were together for 3 months and he said that he loved me and I loved him back. So anyways a week or two after he left...

I'm just so hurt to be walked all over by not one, but two men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 November 2012 (?) - Okay, so, I have a tricky situation. I was in an abusive relationship up until recently (end of October). We got into a HUGE fight (physical and emotional) and here's where I'm lost... my ex hasn't even tried contacting me to apologize or get his ...

Will I make a fool of my self if I try to fix this relationship? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - my ex and current guy i was dating became good friends. i have done something so terrible. i recently came out of a long relationship with my ex and fell in love with someone else. he was a really nice guy he really really was in love with me. he ...

Her Bf is stationed overseas. Should I just try to keep it as friends, or should I try to take advantage of this night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) - Hey all, so any help on this issue I'm having will be much appreciated. I have no clue what to do anymore. So, this is relatively going to be a long story. My freshman year (I'm now a senior) I met a girl who was a senior at that time. Me and her...

Child's father's wife is trying to raise my child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - Hello, My problem is with my child's father's wife. I don't mind her being a part of my child's life because that is his child. The problem is that when it comes to communicating with him about our daughter, she speaks as though she is the father. I ...

Are the intentions of this man innocent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - I am attracted to a man who happens to be married but will not ever do more than occasionally think about him. He has always been kind of flirtatious and he gives me vibes and looks of admiration. I always hear his wife criticizing him over the ...

Can I get another male perspective on my complicated situation??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

13 November 2012 (?) - Can you give me a male perspective? I've been dealing with the issue of my brother in law and I having feelings for each other. I've posted questions and I've thought a lot about this but im struggling to imagine the situation from my husbands...

She's great, but my friend still has feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - so i met this girl who is the one i have always wanted to find,we have so many things in common that it's scary. our conversations are magical, but here is the problem. she and one of my best friends had this thing a couple of months ago, nothing ...

Is my girlfriend into this other guy? Is it reasonable for me to feel jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I think she may be into another guy. I'm usually not jealous and don't know why I'm starting now. Whenever I havea hunch like this I am usually right. He has an Orchestra class ...

I've fallen in love with my older brother's girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) - Ok, well all type this kind of long and kind of short so fell free for any advice. Well, I think I'm falling in love with my older brothers gf. It did not happen at first, I really love this girl. I don't know how to deal with my feelings any more...

My girlfriend broke up with me for interfering with her job

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

12 November 2012 (M) - Hi There, I wanted to get your advice about a bad breakup I’m currently going through. I started dating my co-worker after I resigned from the company. Even before I resigned her work schedule bothered me. Our manager would call, text, and IM her...

Should I worry about my boyfriend's desire to have sex with another guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is a wonderful guy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. He isn't gay or even bisexual, guys themselves make him uncomfortable sexually, but he's really attracted to penises. Which probably seems weird. I know he's ...

Two years after breaking up we are still having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - I am In Love with my ex of five years we only been broke up for two and he has a girlfriend and I have been having sex with him cause I love him alott when he leaves me I am sick to my stomach I can't even sleep. I ask him if e loves her and he ...

Is it cheating if your husband encourages it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

7 November 2012 (?) - What should I do? My husband of almost ten years and I talk about everything. He knows exactly what I like and he satisfies me but I have been having a fantasy about being in a threesome. My husband likes the idea but doesn't think the other guy ...

My "bad boy" past is catching up with me and I'm going to lose my girlfriend because of that. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

7 November 2012 (M) - Dear Everybody, I met a wonderful lady at the beginning of the year. She means the absolute world to me. To give you a bit of background. She is currently seperated. She has 2 beautiful children and her ex husband works away alot. They se...

My girlfriend developed feelings for my friend so she dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. We had our occasional fights, but nothing ever too serious. She recently became closer with one of my good friends. I didn't mind them hanging out at first, but then it started to become more ...

Help, I'm still in love with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4389 days ago

5 November 2012 (F) - hello =) ! well ,my ex boyfriend and i are friends now ,so he came to me asking for help , he wants to get back his ex gf and i'm cool with , but the problem is i'm still in love with him ,and he loves her even if she left him for another guy , so ...

I pushed her away but I have another chance, what do I need to do to make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 November 2012 (M) - First, thank you for reading. This has been hard for me so far and I appreciate any advice. I am 26 and have been dating a 34 year old with a 5-year-old daughter for just shy of a year. She was married and got divorced about a year before we g...

Do I wait around or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - My bf and i were together for 6 months living in different cities, mostly me traveling to see him and spend days at a time with him. Within the 6 months he bought a house and slowly wanted to spend more time with his friends then me, when im the one ...

Should I be mad because my bf and his ex are good friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I´ve got this problem almost year and a half, since I´ve been dating my bf. The problem is, he´s stayed a very good friends with his ex. They chat on internet very often, she called him when her boyfriend after mine broke up with ...

His friends come before me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. I have had difficulties with a couple whom my boyfriend knew before me: I had a sexual remark made to me by the couples husband. I made this know to the wife of this man. She severed communications with me. ...

Girls with boyfriends: would you ignore another guy who had a crush on you and not say you had a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - I would like to know if any girls out there who are in a relationship ignored another guy that they know had a crush on them and not tell them that they were seeing someone? Why would you not just tell the guy who has the crush that you are seeing ...

She used to be promiscuous so I want access to her online activities!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

4 November 2012 (M) - Is it okay for me to ask my fiancee to look at her emails, texts, and facebook one time? I will gladly let her look at mine. I am engaged to woman w/ a very promiscuous past and want to confirm that she will be faithful by asking to read h...

My 19-year-old daughter who has learning difficulties and autism, is involved with a married man. How do I make her see sense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

3 November 2012 (M) - I'm concerned about my 19-year-old daughter who has learning difficulties as well as autism. She's in college studying hairdressing. She's got a new boyfriend, who's 25, and I've only recently found out he's been married for 2 weeks - and the man ...

Am I being too controlling with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hi, so iv been with my boyfriend now for two years and i am starting to feel very jealous and controlling over him i don't like him going out with his friends recently he said he was going to a gig with a girl friend of his and that i wasnt allowed ...

I don't want to be just friends. But how do I get past the fact that I think she's in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

2 November 2012 (M) - I'm 16, and I really like this girl who's the same age. She goes to a different school than me, so it's not possible to see her every day. She is already in a relationship, but we talk at least every other day. She hasn't told me she is in a ...

Which guy do I pick? I want a guy who treats me well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

1 November 2012 (F) - Hi I met dis guy in 2005 wen I was 15 we dated for 2 mnths but brok up due to family pressure sayin am 2 young den I relocated to anoda town in 2009 where I met a semi educated guy who cared and luved me I lost my virginity to him we had a quarel ...